Done with the Pisces... giving a fellow Taurus a try.

As the title states is apparently clear why the Pisces appears to have been playing mind games. I started discussing making plans for either Thanksgiving or Christmas and she once again became distant. We spoke tonight due to me trying to get the bottom of and over the most recent rut and it turns out she doesn't know what the hell she wants. She stated her life is currently a train-wreck and despite having strong feelings for me isn't looking for anything serious. I told her to think about it because this was the last time I'd take her back, then she couldn't make her mind up on us dating but nothing too serious or just being friends. I can't fault her for not wanting a long term commitment so we decided to stay friends... I've been bracing for this the past few days due to her behavior and realizing this has no long term potential unless she was willing to make some changes which she isn't. In other words I'm not really tore up about it. I'm just considering this a business relationship As long as I stay in good graces with her I can continue to order my weight loss pills and exercise shakes at a discounted price.

In the mean time I reconnected with an old high school friend and a few hour after agreeing to stay friends with the Pisces for business purposes I set up a first date with this Classmate is a fellow Taurean. Born 2 years and 4 days before me.

Take a look at the chart and tell me what ya think.

http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/astro/comp2f?d1day=18&d1month=5&d1year=1988&d2day=14&d2month=5&d2year=1986

Sorry for the run on sentences. All jacked up on monster atm.

wow good for you, we are amazing, enjoy your blessing 😉

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Hmm. From the looks of my chart I'm a Taurus Gemini Cusp and we both have Moon in Gemini.

Posted by Reincarnation
Such a loser.

Aren't you the dude who has been chasing that broad for the past 6 months - while saying ugly things about her?

Chasing, yes. Saying ugly things, no. Everything I've said about is has been true. She's obviously a little confused in what she wants. I know what I want so things ain't gonna work out.

About her*

Yep I dropped her quickly. Although she admitted our issues have been due to both parties she expects only one party (ME) to do any kind of maneuvering, bending over backwards to keep her happy. I've been constantly neglected so she doesn't have to move out of her comfort zone so it isn't gonna work out no matter how hard I try. She's an immovable object. In these situation I do move on rather quickly because wallowing over something I brought on myself ain't exactly productive. When it comes to women like this I usually have a few on standby, and I'm not replacing her. It's a date, not a full blown instant relationship. She's the one that said she wasn't looking for anything serious so you can't guilt trip me on this one Vixen. Nice try.

Posted by Hemispheres
Yep I dropped her quickly. Although she admitted our issues have been due to both parties she expects only one party (ME) to do any kind of maneuvering, bending over backwards to keep her happy. I've been constantly neglected so she doesn't have to move out of her comfort zone so it isn't gonna work out no matter how hard I try. She's an immovable object. In these situation I do move on rather quickly because wallowing over something I brought on myself ain't exactly productive. When it comes to women like this I usually have a few on standby, and I'm not replacing her. It's a date, not a full blown instant relationship. She's the one that said she wasn't looking for anything serious so you can't guilt trip me on this one Vixen. Nice try.

OP, you didn´t drop her quickly, you gave her every chance in the world. I am surprised you even suggested plans for thanksgiving or christmas after all you´ve been trhu with her.....
but it seems you finally had some kind of "clousure (sp) conversation" with the pisces and you know where you stand now........


Akka, the pisces stood up the OP numerous times, so he was understandibly somehow frustrated in his posts

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Posted by Hemispheres
Yep I dropped her quickly. Although she admitted our issues have been due to both parties she expects only one party (ME) to do any kind of maneuvering, bending over backwards to keep her happy. I've been constantly neglected so she doesn't have to move out of her comfort zone so it isn't gonna work out no matter how hard I try. She's an immovable object. In these situation I do move on rather quickly because wallowing over something I brought on myself ain't exactly productive. When it comes to women like this I usually have a few on standby, and I'm not replacing her. It's a date, not a full blown instant relationship. She's the one that said she wasn't looking for anything serious so you can't guilt trip me on this one Vixen. Nice try.

OP, you didn´t drop her quickly, you gave her every chance in the world. I am surprised you even suggested plans for thanksgiving or christmas after all you´ve been trhu with her.....
but it seems you finally had some kind of "clousure (sp) conversation" with the pisces and you know where you stand now........


Akka, the pisces stood up the OP numerous times, so he was understandibly somehow frustrated in his posts

There are always two sides of the story. based on what he has posted about her and the way he expressed himself about her, speaks volumes. How can a woman invest in someone who thinks and talks of her that way. I wouldn't - she picked up on it and took the form of an Ice.

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Akka, I know what you mean, but the OP was excited to meet her from the beginning and got frustrated gradually, when she stood up him numerous times with flaky excuses.... it went on for too long..... the OP wanted to make it work, he vented here, but his actions showed he was really interested even in love. The Pisces in this case was flaky and a liar........this going Ice is what normal pisces do, after they get disappointed. This lady was not a normal pisces, she didnt give the OP a chance to be together at all

The thing that frustrated me most was the wishy washiness and push n pull b.s.
I was very polite to her and even gave her great advice, don't use the L word and fall for someone so quickly if you're not looking for anything serious. Take your time I told her.... but in the back of my mind I was like no wonder you stay single for so long.

Things were great when we were just dating and hanging out however when the seriousness kicked in she started getting scared n ran off.

Welp looks like we are going to stay friends. She apologized for wasting my time and just laid it all out.

She wasn't playing me, it's not that she wasn't into me, she doesn't have time for a relationship right now. She's got a lot on her plate. Part of the court ruling for her having partial custody of her daughter is she must visit once a week. Her parents make her spend every single weekend with her or she'll lose custody. She got her current job from a temp agency and doesn't have 100% confidence in her job security and is currently in the process of starting up a NC branch of All Seeing Paranormal Society based her in Richmond, Va.

She said she needs some time to get her own life straight before being in a serious relationship, she just told me to continue on with my own life and maybe we'll meet up in a few years if he circumstances are right and pick things up where they left off.

In the mean time I'm just gonna focus on me.

Lord have mercy

why are you asking the internet about your date?

Not a Pisces bashing opportunity. She made it clear it wasn't that she wasn't into me, she's just too busy right now to emotionally and physically invest in a relationship, let alone a long distance one. It's pretty clear from the time we spent together and the passionate sex a couple weeks back there was something more there than just loneliness or obsession. Her mentioning us meeting up in a few years was flattering and felt nice but life ain't Hollywood. Well most likely never cross paths in a romantic sense again, the heart break is setting in today but it ain't horrible. I'm not looking at this as a waste, it's was great while it lasted.

On another note I may end up cutting off contact for my own emotional well being, she's been stalking the shit out of my dating profile in the site we met on.

Posted by Huldra

Leave my cancer Venus alone.... 😢

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Posted by Hemispheres
Welp looks like we are going to stay friends. She apologized for wasting my time and just laid it all out.

She wasn't playing me, it's not that she wasn't into me, she doesn't have time for a relationship right now. She's got a lot on her plate. Part of the court ruling for her having partial custody of her daughter is she must visit once a week. Her parents make her spend every single weekend with her or she'll lose custody. She got her current job from a temp agency and doesn't have 100% confidence in her job security and is currently in the process of starting up a NC branch of All Seeing Paranormal Society based her in Richmond, Va.

She said she needs some time to get her own life straight before being in a serious relationship, she just told me to continue on with my own life and maybe we'll meet up in a few years if he circumstances are right and pick things up where they left off.

In the mean time I'm just gonna focus on me.

Who the taurus or pisces??

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The Pisces if she doesn't keep blowing up my phone via peaking my dating profile 7 times in 11 hours.