Whoa....holy manipulation batman!

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by LostinmyMind11 on Wednesday, July 18, 2012 and has 9 replies.

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@LostinmyMind11
15 Years10,000+ Posts

Man when you tell a cancer man no....they really tried and throw the manipulation at ya. I've never experience this aspect...I mean I understand it but still kind of shocking. sigh...if he knew me at all, he would know you cant manipulate a virgo :/

I still love all of you cancers though 🙂

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@blueshellcrab
14 Years

Cancer men do manipulate more than Cancer women.
They also do it for their own benefit. Cancer women in my experience have done it for the overall benefit. But as I said this is rare.

You can definitely manipulate a Virgo. The funny thing is that Virgo never catches on. Anyone can be manipulated.

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@LostinmyMind11
15 Years10,000+ Posts

Well yeah who wants to be told no...but you still have to respect the answer and not react in such a way as he did.

Yes anybody can be manipulated if you let them.

Well I'm not sure about the virgos you know...but myself...I can smell bs from a mile away. Not only was there the manipulating...he also tried to make me feel guilty, along with turning the situation around. He tried everything...as I sat back and didnt say a word lol. Then when we were face to face...I called him out on everything...he just sat there with a smirk on his face...smh lol

I was just simply stating that I've never experience this side (well not as much as he tried) and was kind of amazed at the effort he was making. Basically the reaction to telling him no.

But after all said and done...we're cool.

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@blueshellcrab
14 Years

LostinmyMind11 Your Cancer sounds like a real winner! Damn trying to make you feel at fault. Is he a psychologist?

Good for you that you can smell the BS. Smell it and go the other way!

It can be a cat and mouse game where the Cancer thinks they have the mouse. Until as you say there is so much BS the cat can not see straight.

^^^ Do you love my analogy or what?

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@LostinmyMind11
15 Years10,000+ Posts

I would run the other way...but we're too close of friends. I dont hold grudges and we talked it out somewhat and I understand where I guess he's coming from. But if it cont then I will have to end the friendship...I hate too but i wont deal with the drama.

and yes blueshellcrab thats a perrrrfect analogy lol...did you see whatI did there?! hehe

ok enough with my bad sense at humor lol

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@blueshellcrab
14 Years

I say go celebrate that you are free and don't let him in your pants!
Or better yet do some manipulation back if he tries to pull that shit again.

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@EISREGEN
14 Years500+ Posts

They respect no one but themselves. They need to get slapped hard. And everyone in here experiencing the same. Awesome. Its always the same Shit.
Hahaha ridiculous hoes