Hi everyone! I came across this website trying to look for relationship helps. I am a 28 year old Sagittarius woman - I have every quality that any horoscope blog writes about a sag woman. I met a Libra guy - 3 months ago. He's 33 and British. We met accidentally at a work conference overseas although we stay in the same city and had a good connection with each other. After our initial connection, the Libra guy kept on texting me and chasing me in a subtle way until I met him for a date. And since then, our chemistry flew off the charts, we couldn't keep our hands off each other and met the next day and I had two very wonderful days of my life. He then went on a vacation for 3 weeks and our 2 night stand grew into a relationship over hours long skype chats everyday and texting all the time. He would be so romantic and charming, talking about future trips and being exclusive to me - he literally charmed me into falling for him deep. But at the same time, his immediate boss and kind of friend, was trying to chase me also. And the 3 weeks away from my Libra after those 2 nights was didn't help! So, the boss asked me for dinners, movies, cooked for me, got me coffees, fancy dinners and shopping and you name it all.. but, me being an attention seeking sag woman - gave into the attention from the boss and hung out with him. All the while I was talking to my libra man but i was going out with his boss. One night i accidentally slipped and slept with my guy's boss but i told him it was a mistake and it will never happen again. But by then I had fucked up things for myself by being in two places.. by telling libra that i am deep into him and by going out with the capricorn boss and telling him yes, i like him but do not want anything with him except being friends. Ofcourse, the capricorn boss kept up the chase and I would be talking to both of them all day - one as a relationship and the other as a flirtatious fling. Then when my libra guy came back from his vacation, his boss went the same night for his vacation for 3 weeks. I know its so ironic! But these 3 weeks with my libra guy, I almost moved in with him - spending 5 nights and weekends together - but would still text his boss and talk to him once in a few days (although more like friends now and less flirtatious). I guess its very mean to say, but both these guys were as different as chalk and cheese - I was maybe at that time testing the waters to see who is a better guy for me. When the boss came back from his vacation, my Libra guy tells him the first day itself that he is seeing me as well as sleeping with me. The boss who knew i that fancied his colleague, but was taken aback that I was now into a relationship with his colleague while I was talking to him. But he took it sportingly, and told me he would not like to talk to me or see me one and one and I should forget what he was trying earlier. I guess i felt so bad for hurting him that I now tried to call him, text him everyday,
How to get my libra man back?
asking to meet me and even called him twice on my date night with my libra guy. In my mind, i was only trying to make sure he was fine because the boss had become quite a close friend in the process. Meanwhile, the libra guy and my relationship was kind of going down the drain - as I felt that he was not being as romantic or giving the attention as before and I had a serious of rows and arguments with him - always questioning his feelings and he would always tell me to go steady. I had to travel for work again and then disaster struck. The libra guy broke up with me on phone when i once again questioned his feelings for me. and he said he doesnt feel that this relationship is right for both of us - due to the arguments, and his work keeping him busy and ofcourse he cant keep the thought out of his head that i was hanging out with his boss when he was home. Guess he and his boss had also spoken about me but i dont know to what extent they had been transparent about it. After breaking up, the libra guy wanted space from me - but i kept calling him everyday asking for another chance. everyday for 6 days and i would keep pleading, and he would say no and we would always end up in an argument. He told me that i am not listening to what he wants, or respecting his decision and giving him space to think. When i got back after 14 days on a weekend (okay, we had a weekend stay cation planned with candles and wine which obviously didn't happen), he had my stuff packed - a few clothes that i used to keep at his place and other girl stuff and asked to drop me home. He didnt want to talk about us or anything at all and we had a horrendous argument where i cried and asked him for another chance and tried to even tell him to take it slow and tried to kiss him - and he responded to none of that. Today, its been 1 week that i have seen him after the last argument and i realize that i love him deeply and want him back. He doesnt want to talk to me, read my texts but doesnt reply and yesterday sent me a message saying that "100% he doesnt want to try again because he knows it wont work and he think we are not suited or meant because of those ugly argument that we had that made him feel like shit and loose control of himself. He said that he doesnt want to become that guy he becomes, when i was fight with him. he also said that he would like to be friends in some month's time but right now he wants to distance himself from me so that he can move on and forget this relationship and keep himself happy." I dont know what to do as i really really want him back.. Should i chase him or leave him loose or how much time / space should i give him or accept that he wont ever come back? (PS - I told his boss that i really love my libra guy, and i am sorry for being misleading in the early days - but i only want to be friends with him and be serious with my libra guy. yes, that was after the break-up and since then i have not contacted the boss and vice versa.) Help needed!!

Posted by dolluxeI agree. Sleeping with your love's Capricorn boss was an irrevocable mistake.Posted by panaYou're kidding right?
One night i accidentally slipped and slept with my guy's boss.
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