ok heres my problem i have been in a sexual relationship for 3 yrs with a virgo man now quite frankly its been booty calls but the last yr he has been more open and comfy but i have told him how much i love him and he had his heart broke may yrs ago and says he will never love again,when we are together its not just a bang and leave we spend the night together every time, i know he has to care somewhat right? i mean 3 yrs is a long time and i have been the only girl in 2 yrs until recently he said he was with another girl the other day but he was dissapointed when he was with the other one because and i quote even tho we are only sexual we are a perfect fit.. when i ask him out to do something he always has an excuse to not actually hang out, when he is over we talk for hours before we even have sex but then he will ignore me for days after. my question is will there ever be anything other than sex and will he ever be secure enough for a realtionship with me? am i just a botty call?oh yea he is almost quite a bit younger than me but i am 38 and he is 27 almost 27 please help me anyone but preferrably a virgo guy mite be able to shed some light his bday is aug 31 1982 mine is oct 28 1970
