If you have a compatible Venus as well as Mars,

With someone, how strong is that attraction going to be? Always been curious.

I figured as much; makes sense. How about romantic feelings and attachment?

Posted by starlover
Yes romantic too but if you have a venus-pluto with someone and venus-mars that is pretty difficult to deal with

Hmm, interesting. I have a Scorp sun from my past who's Pluto is the same as mine and Mars and Venuses are extremely compatible.
So are speaking terms of Venus and Pluto working together?

Trines and sextiles aside, Venus opposition Mars is the most insane Venus/Mars aspect in synastry, fme. Sexual desire for each other through the roof.

Posted by starlover
I think the moon-venus is more romantic than the venus-mars which is more sexy

Hmm, yeah this could be why that Scorp sun from my past didn't work with me romantically long enough. My moon is Libra, his Venus Scorpio. Not great lol His moon could work with my Venus, though. I'm just trying to peel back the layers and see why I had attraction with certain people. It's interesting lol

Posted by Theatrum
Trines and sextiles aside, Venus opposition Mars is the most insane Venus/Mars aspect in synastry, fme. Sexual desire for each other through the roof.

Hmm...

What would say about this past connection I had?

Mine

Venus: Taurus
Mars: Gemini

His

Venus: Scorpio
Mars: Libra

Posted by xomelindabelle

Posted by Theatrum
Trines and sextiles aside, Venus opposition Mars is the most insane Venus/Mars aspect in synastry, fme. Sexual desire for each other through the roof.

Hmm...

What would say about this past connection I had?

Mine

Venus: Taurus
Mars: Gemini

His

Venus: Scorpio
Mars: Libra

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I can speak in general terms only. Libra Mars is charming and all but his combo is astrologically weak. Venus is insecure in Scorpio. I'm a Venus in Taurus as well and while I'm interested in trying out what a relationship with the opposite Venus would be like, so far I've only been repulsed by ViS. From what I've seen, they act rather barbaric in Venusian matters. No profoundness, no class. Mars in Scorpio is more my thing. I have my Venus in Taurus opposing a guy's Mars in Scorpio and that sexual desire is crazy. Mars in Scorp can't get enough of Venus in Taurus' feminine, gentle, sensual energy. Your combo is good tho. Superior to his in any case. So I assume the attraction was there but were you the one to end it? I think you were.

I'm never compatible with the people i'm technically compatible with in synastry.
My boyfriend and I are not compatible at all, when compared like venus to mars, sun to sun, etc.. and it works out very nicely.
I''ve went on a few dates with a gemini venus, libra mars guy. when i looked up his chart i was like, yes this is perfect!
the chemistry and attraction died though lol.

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Posted by xomelindabelle

Posted by Theatrum
Trines and sextiles aside, Venus opposition Mars is the most insane Venus/Mars aspect in synastry, fme. Sexual desire for each other through the roof.

Hmm...

What would say about this past connection I had?

Mine

Venus: Taurus
Mars: Gemini

His

Venus: Scorpio
Mars: Libra

I can speak in general terms only. Libra Mars is charming and all but his combo is astrologically weak. Venus is insecure in Scorpio. I'm a Venus in Taurus as well and while I'm interested in trying out what a relationship with the opposite Venus would be like, so far I've only been repulsed by ViS. From what I've seen, they act rather barbaric in Venusian matters. No profoundness, no class. Mars in Scorpio is more my thing. I have my Venus in Taurus opposing a guy's Mars in Scorpio and that sexual desire is crazy. Mars in Scorp can't get enough of Venus in Taurus' feminine, gentle, sensual energy. Your combo is good tho. Superior to his in any case. So I assume the attraction was there but were you the one to end it? I think you were.

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Hmm. I think we'll always be drawn to and attracted to one another but he pisses me off too much lol there's a part of me that's still sort of stuck on something about him, but he's not as open as I am. That's most likely due to my Libra, but I feel a bit more emotionally mature than he. Hopefully one day he'll pull himself out of his sea of meaningless sex and fear of being bonded; I have only seen him with a woman seriously once, and it was brief. I could tell he opened up to me for a second, then freaked. I feel as though he has no focus sometimes. I'm not entirely sure about the barbaric nature of VIS. He keeps thinks light a silly a lot of the time. So I can grow quite frustrated with him and throw in the towel a lot, even as friends. Because he's not consistent, mainly.

*keeps THINGS light and silly.

What in the universe is binding me to this person? I know he's not going to be good for me in the long run and I'm the one to usually say 'go away' or just ignore him, but something keeps the fascination brewing within me.

Posted by xomelindabelle
What in the universe is binding me to this person? I know he's not going to be good for me in the long run and I'm the one to usually say 'go away' or just ignore him, but something keeps the fascination brewing within me.

Opposites attract? 😛

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Posted by xomelindabelle
What in the universe is binding me to this person? I know he's not going to be good for me in the long run and I'm the one to usually say 'go away' or just ignore him, but something keeps the fascination brewing within me.

Opposites attract? 😛

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Grr lol his tendency to take things so lightly confuses the shit out of me, because I know he has to be deeper than that. But he acts so lighthearted. Could his Cap moon be playing into this? Be his shield, perhaps? lol Apparently, Venus being opposite someone's Pluto could create an obsession or fascination. Is this true? His Venus is the same as my Pluto but my Venus is opposite his Pluto. And our Plutos are the same 😛

Posted by faceroll
you need to give us degrees on your venus and his pluto. even if they're out of orb that's probably what does it. you really need to read about venus/pluto.

His Pluto in Scorpio: 5 degrees
My Venus in Taurus: 2 degrees

I did, deary 😛

Posted by faceroll
exactly as i suspected. and a close orb too so strong. google venus pluto in synastry.

Dude, it's intense. Even though he may keep things light and pretend he's unaffected a lot, he ALWAYS comes back. He used to try and hint at sex a lot in the past, but he's let it go for now considering I won't do that without a commitment to him. I don't trust him with my feelings that will occur in an intimate relationship. He's too confusing. It's a confusing obsession lol but even without the sex now, he still finds a way to reappear.

Just don't fall too deep into the "he has to be deeper than that" thought.

Posted by Theatrum
Just don't fall too deep into the "he has to be deeper than that" thought.

I mean I believe he's got to be able to attach more than what he leads on; his a Scorp Sun, Cap Moon, Pisces Ascendant, Scorp Venus, Scorp Pluto.

Right? Or am I just crazy? lol

Posted by faceroll
sometimes people are exactly as they show you. be careful to not convince yourself there's more there and he's just "afraid" or "hiding" it from you.

That can be true. My Taurus sun friend does not trust this Scorp sun; the Taurus has shared me with me that he thinks this Scorp sun is manipulative and sneaky, and has urged me to proceed with caution. My Taurus friend just knows how sensitive I am and the hold this Scorp can have on me, even as a friend. It's bad.

Posted by AquaMermaid
Leeb Moon stop procrastinating and choose one 😛

-hides- I'm not saying I want this Scorp, trust me. I want my Aqua. I'm just trying to determine why this Scorp has a hold on me. Because it feels awful, and I don't want this pull to continue 😢

Posted by faceroll
uh oh. more than one man.

scandalous ass leeb placements. 😄

😢

We're not romantic at the moment and I'm not sleeping around or anything; I'm stuck to him whether it's romantic or platonic.

I'm not scandalous when I'm officially bonded to someone! Taurus Venus loyalty, brehh lol

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Posted by AquaMermaid
Leeb Moon stop procrastinating and choose one 😛

I'm just trying to determine why this Scorp has a hold on me. (

Because you let him.

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Indeed. And our Venus and Pluto are opposites, and it's a very unhealthy, obsessive interaction. I have to get the guts to cut the ties officially.

Posted by faceroll
aw don't be sensitive, aries. i was teasing. notice the smiley. 😢

lol Apparently I'm not an Aries. Tiziani shared with me that considering my degrees in sun were so close to Taurus when I was born, I became a Taurus long ago 😛 either way. I'm sensitive haha 😛
Just teasing. You're fine!

Posted by faceroll
let us not speak of progressions. that shit has me as a gemini until i'm in my 50s. -.-

😭

😆 Well for ME it would personally make a bit more sense. Taurus seems like a deeper sign than Aries. Not dogging Aries at all ,but you know what I'm
saying.

Posted by faceroll
taurus isn't any deeper. trust me on this. it's just that taurus is generally more cautious. aries more impulsive. you seem to not want to own your aries. makes me sad. i'm aries dominant myself. and so are several members that have considerable depth. it's just expression not depth that is the issue.

i personally don't find water signs any more deep than anyone else either. though some of them act like they're the only ones with sensitivity or feelings.

a chart is a complex thing. so much more than just sun sign.

Yes, they are more cautious. I could see myself being more impulsive than cautious, so I'm probably still Aries. And I in no way don't NOT want to own my Aries, so don't be sad. 😛 I'm very conflicted with a lot of placements in my chart and I'm often left confused, hurt and looking for identification. Something in me needs to identify what makes me the way I am. All these emotions and thoughts, my busy mind and passionate heart. I'm always looking for a definition!
It's absolutely expression!

Indeed, water signs love to put themselves high up there. One of my sisters is water dominant and highly passive-aggressive, cold and mean. It hurts me deeply, but it is what it is.

Yes it's far more complex; hence my constant confusion lol

Posted by faceroll
you know you've given me hope that not all female aries on the board are the devil. LOL. aries hurt my feels like no one else does. cuz of all the conjunctions. but you're super nice. 😛

Hahaha aw well I'm glad! Blame my Leeb moon, many on this board have claimed it's much stronger than my sun. But there ARE great Aries traits. Just saying, you can't deny it. Libras are amiable 😛

Posted by faceroll
you know you've given me hope that not all female aries on the board are the devil. LOL. aries hurt my feels like no one else does. cuz of all the conjunctions. but you're super nice. 😛

I'm too sweet sometimes, starting to resent it lol

Posted by faceroll
you do realize you think your moon is weak but aries is one of the strongest suns because it's sun exalted. so leeb moon must not be so weak after all, yes? 😉

Haha, well I'm certainly not weak when it comes to expressing my feelings and the strength of my passion. Nor my protection of others. I just have the more submissive, gentle, pick my battles tendencies.

Posted by faceroll
a submissive aries. i can die tomorrow because at this point i've seen everything. 😛

Hold up now, I'm not ALWAYS submissive lol it's situational. And I have a Gem Mars too, so watch out 😛

Posted by faceroll
i find gemini mars highly underrated. though you guys could focus better. other than that i find it a strong placement.

Dude, totally. Why do you think I talk so much and am all over the place sometimes? lol Thankfully my Leeb moon allows for me to articulate things in a more refined manner but my Gem Mars wants to be EVERYWHERE and talking about EVERYTHING. I call it Mars ADHD lol
If I'm not busy, I withdraw; I'm either full tilt boogie or out of commission -- that energy needs an outlet!
DXP is perfect 😉

Posted by faceroll
gem mars also makes you say a lot of shit. i have a friend on here who i pm with back and forth a lot and we send massive ginormous walls of text to each other all the time. lol. talkative.

Precisely; I'll never shut up if I'm comfortable with you lol I want to talk all day sometimes. But that energy isn't always there. It diminishes if we don't have something to talk about or an activity, which then makes me feel depleted and sometimes sad.

Hw bout the mars js compstible with the vnus and vis versa but not mars n mars enus n venus?

Posted by faceroll
i'm fire dominant. fire mercury too. so air dominants i get along really well with. one of my closest friends is an airy pisces. we just get each other.

what's your mercury? i don't think you sent that to me yet. or at least i don't think you did.

mines aries. ftw.

I could see that, I have four air placements. Moon and Mars which you know, and my ascendant and Jupiter. I'm actually a Taurus mercury, which is odd lol considering I communicate very openly. Isn't Mercury based in communication?

Posted by faceroll
yes. mercury is communication. i think taurus mercury is better on masculine signs than it is on a taurus. i will get shit for saying this but there was a thread about taurus with taurus mercury being "slow" on the taurus board a few months ago. a masculine sun speeds things up considerably. all it really does is make you a more thoughtful speaker. and more sensitive. it's a good mercury for an aries. 🙂

That explains it!! lol You are really helping me identify aspects of the way I operate. Many thanks, dear! 🙂 I'm thankful to have my sun speed up the process, and my merc be more sensitive in delivery!

Posted by faceroll
give it a few months on dxp and you'll have most of it sorted out. just keep making threads and asking questions. 🙂

I shall. Clearly, I'm a diligently curious person lol 😛