Neptune in 7th house evolving?

Tragedy has struck; I found out neptune is in my 7th house.

At first I sucked my teeth and took a deep breath. Then, I got emotional because I started to think about just how damn applicable the circumstances this placement provides has been in my life (I know, I know, how neptunian of me).

The last two... relations (if you can even call them that) I had were VERY showing of this placement. One was emotionally unavailable but latched onto me for a year, even when he was dating someone else.. He was colorblind and had anger issues (never taken out on me, though)

Dude after that had bad mommy issues and led me on. Was really into drugs and alcohol, would disappear on me for days, and weirdly latched onto me for a minute even after rejecting any sort of affection I'd try to give him. And finally, the cherry on top of both: they were both pisceans (hence my newfound disdain and ardent avoidance of all pisces men).

However, I've really changed my perspective on dating, and learned how to control my emotions in result of those two fiascos. I no longer depend on anyone, emotionally speaking. I don't wait on anyone to want me, speak to me, anything. I'm not hung up on anyone anymore. I just let it go and live on. I don't put myself on this emotionally codependent seesaw with ANYONE in any capacity, whether it be platonic or amorous. I've actually been very focused on work and myself. I've been extremely keen on being by myself lately, whether it be my relationship status or just staying at home in my own company. To put this new pattern to the test, I started to casually talk to someone, and Lord behold, I'm not dependent on this person. I don't get upset if they don't text me back. I don't sit around waiting for them all day. I just move on. I will still be very smitten by people, and have naive crushes (my venus is in aries, give me a break), but I don't feel this emotionally overwhelming cycle repeating itself. I think I.. broke it?

Anyways, to put in brief, I managed to establish independence, emotional barriers, and keep a tighter grip on reality. I'm still going to be very nurturing and emotionally involved (curse my cancer rising/scorpio moon), but I can't help but wonder one thing.. Did I genuinely evolve in this placement, or is it just the person I'm talking to providing me this comfort because they aren't like the others? I'm not sure. Any advice on this placement would be great. This was a lot longer than I intended, sorry (kind of)

Welcome to the house of rose-tinted glasses.

Posted by Ram416
Welcome to the house of rose-tinted glasses.

I don't like this house. I'm looking at real estate listings as we speak

What sign is your Neptune in?

Posted by Ram416
What sign is your Neptune in?

Aquarius. So I guess the very least those rose tinted glasses are somewhat cracked

I have it worse. Uranus n Neptune in 7th?

Posted by Teena
I have it worse. Uranus n Neptune in 7th?

It's only bad if you make it out to be that way.

Posted by Ram416

Posted by Teena
I have it worse. Uranus n Neptune in 7th?

It's only bad if you make it out to be that way.

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Idc tbh ??

I don't even remember what I read about it ??

7th house is not you, itls others, itls what you project, so yeah you'll meet lots of crazy pisceans. Wait till Saturn and the Pluto transit there...it'll be interesting. Tough, but you'll also experience some serious romance!