Libra MEN..

This Libra keeps calling me, he is really nice, he is 4years younger than me. I just want to know what attracts them, I am not a real touchy feely person and he is. I raelly dont want a relationship right now and he seems like thats what he is looking for. I dont want to hurt him I just want to hang out.

O, ya I am a Capricorn, and I am in love with someone else.

Fire&Ice men see black and white so therefore you have to present yourself "black and white" in order for him to see. Meaning, I'd suggest letting him know that you have interests elsewhere. Have you guys engaged in anything that would solidify WHY he's pursueing you? Have you dropped erroneous hints that you like him? Or have his feelings developed on his own?

If the second, then you have nothing to fear.

You have nothing to fear but fear it self. Men see nothing but black and white? If you had said black and tan matbe.

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Zofia,
I am a little ashamed to say, but yes we did something we were not suppose to. I feel realy bad, because I did it out of anger towards the one I love. I AM SO CONFUSED ABOUT ALLOT OF things right now.If I tell him I have feelings for some one else will he get upset, or think bad of me? How do they think,what do they like and dont like.
I told him that I really dont let anyone get close to me, he said that was not good, because I will never know how the person is. I feel he would like more info from me, but I dont tell him everyting, because I am a very private person and I am just not ready to get involved with anyone.

Hm. I think his feelings being upset will be inevitable but you can't live in a lie or else he will be living in one as well. I think in this type of situation there is no getting out without a few indescretions so expect drama--that is if he's serious about you. I'm thinking you guys had a deeper connection before you guys 'coalesced'? If not you can explain to him that what you guys did was nothing more than just what it was. He's already acknowledged the fact that you dont confide in a person easily so he should expect the same when you tell him that you're simply not ready for a relationship. They correspond with eachother. If he can't fathom it then hit him witha fish. J/k.

That was funny🙂 What dose j/k mean? I am not sure if we had a deep conection, I just met him 4weeks ago, We would always see eachother and I felt like I was very attracted to him, and drawn to him. Then one night I thought I seen 2 of him beacuse I saw him wearing a football jersey, and then I seen him again and he was wearing something different I asked him hey do you ahve a twin brother here? He started to laugh and sid no they made him change his shirt, so from there we talked and danced one thing led to another; I had allot of drinks and we ended up at his place. I felt horrible, guilt, I dont usually do things like that, your probably saying ya right, but I dont. So he kept calling me the next day and sending me text-messages. I was trying to avoid him for 3 days and finally he tezt me are you still alive, ok? So I text him back told him I felt like an idiot and I was sorry for what happened. He wanted to talk to me, and then called me. and now we have been talking every day. I dont want to lead him on, but I do like him.

The other guy won't know how to talk to our kids, He wont be around when your down the way that I am, we had it all you and I, lets try agian.

James you are every where, gotta love him!

Hey what's wrong with a little angry sex—? Just be honest with yourself first.

What you mean be honest with myself?

I'm a Capricorn woman who's been married to a Libra man for 21 years. In my teen years, I dated Libra men (boys) almost exclusively. They like soft, attractive, well mannered girly girls. No hard edges, unless of course, you're really angry and making a point. Have you ever read "How To Spot A Bastard By His Star Sign"? You should. It's a riot! And fairly true. Don't worry about hurting his feelings. Oh he'll feel bad.......for about a minute then he'll find someone to take his mind off it. Do you really think you need to do anything? Aren't you the one who loves a Scorpio and has a baby with him? He doesn't call, won't say he loves you after 2 years? This Libra calls you all the time and you enjoy talking to him? If I were you, (and I know I'm not 🙂 I would just enjoy myself and see what happens. There's always time to change your mind. Be happy. Just my 2 cents.

Its like the man says, you will never find an angel by looking for his wings, you can only find and angel by the song he sangs.

dhuffman,

Thanks for your advice🙂 I guesse I am just scared of making another mistake, and really scared that Scorpio will find out. The only thing I can do is just take it day by day, and your right just see what happens...

I just read parts of your other thread. I'm sorry but it seems like he's in love with himself more than you. It's horrible how he's manipulating you, first he delineates how he loves you and cares for you...misses the baby...and then has the audacity to forsake the situation? How much more tact can this man possess? And for 2 years?!?!?!?! Whatever the reason may be for his actions, he still hasn't made up for them(from what I read) and why did he leave? If he really cared, he would've grasped the situation, and done something. He doesn't even seem amenable to change. Have you tried at all to cooperate with this man? I'm sure... I mean, you're still here for the child and he's not.

I think for this situation, it's best to talk to your son about it...*that is if you already did* and see what you guys can work out from it. Don't try to analyze this Scorpio, take him for what he did and is and it will be much easier to see the big picture. Be strong.. 😢

Luz,
My son is only a baby/Todler he is 1 and a half.
The Scorpio man I just dont understand what he wants, like I have said before all I need is for this man to tell me there is no hope for us, but he will not. When I dont call him or talk to him for days thats when he gets a wild hair up his ass and starts to confess his love. I dont know what he wants!! Not to sound like a concieted person I feel like I am a great catch and maybe the only person that will tolerate him, and love him for what and who he is. He has told me on one of his wild hair ass days that he knows I am the right person for him and his life would be so much better with me, that he is just to stupid to get it. He drives me crazy.... Thanks for your input🙂

LOL awww. My mistake.

He wants you to be his mother, that's my impression. "Waaa she's not catering to me."

I'm sure you ARE a great catch and there's nothing wrong with percieving yourself that way. It's a first step to leaving the Scorpio 😛 Sorry, I just think you deserve better. I think anyone would deserve better :/

But if having him in the family means that much... keep trying. Your son does need a father but does he need a father like him?

Goodluck!

Luz,


Your right that is exactly how he is! When he used to come over he always wanted me to cater to him. He is slowly drifting from my thoughts. I don't really care right now, and I don't know if it is because, Libra who has been occupying my time lately. I have even not answered phone calls from Scorpio to talk to Libra; I use to drop everything for him. I find my self not giving a b*tter lately. Thanks Luz🙂

dear luz
you sound very interesting.
bravo, my dear. we need more free spirits in this conservative world.

I'm happy for you Fire&bird 🙂 Have fun with the Lil Libra, ho ho, wee. And keep us updated if you need any further advice.

Hello Allen, I've seen you at the pisces board? And thank you, I think.

Fire&Ice, I keep thinking Freebird 😛

Hi Luz,
Your funny🙂 Are you a Libra? This Libra is really nice, I like him but I dont want it to go no where right now. I like hanging out, I hope he dose not want to get serious; I do need my space sometimes. He calls everyday, and wants me to see him everyday. I can handle a couple of times a week, but not every day. As for the ass wipe Scorpio he thinks he can have me when ever he wants, he called lastnight and wanted to take me to dinner, and started to talk dirty... Another words he wanted some, no thanks!!!
He is starting to get on my nerves. He is suppose to get the baby this weekend now he is trying to make excuses on why he cant get him; and it is just because he knows I have plans to do something uhh, he gets me sick!!! How can I be in love with someone so selfish!!

hey luz
yes, i used to swim these waters often. now spend most of my times swimming across the country in my job.
you sound cool, peace, love and happiness
just a harmless, emotional and dreamy fish. don't worry my dear

YAY!! Now you can finally move on and live a healthIER life minus scorpio man. No not a libra but gemini.


Hi Allen, it must be exciting travelling. I wish I could do that. What sights have you seen? Any stories to tell?