Help needed- to spank or not to spank...

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Angelpie78
@Angelpie78
13 Years

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Hi all,
Very new here and hoping that some people out there might be able to help me...
Been dating an older capricorn man for nearly a year, v much in love but he definately needs his own space and me being his first serious girlfriend for a while finds it difficult to open up... I'm an aries and fair to say I'm nearly always up for most things and I have been completely bowled over by the sort of sex we have- passionate, long, close and he's keen to please. Early on he started a bit of gentle strangling kind of thing- i liked that and he also likes spanking me which i love... But generally I'm submissive, however the other night I got a bit more rough with him and fondled him really hard which he was obviously really enjoying, I then started whispering would he like me to spank him, him being on all fours and me just spanking him really hard. Well, it was all too much for him 😉!!
The problem lies in that since then he has definately cooled and not called or sent loving messages... I think it's the first time he has ever let go like that-I haven't done that before but I feel liberated rather than bad... But have I scared him off?? Normally he's a control freak, own business etc.. Do you think he's ashamed of it?? Will it ever happen that he wants to be dominated or what? I feel confused as not sure how to handle it... Can capricorn men enjoy a different way of loving in a long term relationship than that of their public persona?? All comments appreciated... Obviously time will tell but just not sure- will he ever want me to spank him—!!!
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TaurusBadGirl
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I believe you should talk to him about it...Maybe he is ashamed. I just want to ask you something? You being submissive what made you react like that and spank him? Did he give you any kind of sign that he wanted it? Im submissive myself and I would never try that...Unless he asked me..But I doubt very much that would happen.(Big turn off for me) Dominant men usually don't go for that. Dominant male is dominant all the time. SO maybe he has a sub side to him and you helped him bring it out.😉