Hi! need your input....

Hi guys! i am a virgo/libra cusp (9/22/1987) whos been in a relationship with a virgo guy (9/03/1986)for 3 yrs. Everything is going extremely well considering how many other women have had problems dating a virgo male, for ex: the common disappearing act,not communicating feelings, etc. He has never done anything like that and we have never had any major issues. It actuallly worries me how well things are going and Im just wondering if this is too good to be true?? Can anyone give me any insight into potential aspects that may arise and cause problems in the future? i would greatly appreciate all your feedback 🙂

09/22/1987 Aspect 09/03/1986 Orb/Value
Mercury Conjunction Venus 4.44 120
Mars Opposition Jupiter 0.46 -79
Mars Square Uranus 1.11 -99
Jupiter Opposition Venus 1.02 -84
Neptune Sextile Pluto 0.00 50
Pluto Sextile Mercury 1.02 55

I did your astro report on cafeastrology and it seems pretty smooth. You have like no bad aspects involving personal planets😕 Although you might have some with the Moon(the report doesn't include Moon aspects). I'm not surprised everything feels smooth, your stressful aspects only involve Jupiter which is fairly harmless, although you may take some things for granted.

I'm don't know what it means when there are no stressful aspects in synastry. Nothing to complain about tho😄

Woops sorry, missed the Mars Square Uranus.

This will add excitement and frustration, simply because of the sheer recklessness of Mars and the instability of Uranus. There might be a struggle with independence too. I wouldn't care too much about that, there are far worst aspects out there tbh.

Thk u so much 🙂 glad to know there are no serious negative aspects...*sighs in relief*

Let me get this straight ....... there's nothing wrong with your relationship. In fact, it's so good that you can't even begin to identify problems.

So, you've come here to ask other people if they can identify a potential problem you might have? Just in case?



I used to work with this black guy named Marcus years ago, and we car-pooled for a time while his car was in the shop. And we had deep convos. One day I asked him if he gets discriminated against, and his answer was, "No, never".

My silence told him he needed to clarify (since losing my tongue isn't normal for me) .. so he added, "A person can certainly find what they look for. I don't look to be different, nor treated different because I'm not different."


Those weren't the exact words, but as close as I can remember ... the message was very profound, and I'm grateful for that lesson.


I see it here in this thread. You look for something to be there, and so it will be ... by virtue of you putting energy into pitfalls in your relationship to present themselves = they will.

Posted by P-Angel
Let me get this straight ....... there's nothing wrong with your relationship. In fact, it's so good that you can't even begin to identify problems.

So, you've come here to ask other people if they can identify a potential problem you might have? Just in case?



I used to work with this black guy named Marcus years ago, and we car-pooled for a time while his car was in the shop. And we had deep convos. One day I asked him if he gets discriminated against, and his answer was, "No, never".

My silence told him he needed to clarify (since losing my tongue isn't normal for me) .. so he added, "A person can certainly find what they look for. I don't look to be different, nor treated different because I'm not different."


Those weren't the exact words, but as close as I can remember ... the message was very profound, and I'm grateful for that lesson.


I see it here in this thread. You look for something to be there, and so it will be ... by virtue of you putting energy into pitfalls in your relationship to present themselves = they will.

🙂