Composites Help.. Venus Square Saturn? Doom?

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uptempo19
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Can anyone tell me if this is usually a doom in a relationship? Venus Square Saturn..

Here is my composite chart with my girlfriend..any help will be great..

Composite Moon Quincunx Pluto
Composite Mercury Conjunct Venus
Composite Mercury Square Saturn
Composite Venus Square Saturn
Composite Jupiter Square Neptune
Composite Sun Square Uranus
Composite Moon Square Mercury
Composite Moon Square Venus
Composite Moon Sextile Jupiter
Composite Moon Opposition Saturn
Composite Mercury Trine Mars
Composite Mercury Trine Neptune
Composite Mercury Sextile Pluto
Composite Venus Trine Mars
Composite Venus Trine Neptune
Composite Venus Sextile Pluto
Composite Jupiter Quincunx Pluto


Here is the synastry:
Scorpio Female:
Sun position is Scorpio
Moon position is Cancer
Mercury position is Scorpio
Venus position is Scorpio
Mars position is Aquarius
Jupiter position is Pisces
Saturn position is Sagittarius
Uranus position is Sagittarius
Neptune position is Capricorn
Pluto position is Scorpio
Asc. position is Capricorn
MC position is Scorpio
2nd cusp position is Pisces
3rd cusp position is Aries
5th cusp position is Gemini
6th cusp position is Cancer

Me:
Sun position is Cancer
Moon position is Taurus
Mercury position is Cancer
Venus position is Cancer
Mars position is Leo
Jupiter position is Aries
Saturn position is Sagittarius
Uranus position is Sagittarius
Neptune position is Capricorn
Pluto position is Scorpio
Asc. position is Scorpio
MC position is Leo
2nd cusp position is Sagittarius
3rd cusp position is Capricorn
5th cusp position is Pisces
6th cusp position is Aries

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there's no relationship that's doomed from the beginning since there's at least theoretically some free will available aside from the fated karma
still, some aspects are indeed more challenging
the info you posted is incomplete (chart missing, houses, only partial aspects are shown)
it's actually not that bad. there's some serious Saturn there with the opposition and the squares, which will definitely point to a feeling of responsibility, even burden, however Saturn is really good in terms of binding people. I've seen it recently, you can have Sun conj Venus and Jupiter in a composite, the chart that was missing Saturn didn't last, the commitment, the effort to build things together was not there.
I used to be more pessimistic about Venus sq Saturn, but I've seen a couple work it out really well. Try to keep away from becoming too much of best friends to not kill the romance
I don't really look at synastry that much, I think it's overrated since it's the composite that ultimately shows how the relationship will play out
Best of luck
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I'm sorry to hear that
Truth is, nobody knows the percentage of free will vs fate in a relationship. Some long or short lived major life relationships are karmic, and there can be payback involved
Some aspects are truly difficult to deal with.
Ex. the Moon Mercury Venus square Saturn may be easier to endure if both are Capricorns, or have strong Saturn, or NEED a Saturnian relationship in their lives. And you look at their chart and can't believe how they seem to thrive .. Otherwise, Merc sq Saturn is the signature of depression, Venus sq Saturn can be pure friendship, and so on. Don't be sad, your life awaits 🙂 and someone is there for you
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Venus Saturn, Saturn Neptune, Saturn Chiron are problematic aspects because the partners take turns in being a fearful Saturn reacting unconsciously to protect himself from hurt. Somehow a flirty Venus can stir our deepest fears of not being accepted, being left alone, not being loved, even being abandoned. So what do people when they're afraid like that? They sabotage their own relationships.
With Venus-Saturn in a tense aspect we may set ourselves up for failure through projecting that fear. These mechanisms are usually at work without us realizing; we have veery little control over them
An approach that helps: try to act in the best manner that makes you proud of yourself: even if things don't work out, there's good karma to be won