Sisters with Taurus and Libra placements,

As I've stated previously, I'm 28 degrees in Aries or third Decan Aries, bordering in Taurus. Along with Libra moon, Libra ascendant and I have two Taurus placements. My sister who I absolutely adore 90% of the time lol, is a Taurus sun and super true to the sign's nature; seeing as I have some Taurus placements and due to Libra and Taurus sharing a planet and some similarities, we tend to understand each other and vibe well. However, if we're together too long I notice tensions rise a little.

This is not a dig at Taurus, but I do notice a tendency for them to be a bit more self-centered in terms of comfort and getting their way. My Libra placements make me super passive and I always let her take control, because I honestly feel like she'll lose it if she doesn't get to. I try to keep calm and work with her when we butt heads. But I feel like a shmuck when I let her bossy ways overpower me. It's in my nature to want everyone happy, not just one person. So it's frustrating.

My question is, anyone with any of these placements ever experience this as well? Also, what are your thoughts in Libra and Taurus bonds?

Posted by xomelindabelle
As I've stated previously, I'm 28 degrees in Aries or third Decan Aries, bordering in Taurus. Along with Libra moon, Libra ascendant and I have two Taurus placements. My sister who I absolutely adore 90% of the time lol, is a Taurus sun and super true to the sign's nature; seeing as I have some Taurus placements and due to Libra and Taurus sharing a planet and some similarities, we tend to understand each other and vibe well. However, if we're together too long I notice tensions rise a little.

This is not a dig at Taurus, but I do notice a tendency for them to be a bit more self-centered in terms of comfort and getting their way. My Libra placements make me super passive and I always let her take control, because I honestly feel like she'll lose it if she doesn't get to. I try to keep calm and work with her when we butt heads. But I feel like a shmuck when I let her bossy ways overpower me. It's in my nature to want everyone happy, not just one person. So it's frustrating.

My question is, anyone with any of these placements ever experience this as well? Also, what are your thoughts in Libra and Taurus bonds?

Overall, having tons of Libra myself, I am very fond of Taurean energy. With one exception.. the strong streak of stubborn is not my favorite quality. I don't find it selfish so much as just hardheaded. I think they just find it challenging to think beyond what they *know* or *think* they know to be true. Actually Aries is typically considered the most self-centered energy so perhaps that's why you perceive it that way. I'm not saying that you are probably self-centered.. my guess is that with all your Libra you are not a particularly self-centered Aries but just since the tendency is inherent in your Sun, you identify or perceive it quickly in others.

What are your sisters other personal placement energies? Is she a Taurus stellium?

Taurus falls into your 8th house. That is probably the source of the tension you feel when you're around Taurus individuals.

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Likewise! Taureans flock to me! And I love spending time with them and I can always find a way to understand their depth, sensitivity and even darkness lol I'm not surprised when people with Libra placements bond with them.
And that's what it is! They can get stuck it their default thinking. Which, at some point we're all guilty of. It's just her controlling streak that can really give me anxiety. I truly just go with the flow thanks to my Libra influence. So that's where we conflict.
I'm definitely not like the typical self-centered Aries, which I've encountered many times lol I thank my lucky stars for that! I absolutely love what you said, though. I can see the recognition of the behavior being a trait having the Aries sun but the Libra toning that way down within me. Not to say that I don't get selfish sometimes, we all do lol

Her rising and moon are Scorpio, I know that. I don't know about stelliums. And I'm good with her watery Scorpio placements because my moon and Jupiter are in the twelfth and eighth house -- I really just think its her stubborn streak lol just found it interesting.

Posted by AriesIntrovert16
Taurus falls into your 8th house. That is probably the source of the tension you feel when you're around Taurus individuals.

Oh really? Wouldn't that make me relate to them more? Or would it be too much of similar energy?