SHOULD I tip his scales? lol

There is a libra male I've known nearly 3 months now. I was living with some friends of his and he'd come over every day and work on cars with them. With his shirt off. Sweaty, greasy, dirty...and did I mention his shirt was usually off? He's young, much younger than me. But he's a man. A sweaty, greasy, dirty mechanic 😛

I wasn't initially attracted to him. He is pretty but I was turned off because I thought he was loud and kinda full of himself. He can be a little rough around the edges sometimes. We're not afraid to tell each other to f*ck off but in a respectful way. We barely paid attention to each other at first but over time we became friends. We talk about everything...politics, religion, music, the relationships he's been in, the girls he thinks are hot. He hasn't had a girlfriend the entire time I've known him and even before that so he complains about not getting laid. I don't know why because the boy is HOT STUFF and he knows it. He says he wants a girlfriend but he's very shy and not much of a talker when it comes to hitting on girls. He'll take a girl he really likes out on a date and 3 dates later will still never try to kiss her. He spends his weekends at home.

I recently moved but we still keep in contact and he's visited me at my house twice. We've become closer friends but not too close. We keep each other at a distance somewhat. Anyway yesterday I invited him over to do a favor for me. We ended up hanging out and talking all night. I cooked him dinner and we watched a movie together before he went home. I told him in the past not to be a stranger and this time as he left he thanked me for inviting him over and said "If you ever want to hang out again, don't hesistate to call." I told him he should feel free to call if he wants to hang out too. The next morning he texted me "Good Morning" as soon as he woke up. He's never initiated a text or call to me before so I was surprised. I'm still thinking he just wants to be friends and I'm not sure I want anything more than friendship with him but damn, I can't stop thinking about him.

Do you think he just wants to be friends? How do I find out what's what with this guy?

Maybe you should just be friends for a while. Whats the rush?

That's how libras do. They're such weasels. Lol. 😛
They play the friend card until they have you where they want you.
& they know when they have you in the bag and it's the right time to make a move. They have like a 6th sense for this shit.

He's played it low-key so far...but trust me, that's about to change.
Now, you feel really comfortable with him - like you've known him for years. You're thinking about him all the time, but you're not even sure why? You're even questioning your feelings - you swear you don't like him like that...but you know you're lying to yourself.

He's weaseled his way in. You're done for. You'll be sleeping with him by his next visit.
Hahahaha. 😄

squeaky squeaky

The first time I hung out with my Libra solo I was unsure if it was a friends thing or potential bf- he later told me he had no intentions of hanging out with me as just friends. Go with the flo and enjoy his company, but I guarentee that beyound his sweet exterior he has other things in mind- wicked hot, definately recommend living a lttle- whats your sign?

I'm a pisces 😉

Umm, the next day I sent him a text and he sent me back a one word text. I texted him something funny back and he did not respond. Later I had to call him about an emergency situation with a friend of ours and he answered on the first ring. I kept it short and brief and only about our friend. He lingered. I hung up first. That night I had trouble sleeping and sent him a text about something funny that we discussed over dinner. He never responded 😢 What gives? Perhaps I misread him or is this some libra game? Anyway I'm gonna hang back and not call or text him anymore.

hmm they can be somewhat infrequent texters, not sure if this is a guy thing or a Libra thing. Either way take a step back, if he is interested trust me he will come back.

Yeah I notice that libras are kinda weird like that, well atleast libra men since I don't know any libra females. Libras are supposed to be talkers, right? But all the libras I know are a men's man and they are the strong and silent type...a man of little words, until you get them going on something they know. Also the libras I know don't communicate much via text, email or chat so I guess you are right. I'm surprised that the messages in the libra forum aren't all one-word posts 😛

Oh your a pisces? Yeah you'll be fine...

@sag89... i forgot to address your other comment. I'm not in a rush to hook up with him. I like being his friend and getting to know him. On the other hand, you know when you're hot for someone it's hard to just sit by them and try to play it cool. Anyway I haven't heard from him today so i'm just gonna put him on the backburner for now.

^Yeah, I know what you mean. Well, I think pisces and libras are very much the same in a lot of ways. It's an underrated combo but I actually have witnessed it work quite well.

Yeah I have this pisces friend that I thought was pretty hot and stuff so I didn't really have much guts to talk to her. But she talked a lot and we became good friends and now were really close. I do kinda find her attractive but i'm in no rush 😉

If you're going to "tip the scales" be prepared for hooks penetrated so deep in your brain you may never be able to get them out until you find another Libra.

Posted by Gemineye
If you're going to "tip the scales" be prepared for hooks penetrated so deep in your brain you may never be able to get them out until you find another Libra.

Oh I think if I tip this libra's scales, it will be the other way around 😛

Posted by Pesca75

Posted by Gemineye
If you're going to "tip the scales" be prepared for hooks penetrated so deep in your brain you may never be able to get them out until you find another Libra.

Oh I think if I tip this libra's scales, it will be the other way around 😛

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haha, you know what? I thought the same thing at first then the tables turned---COMPLETELY! I'm hoping it all works out for you 🙂