is he ( still) interested?

Hey,
I am Aries born on 21.03.1990.
He is Virgo born 10.09.1989.
There was something intimate between us. We are friends. Since then our contact has become weird. Sometimes I feel he still likes me , sometimes he does not look into my eyes. I dont know what I expect. I dont know what he does expect. Probably nothing. ( because if he cares he would do sth more).
He had been observing me for a long time ( about 6 months). I was flirting with him online and in reality. On parties. Then we had sex and sth happened. I have no idea what he expected. Or how he felt. But next days I was overwhelmed with it and I kinda saw him being nice and caring of me. It was weird and too fast. We didnt talk about it.
And now I dont know what to think about it. I like him very much. Our common friend told me he doesnt want anything from me. But how she knows it. Its very stupid now. Its been one month. I should have done something. I dont know what.
Im stressed. Im out of company as well.

Its my natal chart :
and its his natal chart :

question asked 12:13 pm in Lodz, Poland, 17.08.2015

I dont think Aries and Virgo work together....

he has a cap moon and a libra venus + a virgo mars - he'd def go after what he wants. well I believe the libra venus can make him a bit indecisive but as I like to say - if a man wants you, he'll go after you. did you ever mention to him that you are interested in more than just being friends?

its weird because i saw him 'waiting' or looking for a occasion to contact me. never had a girl boy friendship' never talked on facebook like good friends with jokes.
when i saw him first time i liked him. and it was quite funny for me to flirt with him. and when we had an intimate encounter our common friend was so curious. it was so weird that she was asking me and him about 'us'. even when we were still in bed she was so curious that she was sending him stupid icons on facebook.
and next day when HE invited me over she had to come over as well. and that day she told me he doesnt want anything from me.
i was supposed to meet with him after. i texted him. he was open to have a meeting and then SHE took him for a weekend trip with friends and after that it was silence.
when we met each other some times we didnt talk like before. we didnt smile. it was some weird tension. he didnt look into my eyes.
i was embarrassed because i know he didnt want anything from me and it would be weird to ask him that.
so its not like I let it go. but i dont know how to behave.

when i quit contacting HER because i was fed up with her being so curious about everything she started to write to me everyday again...

with him i met last weekend on two parties WITHOUT HER. he was again looking at me all the time but didnt dance or talk. just looked at me and nvited me over. i didnt come because i was with my friends next day.

on one hand i dont wanna play the 'secret one' and on the other i dont wanna be the easy girl who comes over whenever he wants.

ok once i came over and we had sex. next days he was behaving like he cared untill she took him to the other city.

i have no idea maybe he is not just that INTO me . maybe he was behaving like he cared because he just wanted to...
maybe this maybe that. im done i guess.

im not a fb stalker, i know when he would like he would invite me somewhere outside or idk... but maybe even if hes 26 hes a child and needs someone that takes care of him.

she is the 'mother' of all male friends. like she would 'mother' them. its so weird. im not like this. i though boys would know when she mothers and manipulates. but probably men , especially young , dont know it...

she is 8.05.1989 Taurus. sometimes i feel she has a control over some people- and when someone wants to escape ( like me stopped contacting her) she is afraid she looses some company...

She has a new boyfriend. He has a lot of friends and new company.

Before - 2-4 months ago when Virgo was visiting parties and saw me, she was kind of blocking him not to talk to me. I know that sound strange and weird o_O
Its like he wanted to say 'hi', was approaching me and she took his shoulder and said " NOT NOW' . my sister saw this situation it was rude. I think she is ruthless.
There were many others istuations like this when she decided to block him with some words or gestures. I dont know why. I am an adult he is an adult as well.

She knows me for a long time, she knows i have ''bf', men women problems' and im more shy and delicate than her.

And for me its like she couldnt resist that he was showing some interest to me, slept with me. Because it was her friend. One of her 'boys' friends, one of her knights. You know what i mean.
I dont need a group of 7 knights around me and he was one of them...

And now i dont know what to do because i like him. And i know it would be hard to flirt with him or just 'take him' somehow from her. Even though she has a boyfriend.

Its like he is single, had many 'intimate encounters' but with girls he didnt know. And he knew me and i was flirting with him 3-4 months.

Maybe it sounds like im desperate but i cant think of anything than her 'control' over him, even now- when she has a new bf.

Im sorry if it sounds childish , very unfavorable but its my opinion. And i dont know how I can again make him interested in me? Or he is just someone like Peter Pan and she mothers him?

heh

Yes i am mentioning her because even when we were escaping the party she called us . like checking where we would go? WHY
and then when we woke up 1st thing was her facebooked him and he said sth like : oh fu***ck , not her.
then next day when he invited me over she also came over and took me to the shop to grab some things. i was excited telling her about him and she was like : 'but wait, you know he told me he doesnt want anything from you'.
and i came back and changed my attidute. i wasnt so excited i was like : ok so why he invited me over.

next days she was facebooking me all the time asking me about what i feel to him what i wanna do. and i was trying to ignore her. but she was asking me all the time, being curious. no idea why. its the problem between me and him not HER.

then there were a few days of silence and she told me she is going to visit some friends and go to the party in the other city ( for a weekend) . she didnt mention she would go with him!
and I texted him when we would meet up and he answered: when i came back from other city im with her. and i said OK

so she didnt tell me she would take him and he told me he was there with her ! so he was frank.

and after this weekend he changed his attidute.
ok maybe your right. maybe its nothing to do with the Taurus. Maybe Im paranoic. But for me and for my sister ( whom i told about this) its obvious that maybe during the weekend sth happened between them or she told him sth about me..

but you know, if guy wants he wouldnt care of someone third 🙂


im paranoied because everytime im somewhere she must know it. and she asks. none everyone of my friends ask many questions as she does. why is she so curious...

Actually I didnt tell anyone from this group of friends about it.
really.

i told it my sister and one friend from high school who doesnt know him.

so when she told me about him that doesnt want anything from me it would be obvious that he told her first and i was like : why ?