Hottest Aspects to Have Between Partners!!!

What are some of the hottest aspects to have between partners? And do you find that these are typically the hardest aspect bonds in synastry to break with a SO?

Here is a list of a few of them.....Can anyone relate/any truth to them?

Man's Mars conjunct or opposite woman's Venus -This is great for sexual attraction and can keep these two hot for each other for the long haul. This aspect does not go toward longevity of the relationship.

Mars conj. Mars- Great sex as the sex drives are perfectly matched, but also some big fights.

Mars conj. Uranus- This makes for some instant attraction and lots of kink. Weird, taboo breaking, exciting sex.

Venus conj., square, sextile, trine or opposite Pluto- This is seriously attractive & potentially explosive combo. Power plays & extreme feeling come in here & the harder the aspect (opposition, conjunction, square) the more intense the feelings. Incredible make up sex here.

Mars conjunct, square or opposite Pluto- Watch out for this one. If it is the man's Mars making a square, opposition or conjunction to a woman's Pluto, this can lead to domestic violence. The square especially produces a volatile passion that often ends up in hitting or verbal abuse if the man does not handle his Pluto well. This is incredible, psychological passion.

Sun conj. Moon- This is not a hot, hot, hot, for you kind of conjunction but does lead to long lasting satisfying sex. If other good things are going on, this is a dream combo especially if it the man's Sun with the woman's Moon.

Ascendant conj. a sexual planet such as Venus, Mars or Pluto. This means the planet person is physically attracted to the ascendant person's looks & outer layer.

Planets in another's eighth house, especially Venus or Mars, also sexual planets conjunct, square or opposite someone else's eighth house ruler. Planets in another's 12th house, especially Moon, Venus or Mars.

Moon conj. Mars especially the man's Mars. There is a lot of sex here & usually a lot of children. The male has an unconscious desire to keep the woman pregnant. A lot of psychology in play when this aspect is present between two people. Can be very volatile.

Moon conj. Pluto- This is very intense & these two are attracted at a very deep level. The experience of this relationship is akin to sessions of psychotherapy. A lot going on here and the expression of the energy is often shown thru sex.

Iif anyone knows of any others...please add on!

My SO and I of 4 years have:

Mars conjunct Mars
Venus sextile Pluto
Venus conjunct Eros (His 8th house)
Mars (inconjunct?) Pluto-No violence or abuse though
Moon sextile Mars(?) (We also have moon conjunct moon, so it's something in our natal charts, also)
Venus trine Ascendant
His Venus is in my 5th house, mine in his 4th house
My mars is in his 5th house, my Moon in his 7th house

Posted by Fox
What happens when the mars is female in the mars square pluto aspect?

Fox...I couldn't necessarily find where woman Mars/man Pluto, but I did find this for you.....maybe a bit more insight where it doesn't have to be so threatening/violent...lol!

Mars conjunct, square or opposite Pluto

creates a very dynamic sexual tension within the relationship. There is an abundance of passion and intensity within the relationship that may be expressed healthily through sex. There is a strong likelihood that Pluto will feel intimidated at times by Mars forthright expression of sexuality and instinctive drives, Pluto may seek to alleviate these feelings through manipulation and power games which may be very dangerous strategy against Mars and may backfire big time. If Pluto is more honest and open about their insecurities they will find Mars less frightening and may learn to embrace that Martian energy not as intimidating but as a natural part of themselves expressed openly and honestly within relationships. Mars will also need to develop an understanding of Pluto??s fears and insecurities and to develop sensitivity. Mars needs to develop a less blunt approach here to not be seen as challenging or threatening. However it must be stated that dynamic aspects to Pluto will not make someone violent unless that is an aspect of their personality already, it may aggravate arguments but to what extent will also depend on the two people involved.

The conjunction means that there is an understanding of how both react to certain situations and events in life and this may mean both partners may be protective of each other. With the opposition there is A competitive aspect of Mars that may come out and Pluto will feel threatened at times. With the opposition this works better for Pluto in Virgo or Scorpio rather than Pluto in Libra who may feel very challenged by Mars in Aries. The square also works better if Mars is in a water or air sign that makes its energy appear less threatening.

Sun trine Pluto
Venus sextile/trine Psyche

I can personally attest to the Moon conj/square/opposite Pluto and the planets in 8th and 12th houses. His Pluto square my Moon which from the initial onset left me feeling very exposed, vulnerable, and emotionally drained....even with him just being in my presence...smh! Pluto loves to break down and rebuild all while exposing all secrets and those things hidden from the world and subconsciously even from ourselves. In these kinds of situations the Pluto person usually has the upper hand, however, can become a bit possessive and jealous even (even worse with a Taurus Sun.....which he is). On top of this, his Venus and his Pluto was in my 8th house & his Venus also in my 12th house, as well as his Moon in my 5th house (highly romantic and emotional placement) and his Moon also in my 12th house. Sorry but this was just wayyyyyyy too emotionally charged for me. I got to the point where I convinced myself he was "manipulating" my feelings....probably little truth to it since his relevant planets resided in my houses with the most emotional impact! All I know is that this was one of the MOST emotional charged rides I'd ever been on & would like to try to avoid it in the near or distant future! Not because anything was wrong....I'm just not used to be THAT emotionally charged & exposed & vulnerable all at once...smh!!! I became my own psychotherapist...LMAO!!!!

Moon/ Mars is the best ever.

Oh, I've got Moon square Pluto wih him, also

Oh my god I keep on thinking of stuff.

Venus sextile Pluto

I have the following synastry aspects with someone:
moon opposite mars
sun-mars (double whammy)
sun-pluto (double whammy)
sun-venus (double whammy)
sun-neptune (double whammy)
venus-uranus (double whammy)
venus-juno (double whammy)

No venus-mars or venus-pluto BUT in the composite we have
Sun, venus and mars conjunct (exact) in the 8th house
All three opposite pluto (exact)

It's an EXTREMELY INTENSE relationship - also very karmic.
Sex is rough and primal.
He has strong capricorn energy but can't keep his hands off me when I'm near him.
If we're in public he'll just drag me into a bathroom or something LOL.

The more sex we have, the stronger the bond becomes.
Gonna be very difficult to get away from this one.

Posted by Everything
@caia
No moon or Venus involved. I wonder if that makes you so raw. And not especially sensitive?

Are you both caps or what ?

Oh there's moon involved. I thought we were only listing the sexual aspects.

There's sun sextile moon.

Not sure what you mean by no venus. There's sun-venus both ways.

Oh and there's moon-venus. Damn I didn't see that one before. It's a square aspect though.

Posted by Everything
Oh sorry _?? forgot the sun-Venus thing. Shit you've got a lot going on. Crazy. Who's moon is sextile who's sun?

And you never answered the cap sun question.

My moon sextile his sun.

No we're not caps. He has a cap moon though.