hanhan
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cappy and first impressions-cappy guys plz come in
There was no bad impression, at least not from what you shared here.
Unless you're okay with FWB which I don't believe you are then there really is no need to bait him back in with flirting and sex.
If you want a relationship with a man then don't waste your energy on this guy.
Don't sell yourself short by giving your power away.
If his penis isn't pointing in your direction then moooove on because if his penis was standing at attention every time he see you he'd at least try harder but given he's not trying all that hard then his penis isn't all that interested. It happens...Next.
Unless you're okay with FWB which I don't believe you are then there really is no need to bait him back in with flirting and sex.
If you want a relationship with a man then don't waste your energy on this guy.
Don't sell yourself short by giving your power away.
If his penis isn't pointing in your direction then moooove on because if his penis was standing at attention every time he see you he'd at least try harder but given he's not trying all that hard then his penis isn't all that interested. It happens...Next.
Compass penis I think. 😛
He tried his luck, you said wait. You are in the friend zone or he will use the power he has now (that you are giving him actually) to keep you as an option.
Stop the kinky texts and either enjoy him as a friend or let it go. You are trying too hard and he has already lost interest.
I know I would.
There is nothing more annoying than someone that seems to play a game. Not ready for a kiss, but you do send him sexy messages. That's just confusing and probably more trouble than it's worth. In his mind.
He tried his luck, you said wait. You are in the friend zone or he will use the power he has now (that you are giving him actually) to keep you as an option.
Stop the kinky texts and either enjoy him as a friend or let it go. You are trying too hard and he has already lost interest.
I know I would.
There is nothing more annoying than someone that seems to play a game. Not ready for a kiss, but you do send him sexy messages. That's just confusing and probably more trouble than it's worth. In his mind.
+1 Tigercap
The penis does the picking period. The brain decides if it's going to be FWB-just sex, something more or an open possibility of more later on.
Once FWB has been established for him the inconsistent behavior sets in, no more being 100% available because he does not want to give her the impression he's going to be consistently available which would fall more in line with being a boyfriend , he is not trying to be your boyfriend.
If he was truly interested in developing something more with her having a real "relationship" would not be off the table.
When he took the possibility of having a relationship with him off the table it was over for him and for her.
Once a man friend zone you, back all the way up away from him unless of course you're okay with just being his fuck buddy...
The penis does the picking period. The brain decides if it's going to be FWB-just sex, something more or an open possibility of more later on.
Once FWB has been established for him the inconsistent behavior sets in, no more being 100% available because he does not want to give her the impression he's going to be consistently available which would fall more in line with being a boyfriend , he is not trying to be your boyfriend.
If he was truly interested in developing something more with her having a real "relationship" would not be off the table.
When he took the possibility of having a relationship with him off the table it was over for him and for her.
Once a man friend zone you, back all the way up away from him unless of course you're okay with just being his fuck buddy...
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