You are now living in a civilized world. And yet, your fantasms take their roots in an archaic universe, an intact and forgotten universe, a universe where human beings were still connected to nature, in which people lived according to the rhythm of the seasons, where one was near to wild beasts and the huge forest of the origins. The man of your dreams is a primeval being, a being who hardly emerges from animality, a being who lives in harmony with the world, plants, trees, beasts, and the forces of the earth. This primitive, powerful and sensual being knows all the secrets of amorous ecstasy. He can show himself brutal without meaning it. But there's in him neither violence nor wickedness.
The man of your dreams comes out from the woods. He emerges from an old and wise world, from a land of plenty, from a lost paradise. He resembles a wild beast - of course he's human, but is still somewhat an animal, he's the brother of King Kong, with his primitive savagery and his awkward tenderness. He's a peasant, a woodcutter, a forest guard, or a poacher. Also a gardener, who knows the herbs that cure and those the perfume of which enchant the senses; or a vine-grower who amorously touches his grapes and takes care of his big wooden barrels with patience and relish. He resembles Pan, Bacchus or Dionysos, those ancient orgiastic and all-powerful gods. His wild sensuality knows of no limits; nevertheless, at the same time, he's all innocence. This man of extravagance can handle you roughly but without meaning it. And when he realizes that he can hurt you, he will become all tenderness and protection.
Sensual, voluptuous, you intensely yearn to fulfill your heart's desires in couple life in the purest possible tradition, for your need for tenderness and sentimental security is boundless.
With you, love is not a simple item added to the list of your preoccupations - it's rather a force that possesses you entirely. When you give your heart, there's no question to take it back. The sense of stability, which is inherent to your first name, entails constancy and unshakable faithfulness on your part if your mate responds to your sensual appetite.
Your dreams are omnipresent, so much so that your oneiric universe can sometimes overlap the real world. You may happen to welter a whole forenoon in the murkiness and happiness of your strange reveries all the while you appear interested in what you're doing. To exculpate you, one must say that your fantasmic world is extremely rich and that beside it reality is so deceiving. And if you keep in your head the image of those who haunt your nights, it's because their attractive power is infinite.
Your dream man is a traveler. But your traveler does not satisfy himself with roaming our planet. He's more unreal. He's The Wanderer, The Authentic Stranger, the one who comes from so far that one doesn't know if he's really a man. He resembles Robinson Crusoe. He's also a traveler among the stars, or an extra-terrestrial appearing suddenly, during a full-moon night, in order to initiate you into strange love games. The man of your dreams is also a mystic, a monk, or a Hindu sage who loves you and God at the same time and equally. Whether a traveler or a mystic, the man who attracts you is always different. You know that he knows the secrets of pleasure and that he will open its door to you.
# Your fantasms have nothing mean or obscure. With you, everyone swims in glory, renown, and celebrity! Those who arouse your fantasms are in view, in full glare. Narcissistic and demanding, proud and perfectionist, you shun meanness and weakness. Lusterless daily life bores you and, whether you have the courage to avow it or not, only a being of great quality or whose beauty and merits everyone admires can have chances to lure you. And, in your dreams, there are many known people who would be surprised at the feats which you make them accomplish. You are not snobbish, however. It's because your senses are aroused only in the presence of those who excite the desire of all, who are unreachable because of their birth, their talent, or their fame. That's a challenge worthy of you!
# Whose couch do you share, in the silence of your dreams? That of Ava Gardner or of Marilyn Monroe? One thing is certain: the women of your fantasms are beautiful, admirably beautiful, and universally admired. Cinema stars, well-known singers, and also past queens, duchesses or princesses - all these women share the same thing, which is to hover far above surrounding mediocrity. They are also desired by all. And, in your most secret fantasms, it's you and you alone who will know how to capture and chain these beauties who are so shining and sure of themselves. For you, at last, they will take off their masks, they will forget their celebrity so as to become what they actually are - women, sheer women, whom you can submit to your desires!
"In love, you might give the impression of dormant sensitiveness whereas in actuality you show great shyness. Your need for affection, tenderness and sensuality is enormous, but you approach love only on the tips of your toes."
Just because I carefully observe people doesn't mean I'm shy.
"You are also gnawed by great mistrust. You need certainty before engaging yourself for good. One can say that you lack spontaneity and expansiveness, because you are rarely sure of yourself. You need to be reassured, encouraged, so as to show the powerful sensuality which hides itself behind the reticence of your attitudes, behind the austerity of your manners."
I don't think I lack spontaneity, but they are definitely right about the mistrust thing. I've trusted blindly in the past, and got burned repeatedly.
"You utterly hate emotional storms. In case of misunderstanding, you may lock yourself up in endless silences, doubts, and frustrations, which will hide your enormous affective needs."
No, I hate the things that cause said emotional storm.
"Contrary to other first names, you are not frightened by single life. You succeed very well in adapting yourself to it and, sometimes, you even look for it. It's true that not many people please you, since you're so mistrustful and look for the absolute. Your sentimental problem is that your emotional maturity is acquired much later than your psychic and intellectual maturity. You are a perfect mate for belated unions!"
Definitely not afraid of solitude. Those afraid of being single are pussies in my book.
Your fantasmic universe is rich, even inexhaustible, and it often grazes abysses. Your dreams are dizzy, they pull you to the frontiers of the strangest forbidden, toy with perversity, with death, with the sordid. However, even though the scenarios which your imagination creates are sometimes terrifying and shocking, you know perfectly how to draw a line between dream and reality. It never comes to your mind to experience such chaotic wanderings in actuality. Be reassured: such fantasmagorias have nothing dangerous; they are only an expression of your unconscious - an unconscious which is free and fond of sensations, and which does not mind the conventions within which the majority of your contemporaries remain confined.
The lover who haunts your nights has a disquieting face. He's a powerful and solitary man. He wears a great black cloak and can brave all dangers - physical as well as metaphysical dangers. He's very often the likeness of a vampire - handsome but terribly dangerous. If you let him approach you, he'll drink your blood and tear your soul away although, in exchange, he'll give you access to immortality. He can also be a brother of doctor Faust, a magician or poet capable of signing a pact with Lucifer, a man hovering far above others since the time he sold his soul to the devil. He's a kind of black archangel who, if you dare come to him, will initiate you to infinite pleasures, of which others have no idea whatsoever!
With you, love can only be a powerful, demanding, and intense passion. To follow you on your way, a man has to have stamina, to accept the exactingness of total possession, the risks of the most intense jealousy, but also to bear the kind of blooming that you want him to live.
Indeed, to share your existence means to accept to remain perpetually open to question, to be drastically transformed; it means to know that nothing will be afterwards as it was before; it also means to run the risk of living an ominous experience which can end with a profound pain or a remarkable transfiguration.
With you, love is often coupled with anguish. Painful experiences, bereavements as well as intense crises often give birth in you to an insecurity feeling which, if it's not mastered altogether, can singularly complicate your affective life. But when you have succeeded in avoiding the sadomasochistic tendency which is sometimes apparent in your love affairs, you can attain total and perfect love.
With you, nothing is ever simple or straight. At certain periods of your existence, you boast about being a confirmed spinster. Then at other times, you'll strongly defend couple life. And this without even having the impression of contradicting yourself!
You try to hide it for fear of passing for an unyielding amazon, but the fact is that strength fascinates you. Of course, you put on civilized airs, you can even show yourself very much refined and evolved, but deep down in you lies dormant an instinctive being, who likes power, fight, and even brutality. Your often excessive fantasms worry you. But you are wrong, for there's absolutely nothing perverse or sadistic in you. Those images of violence which attract you and in which you sometimes delight secretly are simply for you the expression of life's energy and force. They strictly have nothing morbid. If you secretly dream of tall, flaxen-haired conquerors blithely raping their lovely prisoners, or of muscular policemen on their huge motorcycles, you've nevertheless no taste for destruction.
You'll never acknowledge it to your friends, especially during these times of triumphant feminism, but the man of your fantasms has everything of the prehistoric macho. He resembles the great Celtic warrior with his prominent muscles. He's also a Viking war chieftain dancing on his drakkar before landing to sack a monastery, a barbarian springing up from the steppes on his black stallion, or an Attila devastating everything on his way. He's, then, a strong man, who can also have the traits of a boxing champion, an Aikido master, a footfall star, or a fighterjet pilot. In brief, a man in all his virile splendor. A man who doesn't care about romanticism - he seizes you abruptly, brutalizes you, and sometimes rapes you. But you know that all will end well - you will know how to arouse his passion, and soon, it's for you that he will set off again to conquer the world!
You try to hide it for fear of passing for an unyielding amazon, but the fact is that strength fascinates you. Of course, you put on civilized airs, you can even show yourself very much refined and evolved, but deep down in you lies dormant an instinctive being, who likes power, fight, and even brutality. Your often excessive fantasms worry you. But you are wrong, for there's absolutely nothing perverse or sadistic in you. Those images of violence which attract you and in which you sometimes delight secretly are simply for you the expression of life's energy and force. They strictly have nothing morbid. If you secretly dream of tall, flaxen-haired conquerors blithely raping their lovely prisoners, or of muscular policemen on their huge motorcycles, you've nevertheless no taste for destruction.
You'll never acknowledge it to your friends, especially during these times of triumphant feminism, but the man of your fantasms has everything of the prehistoric macho. He resembles the great Celtic warrior with his prominent muscles. He's also a Viking war chieftain dancing on his drakkar before landing to sack a monastery, a barbarian springing up from the steppes on his black stallion, or an Attila devastating everything on his way. He's, then, a strong man, who can also have the traits of a boxing champion, an Aikido master, a footfall star, or a fighterjet pilot. In brief, a man in all his virile splendor. A man who doesn't care about romanticism - he seizes you abruptly, brutalizes you, and sometimes rapes you. But you know that all will end well - you will know how to arouse his passion, and soon, it's for you that he will set off again to conquer the world!
YOUR SEXUAL FANTASMS ACCORDING TO YOUR FIRST NAME
You are now living in a civilized world. And yet, your fantasms take their roots in an archaic universe, an intact and forgotten universe, a universe where human beings were still connected to nature, in which people lived according to the rhythm of the seasons, where one was near to wild beasts and the huge forest of the origins. The man of your dreams is a primeval being, a being who hardly emerges from animality, a being who lives in harmony with the world, plants, trees, beasts, and the forces of the earth. This primitive, powerful and sensual being knows all the secrets of amorous ecstasy. He can show himself brutal without meaning it. But there's in him neither violence nor wickedness.
The man of your dreams comes out from the woods. He emerges from an old and wise world, from a land of plenty, from a lost paradise. He resembles a wild beast - of course he's human, but is still somewhat an animal, he's the brother of King Kong, with his primitive savagery and his awkward tenderness. He's a peasant, a woodcutter, a forest guard, or a poacher. Also a gardener, who knows the herbs that cure and those the perfume of which enchant the senses; or a vine-grower who amorously touches his grapes and takes care of his big wooden barrels with patience and relish. He resembles Pan, Bacchus or Dionysos, those ancient orgiastic and all-powerful gods. His wild sensuality knows of no limits; nevertheless, at the same time, he's all innocence. This man of extravagance can handle you roughly but without meaning it. And when he realizes that he can hurt you, he will become all tenderness and protection.
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