I REALLY NEED HELP!!! Cancer bf not speaking to me

Okay. I have never posted here before so here it goes:
I have been dating my Cancer bf for 4 months now. We met in high school (11years ago) but reconnected via Facebook in March. He was perfect. We pretty much have a long distance relationship, so majority of our initial conversations were FB and email. Then he started calling me on the phone and we talk for hours sometimes a few times a day. Anything that would happen, he would always call me to vent it out. I usually do a lot of talking but I could just be quiet and listen to him all day. Anyway, he has gotten upset with me over something before and didn't speak to me for about 3 days. I emailed him and he finally responded and actually apologized to me saying he thought he read something on my fb and it wasn't what he thought he said he was embarrassed and mad at himself for being mean to me. This time however NOTHING happened, no fight, no argument. We have not spoken in 5 days(and for us that is unusual) and I don't have the slightest idea as to why? Friday night we were supposed to hang out (Hes back in my state now about an hour away) he said he was going to rest and hit me up. So I take a shower, get dressed and guess what? no text... so I text him saying wake up and whats the deal for tonight since I was driving there. no response. I got no response that whole night. The next day... nothing, but I saw a post by his mom on FB indicating he got in a fight Friday night. No contact all day Saturday but he did put on FB his phone was acting crazy. Sunday I posted on his wall saying "Good morning and to have a blessed day".No response. Sunday evening I put a pic of my new hair style on my page and he commented and said "I super love it, it looks so good. Almost as good on you as it does on me lol" So I figured he's not mad at me... or he wouldn't of commented at all right? Yet still, no personal text message. (That is unusual cause we text all day, all the time. We both initiate texts... me more than him but he usually always texts me back within minutes) Monday I FB messaged him just asking what was up with him? No response but he's been on FB. Is it over? Should I just wait? Do I message him again? I really miss him and I'm confused because everything was perfect before Friday. I don't want to bug him if hes in his shell but I dont want to lose him especially not knowing why. I'm a Scorpio Sun by the way with a Cancer moon. Hes a Cancer sun... Taurus moon.

Also.... He is always honest with me. Our communication has usually always been on point. I know that Cancers sometimes need to retreat... and he just got fired from his job recently and has court next week. So I am trying to not be selfish and think that maybe it has nothing to do with me and he just has a lot going on right now. I just feel abandoned and he won't respond to anything I'm saying so I don't know if things are okay or not. He has time to get on FB though so I know he saw my message and he has a way to communicate with me he is just choosing not to. It hurts being ignored like this. I haven't sent anymore messages or fb wall posts since Monday. I don't want him to think I don't care about him though. I feel damned if I do (send another message just to let him know I miss him and Im here for him)... and damned if I don't.

Stop trying to contact him. He knows you are trying to get in touch with him, he didn't forget about you. Let him feel you disappear for a change. If he doesn't try to contact you, leave it alone, he's not interested.

im a cancer female and idk how much diff it is from male to female but i don't usually ignore people i care for unless I'm mad at them or I'm not interested in them anymore. although we are generally honest people we don't like to hurt other people's feelings esp if we care or cared for them. and we do like when people pursue us more than us doing the pursuing for security reasons. but since everything seem to be going well than he just stop speaking to u for a that much time is strange. especially since he comment on your profile but hasn't responded to your text or fb inboxes. my best advise is to stop hitting him up and he will eventually contact u. I'm not sure if he's done with you but if you allow him to keep up with this behavior it will only get worst. if he does contact you tell him how you feel about him and how you won't take his disappearing act anymore. its other he wants you or move on!

Thanks @SensitiveCrab... I know he wouldn't hurt my feelings like that. It's really not like him. I know the time he disappeared before was because he was mad at me. This time though, I really am wracking my brain trying to figure out what I could have possibly done. It was so random. I just find it hard to swallow that for 4 months we have shared our lives with each other every single day just about. Texting constantly, sharing stories, making future plans, and we have hung out a few times since he moved back here and everything has been good. How you go from that... from being fine Friday morning... from us having plans for the evening then BOOM... nothing? The FB comment really threw me cause what was the point? Why comment how good my hair looked and how he loved it... but not respond to my inbox?

When a man retreats, let him. When he starts missing you, he will contact you.