Do you enjoy being the scales?

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phoenix_rising
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My sun isn't in Libra, but I thought I'd chime in here regardless since I have so much Libra in my chart.

I feel like although the Libra in me makes me likeable to other people, because I come off as social and polite and what have you, it makes me not like myself sometimes...I hate the fact that I have a hard time making even the simplest of decisions; I hate that I am way too nice to people who don't deserve it sometimes. I hate that I avoid conflict when it needs to happen (Libra), yet unleash the fury of hell out of nowhere sometimes when my temper is short (Scorpio).

So, it's got its ups and its downs.
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Phoenix..
I hear ya girl. I sure as hell can relate to those characteristics 'cuz I tend to have them. And I too have questioned myself about my thoughts and tendencies but, you no what? We're just going to have to accept and embrace ourselves for who we are. And the great thing is, that you're able to identufy those patterns about yourself. Many people don't know themselves so well.
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You know, my best friend is a Libra, and she is the most confrontational, opinionated, decisive, quick-minded, and quick-tempered person I know. She's the antithesis of diplomacy.
I guess her chart has a whole lotta something else in it, but it's a rare moment to find her unsure or undecided about anything. Sometimes I feel like she's the real Capricorn and I'm the real Libra. She's the ambitous one with the college degree and the business/social savvy to bank a killer career. I'm the one that's got a heap of talent, but doesn't quite know what to do with it.
... Actually, I don't know if that's a true Libran trait or not, but I'm pretty undecided about a lot of things. I think, partly because I over-analyze every option and situation and possible outcome to death. (... and am lacking slightly in conviction.)
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Well this is interesting.. I'm Virgo with Mars in Libra. Which means I do analyze everything.. and Libra~like, nothing is black or white. (Unfortunately). Like Phoenix, I dislike confrontation, and YET.. do one or two things on "My IRK List" and I'm all red faced & foaming at the mouth. I uhm.. do a great Puffer Fish face. It's awful.

I've come to realize people will be as they are. It's much easier just deciding what you can handle, for yourself and the one's you care for. Of course, with Virgoans.. the one's cared for are a small group. Guess that's where the good taste comes in. (Grin)
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i suppose acoording to abook i have libra nad caparicorn but where i don't rember but i lucky have some piscies. i fnid that i do anylaze things. but i do and find bouundaries such as black and white. But until i go to and get a chart done i won't entirely sure.
but slone. That makes since about embracing ur self and not caring that is how u have to do to survive in this world.
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I've thought about that (getting my chart done). I'm not sure how much I believe in astrology, although I see alot of me in my sign. I have to assume others see themselves.

I can read other signs and Know "I'm not that way".. so there much be Something to all this. It's a good starting point. I've finally met at least one person in nearly every sign. So far, they also resemble their signs, to a degree.