How to tell a person's love style by their chart

I'd love responses and expertise.

What do you look for and why?

What does each planet in each house say about their style of loving?

Tell me about yours.

Use whatever planets you wish but incide signs and houses and aspects if you so wish.

Only rule is, it has to pertain to your style of love.



Be well as always, and may the force be with you! Or the odds ever on your favor... Trying to end this on a good note.

I don't know about the chart but I know my observing people. If you are quite you want to be heard, if you are shy you want to be seen, if you are loud and aggressive you want to be in control, if you are creativity you want to be understood, if you are keen on knowledge you want to teach, if you are confrontational you probably only understand drama and if you are good at communicating a giving people attention then you also want that attention back in return. We all want some kind of mirror of ourselves in relationship and friendship even thought we need the new other personality traits that are in others as well. A peaceful person who is good at balance there thoughts and emotions would not do well with a manipulator who extorts emotions to take advance of a situation we can be different but birds of a feather in the end do flock together some how and in some way.

There is a book that talks about the 5 love languages and I think that it is pretty accurate of what I person wants and needs.