Help with a young Leo Man!

Hi guys, I'm 23, a Gemini, been with this Leo twice, he is almost 23. We met online and silly me jumped right into bed with him. He gave me compliments non stop. None about my personality... He is easy going, good looking, i would assume girls are all over him.

When we were talking sex wise before having it, i did say all men like the hunt and i wouldn't mind him hunting as long as he satisfies me. I was happy to start off with casual sex. Now that he slept over twice and i felt all the Leo tenderness, i realized i don't want to share. I do feel weird after sex with guys, slightly attached. This one was bad... I always messaged him first. Sometimes we would have a nice chat, but obviously after sex he lost some interest.

He cancelled on our second date and said we could have a date night another day and i made it clear that i am turned off that he cancelled short notice, but happy to give it a go if he is making it up to me. He said ok, but showed up 20 minutes late (picking me up from work, he did tell me when he was leaving home etc) and was wearing shorts and a tee, which didn't mean we could really go wine and dine (obviously wasn't trying to impress me), so we got take away and went to my place. This was the second "date". Going over to mine to bonk. Next day i was slightly off (PMSing as well), so i started the whole "will this go anywhere" talk. I know, too early, but i gave him a wrong impression by saying he could still hunt. He said i was quite intense but when i asked if he wants to start fresh, he said yes. Next day i messaged him with a clear intention to just wish him a happy day at work, but he didn't reply for a while and i said i might be busy on the weekend, does he want to catch up this week. He gave me a tentative and when i tried to clarify whether he was unsure - he told me to relax as it was only thursday. I flipped out and said i'd rather made plans with people who want to see me, not who are seeing if something better comes along first. Then i thought i was too harsh and said something after, he said i'm freaking out too much and we talked for a bit, he was asking me what im doing etc. Ended on me telling him im going to bed and asking him to let me know about sunday.

2 days i didn't message him. Sunday comes - i message late morning that i will be in the city in a couple of hours, does he want to catch up? No response... few hours later i've sent a couple more messages with no response. Next morning - no response. So ha

Next morning - no response. So hard to say yes or no, to not keep a girl hanging. I messaged that as he's not treating me with respect and can't give me what i want - i'm out. Goody me should've left it. Cannot. Messaged him later next day saying talk to me. He said it was uncool for me to react that way. He said he was sick and still is, i explained that i simply wanted an answer and i thought he was just being a dick to me. He said just relax and let me get better. I sent a couple more messages explaining myself and saying i know he's a nice guy etc but i won't be his second best, on which he said ok, i'll talk to you later. This morning i simply asked how he is feeling as he is unwell. Obviously he will leave me hanging. I'm not generally this nuts and all i want to do is to fix this, but i get a feeling if i don't pursue - he will just be happy i left him alone. I asked him a few times, if you don't want to see me - tell me, i will be off your tail. He didn't tell me that.

What the hell do i do?

@Jynja

Thanks. I do understand that I need to leave him alone but i'm just going NUTS. I don't know what's in this guy.

Is there any hope whatsoever or I completely doomed it? I'm happy to leave it and maybe hope he will message me in a week or so.

" but i get a feeling if i don't pursue - he will just be happy i left him alone"

Trust your instincts on this one, he will be happy

@annagemini Get off his tail. If a Leo man wants a woman, he will let it be known. He may not want to be rude.

Thank you everyone. Got off his tail, feel like a complete idiot..

Guess i just need to learn from this and get a grip.

Just reading how much you were texting him and your freaking out on him wore me out.

Let him be. DON'T TEXT HIM AGAIN.

There are plenty more men out there...

Just keep your cray in check next go around!