So i've been seeing this libra guy for 5 months. we cooled it off about a month ago because i brought up that i wanted a relationship and he said he wasnt ready. He's opened up to me soo much and he has a lot of personal issues. He's told me i'm the only person he trusts and that he can be honest with. i've been there for him as friends but it's been somewhat difficult for me. i brought up the fact that i needed space and he freaked out. He's a pretty clingy guy... depends on me a lot. So he text me a few days after i said i need space and said he hates this and he misses me. Then 2 days after that he text again asking if all we need is space? or if this is it? He asked me he wants badly to make me happier and what he can do? and i told him that i want security and for him to basically be with me. He didnt respond to my text for awhile. Then i just hit a point of anger and called him to say it's over. I told him to not text me or call me anymore. He said this isnt what he wanted. and i said i can't do this anymore. he said he didnt know what to do and if he could call me later. but i said i just can't so he said okay and i said bye. I don't know if i did that out of anger or what... i'm starting to have doubts. DO YOU THINK HE'LL CONTACT ME? I MEAN HE'S A PRETTY CLINGY GUY AND IS MISERABLE WITH COPING.. I JUST WISH I DIDNT TELL HIM TO NOT CALL OR TEXT ME. I'M SCARED I SCREWED IT UP COMPLETELY. WILL HE CALL ME OR TEXT ME?? WHAT DO CLINGY LIBRA'S DO!?
HELP!! I NEED ADVICE ABOUT MY LIBRA GUY
he might contact you
but that has nothing to do with being a libra. that has to do with being a manipulative little bitch who wants to have his way. he wants you, but he doesn't want a relationship? sounds like an asshole. don't worry about screwing it up.
but that has nothing to do with being a libra. that has to do with being a manipulative little bitch who wants to have his way. he wants you, but he doesn't want a relationship? sounds like an asshole. don't worry about screwing it up.
That sucks!
I had one of those clingy Libras once... I couldn't handle him, I'm a Leo and too independent to be chained down. The clingy one didn't contact me, he was the type that couldn't bare to be alone so he went out and found someone else to cling to rather quickly. He told me he loved me the second our eyes locked and made me meet his parents and wanted me to move in with him after a few days and was planning our wedding in the first week!!!!
As for my current Libran head case... he's the opposite of clingy. I met him 8 months ago. It was intense from the word go but was too quick so we backed off and just stayed friends and would hang out almost every night talking til the sun came up. We stopped seeing each other for about 3-4 months. But he's been back in the picture for the past 2 months now. We live an hour apart so we dont see each other everyday anymore but he texts me most days. I don't have the guts to tell him i want commitment and a relationship so i applaud you for taking the initiative.
I love this guy more than anything... but he has no idea and I can't tell him. I guess there comes a time when the question needs to be asked before you waste too much time hanging around for someone who will never be ready....
I you find happiness with someone who will be and give everything you need and want. xoxo
I had one of those clingy Libras once... I couldn't handle him, I'm a Leo and too independent to be chained down. The clingy one didn't contact me, he was the type that couldn't bare to be alone so he went out and found someone else to cling to rather quickly. He told me he loved me the second our eyes locked and made me meet his parents and wanted me to move in with him after a few days and was planning our wedding in the first week!!!!
As for my current Libran head case... he's the opposite of clingy. I met him 8 months ago. It was intense from the word go but was too quick so we backed off and just stayed friends and would hang out almost every night talking til the sun came up. We stopped seeing each other for about 3-4 months. But he's been back in the picture for the past 2 months now. We live an hour apart so we dont see each other everyday anymore but he texts me most days. I don't have the guts to tell him i want commitment and a relationship so i applaud you for taking the initiative.
I love this guy more than anything... but he has no idea and I can't tell him. I guess there comes a time when the question needs to be asked before you waste too much time hanging around for someone who will never be ready....
I you find happiness with someone who will be and give everything you need and want. xoxo
thanks a lot for the great words... it's always nice to hear others opinions and get support/advise. He recently text me congratulating me on a new job. We set a few messages back and forth and he said he missed talking to me. I don't understand this guy.. It's like he knows what to say to drag me back in, then doesn't give me what i want. At this point, i want to stand my ground and just make him run after me. Any advice on how to do that? I'm at a point where i want him to know how it feels when the roles are reversed.

I Been with two libras, NEVER AGAIN!!! lol
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