How to make an Aries male come back to me ?!?

I have been dating this VERY shy Aries male (Gemini moon) for about 2 months. I myself am a Leo (Libra Moon), he said he didn't want to get his heart broken and broke up with me, he has never had a girlfriend. I really don't know what the big risk is, he's so scared of getting attached to me, he's ruining his own happiness. What I don't understand is why he would want to keep in contact with me if he doesn't want a relationship. I'm very confused, what can I do to make him come back to me? What's wrong with him? I never think that far ahead when starting a relationship.. I usually dive in right away and think about heartbreak later. He said he's scared we won't be —forever?? .. I tried to convince him I will stay by his side but he stubborn and dead set on the idea that we will eventually break up.

what can I do to make him come back to me?

How old are you two? I don't really think you'll have to make him come back, Aries tend to make decisions without thinking.. I'm sure he's already regretting it.

Posted by AshleyLeo
I'm very confused, what can I do to make him come back to me?

Posted by AshleyLeo
what can I do to make him come back to me?

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I heard you the first time.

How old are you two?

BAHAHA, I am turning into an Aries.

If you're young, then he's shy and afraid and needs baby steps. Not sure why you can't graps that? Since he told you STRAIGHT UP.

Nothing is wrong with him.

he is 25 and I am 21

Shy Aries folks do exist.

Have some patience Leo..2 months is nothing (my aries moon cannot believe I'm saying this)

Posted by Damnata
Shy Aries folks do exist.

Have some patience Leo..2 months is nothing (my aries moon cannot believe I'm saying this)

Yes, we do. I wish more people knew about this.

I'm trying very hard to be patient but it seems like he won't come around, 25 and never a girlfriend? I don't know what he's waiting for ...

Honestly, if you switch that perspective it is really nice. Maybe he devoted himself to studies, maybe he is just shy. I know a Capricorn who's 30 and never dated anyone..really nice guy.

If you don't have the patience, don't date him.

Okay well first he was the one who wanted a relationship in the beginning and he was very open to being with me, we were just dating. And about a month into it things got sexual but we didn't actually have sex because he blew his load early ( sorry for the explicitness ) he was embarrassed but I reassured him it was okay and we were fine, but after that he started to get distant. I asked him what was wrong and he told me he was embarrassed that happened and he was insecure about it.. I have a very "fix-it" type of attitude so I just told him he shouldn't be insecure he can just look up exercises or something on the internet, and that It shouldn't worry him. Maybe that wasn't the response he was looking for. He's been rejected in the past and I was trying my hardest to let him
know that I won't do that ( rejected in general) he sent me this text as a break up I guess:

~~Ashley, you have nothing to apologize for. Your a successful, smart, beautiful woman who deserves a good relationship. I don't think i'm ready and honestly when I think about it I can't see myself in a long term relationship with you or anyone as a matter of fact. I guess I still want to date and see what personalities work out for me. I don't know what to say.. whenever we talk about this stuff I feel bad and depressed. I still need to get over you. I like you alot..but I don't see myself spending forever with you. I don't want to go any further, to have things fall apart in the end.

I said I understand and didn't contact him for 2 weeks

He texted me to see how I was doing and I said great

Lol sorry that was long ...