i contacted him on social media & i noticed...

so i reached out to this aqua guy on social media. ofcourse we wernt friends on fb, but after i messaged him he started to delete comments he made from his public posts and unliked some others too. I wasnt necessarily stalking him, but when the person has only 3 photos, me being super observant, noticed he did that after checking his pictures again.

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Unless he put you something that you don't read like Not restricted group.

But what's the history between you and him?

no they were comments on pics. girls posted comments and he replied and liked the comments. a day later the comments from him were gone and he had unliked the comments too.
& kinda awk. But hes my ex fiances brother. I messaged him months after breaking up w my ex asking about him & i let him know at the end that i only needed an excuse to talk to him.... he obvs didnt reply, but i wasnt expecting him to. but i do wonder if he would ever consider getting to know me. I know he finds me attractive cause my ex told me when we were together that he had gone upto him and told him so. Point is i want to know if hell consider getting to know me as friends ofcourse, i only know so much about him and this all could just be lust, so thats what im trying to figure out so i can stop daydreaming about the lad lol

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Posted by Binota
Unless he put you something that you don't read like Not restricted group.

But what's the history between you and him?

no they were comments on pics. girls posted comments and he replied and liked the comments. a day later the comments from him were gone and he had unliked the comments too.
& kinda awk. But hes my ex fiances brother. I messaged him months after breaking up w my ex asking about him & i let him know at the end that i only needed an excuse to talk to him.... he obvs didnt reply, but i wasnt expecting him to. but i do wonder if he would ever consider getting to know me. I know he finds me attractive cause my ex told me when we were together that he had gone upto him and told him so. Point is i want to know if hell consider getting to know me as friends ofcourse, i only know so much about him and this all could just be lust, so thats what im trying to figure out so i can stop daydreaming about the lad lol

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Your wanting your ex fiance's brother— That sounds pretty redneck to me.

Posted by exxtasyx
You girls these days need Patti Stanger in your lives. NEVER approach a guy or initiate the conversation first. Men like to chase, they don't like to be chased, it's a turn off.

but if the person wouldnt approach you first cause they dont know you enough, you have to atleast let him know youre willing to talk.

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Posted by Binota
Unless he put you something that you don't read like Not restricted group.

But what's the history between you and him?

no they were comments on pics. girls posted comments and he replied and liked the comments. a day later the comments from him were gone and he had unliked the comments too.
& kinda awk. But hes my ex fiances brother. I messaged him months after breaking up w my ex asking about him & i let him know at the end that i only needed an excuse to talk to him.... he obvs didnt reply, but i wasnt expecting him to. but i do wonder if he would ever consider getting to know me. I know he finds me attractive cause my ex told me when we were together that he had gone upto him and told him so. Point is i want to know if hell consider getting to know me as friends ofcourse, i only know so much about him and this all could just be lust, so thats what im trying to figure out so i can stop daydreaming about the lad lol

Your wanting your ex fiance's brother— That sounds pretty redneck to me.

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thats why i hesitated to contact him in the first place. But we dont control the heart, so dont judge . Theres no use in that

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Posted by Binota
Unless he put you something that you don't read like Not restricted group.

But what's the history between you and him?

no they were comments on pics. girls posted comments and he replied and liked the comments. a day later the comments from him were gone and he had unliked the comments too.
& kinda awk. But hes my ex fiances brother. I messaged him months after breaking up w my ex asking about him & i let him know at the end that i only needed an excuse to talk to him.... he obvs didnt reply, but i wasnt expecting him to. but i do wonder if he would ever consider getting to know me. I know he finds me attractive cause my ex told me when we were together that he had gone upto him and told him so. Point is i want to know if hell consider getting to know me as friends ofcourse, i only know so much about him and this all could just be lust, so thats what im trying to figure out so i can stop daydreaming about the lad lol

Your wanting your ex fiance's brother— That sounds pretty redneck to me.

thats why i hesitated to contact him in the first place. But we dont control the heart, so dont judge . Theres no use in that

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Not judging...

I know some redneck families where one woman has been married to all three brothers. I don't understand how that isn't awkward.

Posted by retrogradexy
He is suspicious of you.

what do you mean?...

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Posted by Binota
Unless he put you something that you don't read like Not restricted group.

But what's the history between you and him?

no they were comments on pics. girls posted comments and he replied and liked the comments. a day later the comments from him were gone and he had unliked the comments too.
& kinda awk. But hes my ex fiances brother. I messaged him months after breaking up w my ex asking about him & i let him know at the end that i only needed an excuse to talk to him.... he obvs didnt reply, but i wasnt expecting him to. but i do wonder if he would ever consider getting to know me. I know he finds me attractive cause my ex told me when we were together that he had gone upto him and told him so. Point is i want to know if hell consider getting to know me as friends ofcourse, i only know so much about him and this all could just be lust, so thats what im trying to figure out so i can stop daydreaming about the lad lol

Your wanting your ex fiance's brother— That sounds pretty redneck to me.

thats why i hesitated to contact him in the first place. But we dont control the heart, so dont judge . Theres no use in that

Not judging...

I know some redneck families where one woman has been married to all three brothers. I don't understand how that isn't awkward.

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I guess its hard for me to understand because i only have brothers, no sisters. And its not like i slept with the guy, i was waiting till marriage
but interesting info anyway

Posted by Arielle83
Really? Did she murder them one by one or divorce them?

She should of orchestrated a gang bang.

Divorced them one at a time.

Imagine a kid....this is my uncle...nope, my stepdad...nope just my uncle again. lol!

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Really? Did she murder them one by one or divorce them?

She should of orchestrated a gang bang.

Divorced them one at a time.

Imagine a kid....this is my uncle...nope, my stepdad...nope just my uncle again. lol!

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loooooooool

Posted by backtokemet
lol .. it's one thing to lust after a forbidden fruit and another to attempt to taste it

I believe you wouldn't mind being intimate with the AQUA as long as nobody ever finds out .. if you go down that road be ready to deal with any consequence

what type of consequences are you thinking about?.trust me i hesitated long enough to contact him, , im very very intuitive, and something was telling me i had to contact the lad. i couldnt ignore it any longer though i knew it was kinda weird to give into this feeling

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Posted by Binota
Unless he put you something that you don't read like Not restricted group.

But what's the history between you and him?

no they were comments on pics. girls posted comments and he replied and liked the comments. a day later the comments from him were gone and he had unliked the comments too.
& kinda awk. But hes my ex fiances brother. I messaged him months after breaking up w my ex asking about him & i let him know at the end that i only needed an excuse to talk to him.... he obvs didnt reply, but i wasnt expecting him to. but i do wonder if he would ever consider getting to know me. I know he finds me attractive cause my ex told me when we were together that he had gone upto him and told him so. Point is i want to know if hell consider getting to know me as friends ofcourse, i only know so much about him and this all could just be lust, so thats what im trying to figure out so i can stop daydreaming about the lad lol

Your wanting your ex fiance's brother— That sounds pretty redneck to me.

thats why i hesitated to contact him in the first place. But we dont control the heart, so dont judge . Theres no use in that

Not judging...

I know some redneck families where one woman has been married to all three brothers. I don't understand how that isn't awkward.

LOL truecap

You would know too

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redneck hillbillies? lol i dont'why but that reminds me of "WRONG TURN" film i saw and got scared. The cruel evildoers were brother sisters, mother father hving sex together, and thus why they turned the way they did. *smh*

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Posted by Binota
Unless he put you something that you don't read like Not restricted group.

But what's the history between you and him?

no they were comments on pics. girls posted comments and he replied and liked the comments. a day later the comments from him were gone and he had unliked the comments too.
& kinda awk. But hes my ex fiances brother. I messaged him months after breaking up w my ex asking about him & i let him know at the end that i only needed an excuse to talk to him.... he obvs didnt reply, but i wasnt expecting him to. but i do wonder if he would ever consider getting to know me. I know he finds me attractive cause my ex told me when we were together that he had gone upto him and told him so. Point is i want to know if hell consider getting to know me as friends ofcourse, i only know so much about him and this all could just be lust, so thats what im trying to figure out so i can stop daydreaming about the lad lol

Your wanting your ex fiance's brother— That sounds pretty redneck to me.

thats why i hesitated to contact him in the first place. But we dont control the heart, so dont judge . Theres no use in that

Not judging...

I know some redneck families where one woman has been married to all three brothers. I don't understand how that isn't awkward.

LOL truecap

You would know too

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I'm surrounded by rednecks in this part of the country. lol!

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Posted by Binota
Unless he put you something that you don't read like Not restricted group.

But what's the history between you and him?

no they were comments on pics. girls posted comments and he replied and liked the comments. a day later the comments from him were gone and he had unliked the comments too.
& kinda awk. But hes my ex fiances brother. I messaged him months after breaking up w my ex asking about him & i let him know at the end that i only needed an excuse to talk to him.... he obvs didnt reply, but i wasnt expecting him to. but i do wonder if he would ever consider getting to know me. I know he finds me attractive cause my ex told me when we were together that he had gone upto him and told him so. Point is i want to know if hell consider getting to know me as friends ofcourse, i only know so much about him and this all could just be lust, so thats what im trying to figure out so i can stop daydreaming about the lad lol

Your wanting your ex fiance's brother— That sounds pretty redneck to me.

Don't tell me it's different in north Texas!

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You know it's the same as where you are. 🙂

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lol .. it's one thing to lust after a forbidden fruit and another to attempt to taste it

I believe you wouldn't mind being intimate with the AQUA as long as nobody ever finds out .. if you go down that road be ready to deal with any consequence

what type of consequences are you thinking about?.trust me i hesitated long enough to contact him, , im very very intuitive, and something was telling me i had to contact the lad. i couldnt ignore it any longer though i knew it was kinda weird to give into this feeling

this could create bad blood between the brothers (if your ex-fiancé feels betrayed or disrespected) and who knows what this could lead to .. however your ex could think: "I don't care that much since I've moved on" and in that case I'm the one being overly dramatic lol

since you're going to act on your curiosity then just make sure you don't keep your intention of getting to know the AQUA hidden from the ex .. you don't want to look like a disreputable person unless you don't care

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My ex still wants me back till this day. But im honestly way past him. Idk, i guess ill never understand the problem because i dont have sisters.
Do you think theres a chance the brother might someday want to get to know me?

Imagine if you had an ex you still had feelings for and he starts going after your best friend. And your friend went for it. Would it harm your friendship with your friend?