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I am sorry you feel this way. I am a scorpio , and I'm very sensitive and loyal and don't wish to hurt ANYONE. Yes, we can be moody and want to be by ourselves at times. I try and make myself very aware of my actions and how they affect others though, and hope that I don't cause anyone pain. I know I don't enjoy feeling it. Give us scorpios a chance, we're not all that bad. Take care.
hey, dear, i feel your pain. i was so badly hurt by a scorp that i can't recover still.. seems like he has fucked up my mind so bad that i cannot have a normal relationship anymore. whatever i do, i always have in mind what this baster did to me.. on top i am with scorp again - it's an obsession. take it easy, get cold, and he/she will be all over you again. don't give it up though - if you become loving again, he/she will become the same b****. good luck to you babe.. talk to me about sorpio poison..
So that's how to deal with a scorpio? Give them a taste of thier own cold medicine?
Okkaaaaaaaayyyy.
I am totally confused here!!!! What on earth did this Scorpion do to you? I am a Scorpio and have never hurt any guy I have had a relationship with! Please explain and maybe I can be of some assistance to you! What I have learned along the way is that relationships are relationships and people are people-regardless of their astrological signs!!!! Sorry that you are in so much pain! Let me know if I can help!
I agree with the scorpio above. I too am a scorpio, and would not intentionally hurt anyone. I have known many scorpio men , and I think they are very intense, and you have to know how to handle them. Regardless of how cold they appear, they have lots of emotions going on inside of them. They also fear YOU hurting them first , and maybe they shut you out when things get overwhelming. Trust me , libra men can cause pain too. They are very flirtatious, and you never really know if you can take them seriously. They also like strong willed women who are not fake in anyway. Don't ever let them walk all over you , and don't lie to them. Most of them will not openly confess their undieing love for you either.
if you, scorps (the ones above) have that kind of freaky love to everyone, no normal libra will stick to you. we are well too refined for your pervert taste..
whoever wrote that above .....thanks for the good laugh. I am a scorpio female and we are kinda freaky ha ? Guess that's why my libra guy is into me.
Oh , and by the way ...what is it with you libra women? You always have to be in such competition with other women , and you have such an insecurity to you and have to be talking s*** about someone else behind their back. Most guys are not attracted to that superficial bullshit that goes along with you , and maybe in the beginning they will fall for that phony charm but will eventually see through it. Oh well...us scorpio women don't need all those false pretenses.
Whoa! Ladies! Calm down a minute! Let's face it-not all Scorpion's are perverted and distant and not all Libra's are insecure and fake! We truly have one thing to agree on, though...most MEN are insane (whatever their zodiac sign) and they drive women to pit against each other!!!! I have read a lot of posts from women on this site and they all say the same thing...why is he so cold, insensitive, uncaring....he left without a trace, broke my heart, dumped me! Guess what, ladies, they are the same on all sites here on DXP..
Scorpio, Aries, Libra, Aquarius, etc...just read them and you will see that men-regardless of their sign-for the most part-SUCK! That is all there is to it!
-Scorpio Babe
Hello everyone. I am the one who started this post and first of all, some of you automatically ASUMED that I was talking about men. You're wrong. I was talking mostly about the Scorpion women. Although I just had a fall out with a Male scorpion friend who was very cold to me, and I can take a berated comment from anyone, I'm not a weakling, however, in the past 10 years or so, every, and I mean EVERY scorpion female I have worked with or befreinded has been very difficult to deal with and the characteristics that I mentioned above were traits that ALL OF THEM SHOWED. Let's face it, and I am not saying that Libras are perfect, no one is, but Scorpions and Librans just don't mix.
Libras....
Again, I have to disagree! Scorpios and Libras can indeed mix and have wonderful relationships! My best friend of over 20 years (we met in kindergarden) is a Libra and I, a Scorpion! We have many traits that are common-like loyalty, honesty, strength and endurance! It may help that I have a Libra rising sign and she has Scorpio rising! But whatever the reason...we have had an unbreakable bond throughout the years!!! Please, My Libra Friends, don't give up on all Scorpions...we truly are not all bad!
-Scorpio Babe
Hi Happy Libra here,
First I want to get with the person that said the following:
Most guys are not attracted to that superficial bullshit that goes along with you , and maybe in the beginning they will fall for that
phony charm but will eventually see through it.
For one thing DON'T put every Libra female in the same catergoy. Your the one that was too scared to leave a NAME!!!!!! Shows who's superficial?! And for the original question, I can't stand most Scorpio females. They are back stabbing, sneaking and jealous, the most two faced sign I ever met. The ones I ran into I did not like because of their saracastic BIG MOUTHS!!!! Also the ones I met where real jealous and miserable. I haven't felt their suppose to be STING because I treat them the same DAM way COLD!!!!! So as you can see I clash with them also, and I'm the type of Libra female that will give them the run for their money!!!!! So don't worry there is other people out there that is more easier to get along with. Leave them in their own miserable, jealous and sneaky world you don't need them!!!!!!
First of all , why would I be hiding ?? I"m on the net so what could you possibly do to frighten me? My name is Christy, and I'm not talking about every libra female , but for the most part, they seem to have to be the center of attention and bat their eye lashes and have every guy bow down to them. I had a libra friend who would not have a girl friend who had bigger boobs than she did. She could not handle it, and she had to think she was the prettiest one at any party. Speaking of two faced ! Many libras are sweet to your face and stab you behind your back. At least with us scorpio women , we don't play those games...least not for long. You generally get the impression we either like you or we don't! Yes , some scorpios might be intense , deep and moody, but trust me libras are not without their faults either.
Hey Happy Libra, you're so right. I applaude you for your thoughts and feelings because they're "right on". As for you Christy, you mentioned how some Libra chic had to be the center of attention? Are you sure she wasn't a LEO? Or perhaps this girl has LEO RISING. You should find out. But let me tell you one thing and whatever you have to say in defense will make NO difference toward my firm convictions: every scorpio I have known has been a miserable ball breaker and yes, even YOU yourself admitted that scorpios are jealous and miserable. My last boss, a 32 year old scorpio was THE MOST JEALOUS and HATEFUL person I EVER MET IN MY LIFE. No exaggeration here. Even other company staffers complained about her. She was your CLASSIC SCORPIO. And yet, you admitted it yourself, jealousy and misery is thier middle name. Well have you ever given thought to how the act of jealousy can really f*** things up for other people? If you study Sociology, jealousy is way up there with all those destructive emotions that put a wrench into relationships. I guess scorpios kill relationships, so there you go...And guess what? Us peace loving and alacritous Librans are all about relationships and keeping them together. THAT'S WHAT WE CARE ABOUT! You guys destroy relationships. So go ahead and b**** about this, but I won't listen. I know what I know.
I've never fucked any relationships up. I don't have jealousy issues myself because I know who I am and where I'm going. As far as the jealousy thing goes .....libras can be quite jealous as well. Libra women want to be number one ,and you just can't take us scorpio women getting in the way !
By the way , I never said a thing about scorpios being "miserable". That was your term.
welllll, aren't we sounding a little miserable now, aren't we?
I guess I can say the same about yourself
Well Ladies....
I am bailing out of this one! Funny...as I was reading the last few posts-instantly-what came to my mind is sterotyping (another sociology term that is destructive)! Catogorizing people-by trait-in any large group is irrational...and I know that you must know that! People will be people-whatever their sign-good or bad! And when it really comes down to it...we are sinking to the levels of:Whites against Blacks/Germans against Jews/and to our nations horror, Arabs against Americans....REALLY-are we not smarter than that——
-Scorpio Babe
But it's true. I'll even go on to say that it's true that Librans tend to be indecisive and weigh an argument on both sides. So there. Call it stereotyping if you want, however, we really are all different "Types". And besides, since this is the Libra post specifically, you should know by now that you're most likely not welcomed here. They DO have a Scorpio post you know. I think it's best that you mingle with your own kind. Many Librans will agree.
Good idea. Let the Libran post be for Librans only.
LibraWoman
WOW!!! That was really RUDE of you!!! I post on both Scorpio-and-Libra sites because I am a Scorpio with Libra rising ...so I find both sites informative-and I believe that one should be welcome to visit and share ideas on all sites on DUNCAN! That was truly uncalled for....I do not feel that my posts warranted that type of response-but-like the logical/mature adult that I am...I will chalk this one up to the behavior of a few
rude individuals and not judge the entire Libra population for it!!!!!
-Scorpio Babe
Re: Isn't Duncan himself a Libra?
Posted by Unregistered on Thursday, October 18, 2001
Happy Libra here to read NO NAME aka Christy again!!! You seem a little upset? Seems as
if you are fitting the Scorpio stereotype I mentioned. You ranked on libra women saying that
they think their all that, to me this seems to be what! JEALOUSY? And after that you got an
attitude because I replied to your statement. Is that a other sign of what?! MISERY!
Uh......you need to check yourself. Were just hear speaking our opinion your the one that
ooooovvvvveeerrly upset! What did you expect? No one would reply to your remark?
(SARCASTIC) If you can take remarks without getting aaaaallllll upset DON'T say anything in
the first place. Is this OVERREACTING!!!!! Have a nice day anyway, ha!ha!ha!
You're making yourself sound like an a**.
You Libra Chics are a bunch of b******!!! What is the prob? No sex? Bigtime weight issue? Men think you are a cow? What gives here?
Grow up!
Happy Libra here, to say it takes an a** to know one.
Happy Libra here!
What your mad now, ha!ha!ha! It doesn't mean sh... to me, try it with someone else. Can't take it then keep you friggin mouth shut!!!!!!!!!
"Happy" Libra (you sound more like a "miserable"-your favorite word-b**** to me!) You are embarassing yourself (and all other Libras) with your childish comments! Hell-that is an insult to children everywhere!!! My 5 year old son has more sense than you! Here is a quarter-why not go out and get yourself a clue with it! And while you are at it,why don't you STOP speaking for Libras-you look like an idiot!
Happy Libra here again, and for one thing I can speak for myself, for two your the hostile one. Every since you started commenting on this remark you were hostile. Look I'm not going back and forth with you, because you seem like you want the LAST WORD!!!!! But your still upset!!!! O'Well!
lol..you crack me up "happy libra" ....sounds like the only upset ones on this site are the "libras" 🙂
(Cameron)
I am an Aries!!!!
Since Scorpios are a part of the Mars family, I am taking their side!!! Hey, by the way.....I THOUGHT LIBRAS DISLIKED CONFLICT!!! Well Libras, looks like the Scorpio has won the figth at your own site!!!!!!! You should know, the two signs that you should never mess with are ARIES & SCORPIO!!!!!!!!!!!! Watch ya' back!!!!!!!
Well , Christy the scorpio here ....oh and by the way, thanks Aries. We know fighting comes natural to us. Plus us scorps can be just as charming as any libra without all the false pretences. Oh well, happy libra don't get yourself all worked up now. Have a drink and put some lipstick on and you'll feel much better 🙂
Okay, you are both embarrassing yourselves and no one else here.
We can find better things on which we can focus our productive energies. Shall we talk about the weather?
I am a very likable Libra and I am the one that said earlier that whoever the scorpio was that posted the unecessary scathing remarks before ( my post) was that they were making themselves sound like an ass--a very vengefull a** at that. That's one attribute known to Scorpios--being vengeful--I sure as hell ahve known many. I wouldn't tell a libran they're making themselves soundlike an a** cuz, 1) they just don't and 2) gotta stand by my sisters and brothers. So, being venegfull and vindictive will not get you anywhere so I strongly suggest that scorpions (especially Christy, she's been really bent out of shape about this board) and Aries people b**** about librans on THIER OWN MESSAGE BOARD! Go ahead, just don't do it here. This board belongs to fellow librans who want to correspond with thier own kind. And, no matter how hard you try, you won't have the last word.
You Libras are a HOOT! When I was little and I didn't like what someone had to say, I told them to get off my property! Isn't that what you are doing? Can't match a battle with your wit-so you scream and cry and tell us to "GO AWAY"!!! No wonder you can't get along with Scorps (or probably anyone else for that matter) you guys are a bunch of immature babies! Maybe we should ask Duncan the purpose of this message board! Sure it was intended to share ideas-not to tell other signs to go home! Maybe-DUH-if you hadn't-DUH-posted-I hate those f***** scorpios-we wouldn't be attracted to this site-DAH! Because believe me-you Libras are psycho! Maybe you should find a web site for 2 year olds-and there you will fit right in!
Silliness..really. Both sides. Libra female here.
REALITY: Signs aside..whenever you get too big for your britchers...someone or something ALWAYS comes along and levels your arse right on out--REGARDLESS of your sign...
GOD IS THE BIG CHEESE...and if you think you're bad because you're an ARIES, SCORPIO, WHATEVER..then you're really dillusional.
Alot of huff on this post when the reality is clear: people are people..good or bad, there are good and bad in every category, etc.. so traits may be similar, but generalizations are bull.
Oh, and for future reference: Never underestimate ANY sign. You may get more than you bargain for all the way around. (if you're smart, you know this already)
oddly enough-my best friend is a scorpio and even though we're different--No greater Love is this that a man/woman lay down his life for a friend. That's how I feel.
don't you gals have something else to do? you're ridiculous.. scorps suck and that's it. that's why everyone hates you. wonna fight - we don't give up easily, ladies. let's fight then!
another libra here.
Why is this Christy b**** following me from message board to message board talking sh**! DAM your that
hard up? Your the type of b**** that man left with a libra female and married her, left you with a fatherless child.
Your the b****that need Prozac. Or is it your f***** momma b****. Worry about your bastard child and not me b****!!!!
I tried to be nice by stepping off but you keep at it. Happy Libra speaking for herself now what b****! (Phila. representing)
Aries and Scorpios are SUCKERS!!!!!
Let me clear some air if I may. When I started this message, I was simply venting my anger about several Scorps who reallly hurt me coldly without even apologising. It tends to be a pattern for me-these people of the same sign, however, I will admit that I am sure there are some good scorps out there--especially the one who said earlier she/he had Libra rising or whatever. Yes, I too have gotten along with just a few scorps but haven't been able to get too close. I have been so misjudged and misunderstood by that sign in particular that i can only conclude that it's best to not associate with someone of the scorpio sign. My very own brother is a scorp and we were never close. We "get along" cordially but never got real close. No big deal. Also, I have to say that, if by chance I came along the Scorpio message board and saw a message that stated a deep resent for Librans, I wouldn't make much of it. I really wouldn't. Because you scorps have as much right as anyone else to voice your opinions, right? And I respect that, so please respect our sign to voice out opinions about other signs or people. This board does serve a means to discuss difficult relationships, not just scorpions, but all signs and people. All walks of life. Hope you understand. Thanks. A Libra girl.
This is Christy here to tell "happy libra" girl that she needs help. She is rude and crude (shocking for a libra lol) and she needs her mouth washed out with soap. Oh well , she's probably some ghetto chic, and I was hoping to have a much more challenging conversation , but she just stomps her feet and pouts ! I guess you can't expect much from an uneducated girl.
Christy hon, you really need to talk about this on the Scorpio post. You just might get others to agree with you.
I'm not asking for your approval to be on this site !! Also , I'm not trying to get any libra to agree with me.
hey dear would you shut up if you would? gee, such a complex person with so many issues. you suck even if you were not scorp, ok? if you hate us that bad what are you doing on our discussion board? and, oh, who was the scorp with the libra guy, poor thing, you are being so f***** up - he's gonna use you and abuse you - just remember it. i can imagine you - ugly dark chick with not too many friends and lots of issues.. adios muchacha..
diva
Ahhh Diva let's get one thing straight. First of all , you're an idiot ! Second of all , I'm about as fair complected as they come.....but I wonder how many dark libras you offended lol. Third , if anyone gets used , it won't be me. This guy told me out of all the women he's known, I am the only one he could see himself with long term. That's because I'm fun, exciting and damn good in bed !
Christy, when I said "to get others to agree with you" I was talking about OTHER SCORPIOS.
By the way Christy, I just read one of your recent posts and you mentioned in a derogatory manner that Happy Libra Girl is probably "some ghetto chic". Regardless of Happy Libra Girl's ethnicity, does that comment mean you don't like Black people? It didn't sound nice to me-assuming that HLG is some "ghetto chic". You don't even know who she is. You should be damn careful and perhaps you need to have your mouth washed out with soap, hmmmm?
I totally agree. Being (or remotely sounding) racist is very uncool.
LibraWoman
ok let me rephrase my wording to all you touchy libras ....ghetto chic may sound a bit harsh. I have no idea what color happy libra is ,nor does it make a difference to me. She just brings to mind something off of "jerry springer". I am in no way racist by any means. I am a scorpio woman who has a heart of gold. I am also a woman who speaks my mind , and if you can't deal with it .....well then , so sorry.
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All they do is hurt you. Even the so-called "sunny" scorpios become cold, non-communicative and friggin moody as
hell. Shall I say "bitchy"? Forget about 'em, yup, that's what I say. You get hurt once by a Scorp, you're sure as hell to get hurt again!!!
Too bad about Julia Roberts.