Scorpios & Virgos - Let's Vote!!

If you're a Scorpio currently in / previously in a relationship with a Virgo, or a Virgo currently in / previously in a relationship with a Scorpio, I'd like to hear from you...

1. How long were / are you together?
2. What was your courtship like?
3. Married? Ever consider marriage?

Plus, any other information that you'd like to share about your relationship.

Thanks for your support!

[I am DyarStra?e, and I approved this thread.]

Dont take Linda Goodman too seriously....

Yeah, that's the last thing we need to do on an Astrology Forum!

If it was astrology forum only...

If you're a Scorpio currently in / previously in a relationship with a Virgo, or a Virgo currently in / previously in a relationship with a Scorpio, I'd like to hear from you...

1. How long were / are you together?
2. What was your courtship like?
3. Married? Ever consider marriage?

Plus, any other information that you'd like to share about your relationship.

Thanks for your support!

[I am DyarStra?e, and I approved this thread.]

i'm a 23 virgo wif my 23yr old scorpio. we've known each other almost 2 yrs, together about 1.5 yrs. we haf a strong bond... despite alot of differences. we're almost opposites. i'm logical person, he's very intuitive.
im born 14 sept, while he's 25 oct.
i got virgo sun & moon, while he's got scorpio sun, pisces moon.
we held hands in 3 months after knowing each other. i guess we became a couple faster than i expected..after about 4 dates. but i still had doubt about him. as time passes he proved to me his sincerity and i haf accepted him.

yes we are v comfortable wif each other. he seems to know wats my next step. it doesnt haf to come out frm our mouth that, no doubt ,we're gonna be together till death do us part. but for now we're not married, we're concentrating on our career, saving enough for wedding, house so on...

i think we're gonna work n live together as a great couple. scorpio + virgo = excellent combi

G_A: If it was astrology forum only...

So true... Let's see: as of right now, there are 26 posts on the History Board, and 25 on the Websites Board, and 253196 on the Scorpio Board.

Honestly Dude, you must have some Taurus in your chart!

DXP is overwhelmingly an Astrology Forum - by a landslide of individually-cast votes (no ACORN here, I hope!).

Thanks blackroselian for your vote!

Acorn !!!!!!

Why do we have to place a vote, though?

Do you need reassuring?

Alright then, Scorps and Virgos are a good match, from my perspective, however, I'm just an outsider looking in. I should think the insider's perspective would be enough.

Speaking of voting ..............

::: gulps down last sip of coffee and heads to polls :::

PA: Why do we have to place a vote, though?

You don't (you're not S or V!), but it's your constitutional right, so this Virgo is just providing you with a venue...

Do you need reassuring?

No. Just trying to gather statistics on S+V from DXPers. I get the impression that this is not a frequent pairing, but I'd like to confirm it.

that would be mom and dad, mom's the scorp, dad's the virgo.
1. How long were / are you together?
2. What was your courtship like?
3. Married? Ever consider marriage?

They've been together since they were 16, which is more than 38 years ago.As far as mom told me, dad was the one that suddenly realized he's in love with mom, he just flat out told her "i love you" to which mom was probably something like ROTFL!!They got together and married when they were 22.It is indeed a good match, provided that both parts compromise - you wouldn't want to be in the same room when they do have a fight - both scream their lungs out at each other, dad's got a weird temper (he basically gets mad out of any "imperfection" and starts asking the obvious question "why—" to which mom gets terribly offended and it's a never ending cycle).

I, as a scorp myself, can't see myself involved with someone like my dad ( a virgo) even though i love him a lot, he's way too aggressive - but it seems to be working for mom 🙂

Oh, and they can say some pretty mean stuff about each other when they're mad at each other.Sometimes i think they actually enjoy the fights - i loathe them but i'm non-combative like that 😛

I know the polls haven't closed on this thread yet, but the exit polling so far is interesting: Counting myself & Scorp-In-Law, plus the posters, most of the couples are Scorpio Women & Virgo Men...

Do Scorp Men have issues with Virgo Women??

DY, I think S & V is a good combo in general. Provided that both are evolved beyond their base level, because virgo's that are too "virgoey" would be a complete pain in the ass, and scorps that have a long way to go can be extremely difficult people to be with...

I have recently witnessed my very dear scorp male friend come along in leaps and bounds. We were in a relationship a while ago, and he was a real mess back then. But we remained good friends. It's just amazing for me to watch the transition - I always knew the kind of person he would be one day, but I thought he was alot further away from reaching that point. I know he thinks i'm a pretty amazing person too 🙂

I really think S & V can help each other out alot in life, regardless of whether that be as friends or lovers / partners.

S-I-L: We were both highly charged and very romantic during the first months. Unexpectedly, we started having problems communicating.

Same here. Whirlwind romance, then a goofy period of misunderstanding each other, and lots of hurt feelings (okay, I did most of the hurting running my big yap!). It took her moving in with me for us to get past it.

The differences in the way we receive and process information started to emerge (Earth vs. Water).

Yes... I imagine the outcome for us would've been worse had we been younger - I'm much more laid back now than 20 years ago!

Example: The Twins celebrated their first birthdays on the 8th. They spent more time playing with their cake than eating it, so there was sticky shit all over the house. Younger DY would've fretted over it, but middle-aged DY just laughed it off. Yes, I got the bucket and sponges out after the guests left, but I didn't "grump" a single time...

1. about 7 monyhs
2. shit was horrible. constant cheating on scorpios part. always bickering. lots of jealousy.
3. engaged.
scorpio was very manipulative and tried to isolate me from all my friends and loved ones. used me for money, cheated on me several times. always cried about how he loved me and hes sorry. even now he tries to contact me to get back with me. fucking horrible match.

btw, i was in love with him. and we had a lot of passion. great sex. but horrible relationship.

scorpio was very manipulative and tried to isolate me from all my friends and loved ones.

ten years and my Scorp did not try anything but this. He got my time but not me myslef. strange people Scorps are.

So far, so good... It's taken a year or more for us to get our act together after a brief 'almost relationship' last March. We spent a year remaining friends and then finally I emailed him and said, "I can do the 'friends' thing but to be honest I don't know anybody I like as much as you - so if you're not interested, friends it is."

He never replied directly but a couple of emails later he said, "As a pal - note I'm NOT calling myself a friend, derr..."

A few weeks after that we got together, and it's just as people have described on here. He trusts me and he's a different person, can't do enough for me, has been wonderful to me during a bereavement, is so sweet and caring...

He (the Scorpio) keeps saying how he's never been this relaxed in twenty years... he is always busy, always doing something, yet when I'm around he just stops, sits talking, cuddling, or just Being Quiet... He says I have a calkming effect on him, and he seems to love it. Meanwhile, I feel he has the same effect on me. I've read this about the S/V connection, and it is certainly true in our case.

I've never met a man who made me laugh so much, and he sees right into me too.

The sex... how did someone put it? "Woooooooow...!!!!!"

One Happy, Patient Virgo 🙂