Libra and Gemini

Anybody who is a Libra man/woman who's dated a Gemini man/woman, how did it go? My mom and dad were this and it ended terribly. My mom tried to kill my dad with a butcher knife when I was 6, all because he mumbled something under his breath about my sister who was 16 at the time. My mom Sept.23 and my dad Jun.17. I really don't know how it worked for anyone else of this match, but if it went well. How did you make it work and what was it like? I'm not trying to get my mom and dad back together or anything, I just want to see if anyone of this match had better luck then my mom and dad did.

I had a relation with a libra! I'm gemini. 25 may and he was 18 of october. With me and him it went so so.. We started really good, got to know each other over a long period of time and talking very much, but then we moved in together at some point in the relationship and this is where the trouble started. Mostly because of me being angry cause i couldnt stand a lot of his habits and since we started in a really really tiny space we ended up irritating each other where we both felt like we weren't able to do our own things. My reaction was being angry and he just kind of went away.. which made me even more angrier cause he just stopped to communicate and used the being cold treatment on me.
We decided to move out, which helped for the fights. But since he couldn't forget about the fights and every time he saw me kept the idea that i would be angry at some point, so he just couldn't stay too much time around me and yes.. in the end this didn't really work well. I was missing attention and he was just.. afraid of me and completely worried that i would get angry, which really really sucked. So we decided to break up. No knives involved.

After 3 1/2 years together... I (gem) kicked him (libra) out.

He blamed me for all his "shortcomings". He was enraged from the moment he got up 'til the moment he went to bed. We kept different schedules. I was up mornings, he was up all night playing video games, working on music, or computers. But, he never made any money off it and refused to get a normal job. So, I supported my 3 children, me AND him. Some nights, just for attention, he would wake me up in the middle of the night punching the wall while I slept next to him. He wanted me up to agrue about how much I neglect him. Altho, he had food, clean clothes and a clean house to do his "work" in....

Sigh, needless to say it escalated. He lied to me about the landlord and bills... I thought things were fine. Turns out we owed a lot of money that I had to cover at last minute. About $ 14,000 worth. He never laid a hand on me, but always would purposefully hurt himself. Then, he dragged my children into one of our arguments about how I "do nothing for" him.... And as I'm telling him not to... He says something incredibly vulgar to my oldest daughter, Right. In. Front. Of. Me!!! That was it! Finito. Done!

He did come back the next day begging, but no! Just not having it. I'm at fault too.... I expected the impossible from him and he couldn't handle it... And, I nagged about it. Not that it was all that impossible... Just for him it was.

Damn, I thought the two would get along considering their Air signs.

Posted by Sn1p3r187
Damn, I thought the two would get along considering their Air signs.

Very much so when maturity is involved on both sides... Not so much when one is immature.

To explain... I do get along with other libras as friends. Just some are incredibly pessimistic and that's something I can't stand. Also, the "woe is me" thing I see typically displayed.... Makes me want to yell at them, "Do something about it then!" Lol! But, other than that... I have a great time with them when they are happy and not bruding... 🙂

*bruding= brooding.....