Ive been with my gf (a virgo) about a year now. All i can say is that theres a huge difference between herslf on the first time tryin to win my heart and herslf now. Shes warm and sweet, there are the times shes having her 'isolation' period (I gave her space, I dont wanna be pushy yet I doubt her too when she stay silent for so long, shes looking out for someone else)...she gets mad and distant again when I dont make a mistake but its a huge mistake to her. Arguments, shes the one who shoots out the best answers that makes my thoughts&opinions gone invisible. It looks like I'm the only one who got an initiative to coax, repair the cracks, discuss and confront each other about whats up with the words and actions during our heating arguments just now...while her, shes avoid the discussing session and suddenly merry—happy back. This process repeat again n again...and my confusion grows. I really love her, i've being loyal and think positively everytime her virgo 'traits' shows up...but my guts says that do not give my all to her. I told her that sometimes her traits hurt me inside, not sure shes understand it or not...but I feel more hurtful. I just longing for her of her first time trying to win my heart. What do you think?
