Ghosting is a butterty move (as I believed and still believe) But you don't confront them about their ghosting (as I did (or didn't?(?))) You just tell them how *you* feel, and ask them what they feel about a date (as I did) Get your answer and move forward (as I did) Ghosting is completely reflective of them. Let them be butterty, grow up in their own time.
The nuance in what I suggested versus what you suggested was that I said to just ask him point blank what he thinks of the two being together. You don't ever confront the "ghosting" or "disappearing" to them. They have no obligation to you. You aren't committed.Ghosting is butterty. It's a juvenile, cowardly move. But it's their move to make. It's their choice.
Don't strong arm something into being. I dodged a bullet. Why? Because I didn't force what wasn't working. It allowed me to move on and find something better.
Dude...chill the treetrunk out 🤨
Wtf you being so aggressive...no wonder people ghost on you...jfc!
I said what I said...as a Virgo not a cusper 😉. Id personally want to be called out ....but excuse me your Virgo/Libra Excellency.. I was unaware that we are to do what YOU did... I will make sure I read the memo and never give my opinion again *bows in unworthiness*
Furthermore....take a mother treetrunking Xanax and go suck on a bag of dicks 🙂
I gotcha. No...you shouldn't put up with it and he needs to be called out or he'll keep doing it. You don't have to be aggressive about it...just explain logically that his disappearing acts aren't cool. I'm not really good with exact words to say because I'm a hot head ...and I get sarcastic and petty (leo moon, Venus and Mars problems 😂). Ive dealt with disappearing from a leo and now I call him Casper...it pisses him off and I find it hilarious 😂
Do you want to see a (single, not-yet-committed) Virgo run away fast as treetrunk?
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Do you wanna hold the mirror or do you want me to?