Soulmates

I’m just amazed at how you can be friends with someone and not realize how much this person is for you and then boom it hits you like a hammer over the head years later like holy crap I not only like you, but I want to spend my life with you.

Like how do you miss the signs? It’s like a veil is over your eyes then all of a sudden is yanked off.

Anyone ever experience this or have any insight? I thought soulmates know immediately?

https://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-24063/the-3-types-of-soul-mates.html

I believe that there are three different types of soul mates; two that are romantic and one that’s non-romantic.

The first kind of soul mate is the romantic kind that you aren’t meant to be with forever but that delivers powerful lessons. These soul mates tend to be the most in influential teachers in our lives. They’re the ones that provide the heartache, the ones that don’t work out and aren’t meant to work out. They are the ones who help get you from point A to B and make sure you learn the lessons that you need to learn.

In my first serious relationship, I learned that a great six months, or a great year, or a great few years—and all the love and affection in the world—don’t always make for a lasting relationship. Love isn’t always enough. You can love someone, and they can love you, but it doesn’t mean you’re meant to be together. Your partner should make you better, and your partner should make you whole. In fact, I think they should make you more than whole and especially not less. One plus one should not equal one point or two; it should equal three.

The second type is the one that allows you to be your true self and who stays with you forever. When you’re with the person you’re meant to be with, they don’t bring out your insecurities. They actually make them go away. They bring out the best in you, not the worst. You and your partner are both happy with your true selves, and together you make each other even happier. In this ideal scenario when you’re together, one plus one doesn’t equal two, it equals three.

He or she is the one that makes you better, the one that allows you to be your true self and to feel comfortable in a way you probably felt only when you were a small child. This soul mate lets you be you and helps you be your most authentic self. You meet each other precisely when you’re both ready, not a moment before or a moment after. The expression “timing is everything” is especially true with this kind of soul mate.

I’ve found this to be true over and over in life, especially with regard to relationships. Just when you’re about ready to give up—when you’ve had enough of dating, enough of the games, enough of the heartbreak, not a moment too early and not a moment too late—at that very time, when you’re truly ready and open to anything, the right person comes into your life.

The third type is a platonic friend with whom you are always connected to and feel you can share your innermost thoughts and emotions. But there’s no romance and definitely no sex! We all have these good friends; in fact, most of us have experienced many of them in our lifetime. They’re the people who you haven’t seen or spoken to in weeks, months, or years—but whenever you do see or speak to each other, you pick up wherever you left off, as if neither of you had missed a beat. They’re also the ones who you connect with very deeply and frequently for a period in your life. Sometimes the two of you grow apart, or someone moves away or has a life event that distances you. Other times you’ll remain lifelong close friends, even if you see each other only once or twice a year.

Who would have known?

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

I think there are a few factors at play.

1. Age and maturity

2. Financial situation

3. Place in life

If your world is cluttered with junk, you're only going to see the junk and damn sure not a soulmate.

Also, I've noticed that some astro signs are just late to the party. Like Taurus energy may take years to come to a conclusion that the rest of us discovered immediately.

Earth is slow, methodical energy

Air thinks way too much

Fire is easily distracted

Water is obsessed with other things

Posted by EvatheDiva52

https://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-24063/the-3-types-of-soul-mates.html

I believe that there are three different types of soul mates; two that are romantic and one that’s non-romantic.

The first kind of soul mate is the romantic kind that you aren’t meant to be with forever but that delivers powerful lessons. These soul mates tend to be the most in influential teachers in our lives. They’re the ones that provide the heartache, the ones that don’t work out and aren’t meant to work out. They are the ones who help get you from point A to B and make sure you learn the lessons that you need to learn.

In my first serious relationship, I learned that a great six months, or a great year, or a great few years—and all the love and affection in the world—don’t always make for a lasting relationship. Love isn’t always enough. You can love someone, and they can love you, but it doesn’t mean you’re meant to be together. Your partner should make you better, and your partner should make you whole. In fact, I think they should make you more than whole and especially not less. One plus one should not equal one point or two; it should equal three.

The second type is the one that allows you to be your true self and who stays with you forever. When you’re with the person you’re meant to be with, they don’t bring out your insecurities. They actually make them go away. They bring out the best in you, not the worst. You and your partner are both happy with your true selves, and together you make each other even happier. In this ideal scenario when you’re together, one plus one doesn’t equal two, it equals three.

He or she is the one that makes you better, the one that allows you to be your true self and to feel comfortable in a way you probably felt only when you were a small child. This soul mate lets you be you and helps you be your most authentic self. You meet each other precisely when you’re both ready, not a moment before or a moment after. The expression “timing is everything” is especially true with this kind of soul mate.

I’ve found this to be true over and over in life, especially with regard to relationships. Just when you’re about ready to give up—when you’ve had enough of dating, enough of the games, enough of the heartbreak, not a moment too early and not a moment too late—at that very time, when you’re truly ready and open to anything, the right person comes into your life.

The third type is a platonic friend with whom you are always connected to and feel you can share your innermost thoughts and emotions. But there’s no romance and definitely no sex! We all have these good friends; in fact, most of us have experienced many of them in our lifetime. They’re the people who you haven’t seen or spoken to in weeks, months, or years—but whenever you do see or speak to each other, you pick up wherever you left off, as if neither of you had missed a beat. They’re also the ones who you connect with very deeply and frequently for a period in your life. Sometimes the two of you grow apart, or someone moves away or has a life event that distances you. Other times you’ll remain lifelong close friends, even if you see each other only once or twice a year.

Who would have known?

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

Hugs right back ☺️ Thank you. This was a good read and this:

I’ve found this to be true over and over in life, especially with regard to relationships. Just when you’re about ready to give up—when you’ve had enough of dating, enough of the games, enough of the heartbreak, not a moment too early and not a moment too late—at that very time, when you’re truly ready and open to anything, the right person comes into your life.

Is exactly what happened. I was done, then it just clicked like omg he’s been here all along. I feel the energy and I know he does too but no one has made the move. Still apprehensive but this explains it

Posted by bae

it's not about missing the signs... as much as it is about divine timing.

people need to grow into who they're meant to be first before entering the life of their life partner.

i'm sure there were lessons you both had to learn from past experiences, heartaches and relationships in order to grow into the person you've become today... the person who made you right for this person.

so it isn't so much about ignoring the signs. it's about divine timing.

Ah now that makes perfect sense

Posted by TaurusInShania

Posted by EvatheDiva52

https://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-24063/the-3-types-of-soul-mates.html

I believe that there are three different types of soul mates; two that are romantic and one that’s non-romantic.

The first kind of soul mate is the romantic kind that you aren’t meant to be with forever but that delivers powerful lessons. These soul mates tend to be the most in influential teachers in our lives. They’re the ones that provide the heartache, the ones that don’t work out and aren’t meant to work out. They are the ones who help get you from point A to B and make sure you learn the lessons that you need to learn.

In my first serious relationship, I learned that a great six months, or a great year, or a great few years—and all the love and affection in the world—don’t always make for a lasting relationship. Love isn’t always enough. You can love someone, and they can love you, but it doesn’t mean you’re meant to be together. Your partner should make you better, and your partner should make you whole. In fact, I think they should make you more than whole and especially not less. One plus one should not equal one point or two; it should equal three.

The second type is the one that allows you to be your true self and who stays with you forever. When you’re with the person you’re meant to be with, they don’t bring out your insecurities. They actually make them go away. They bring out the best in you, not the worst. You and your partner are both happy with your true selves, and together you make each other even happier. In this ideal scenario when you’re together, one plus one doesn’t equal two, it equals three.

He or she is the one that makes you better, the one that allows you to be your true self and to feel comfortable in a way you probably felt only when you were a small child. This soul mate lets you be you and helps you be your most authentic self. You meet each other precisely when you’re both ready, not a moment before or a moment after. The expression “timing is everything” is especially true with this kind of soul mate.

I’ve found this to be true over and over in life, especially with regard to relationships. Just when you’re about ready to give up—when you’ve had enough of dating, enough of the games, enough of the heartbreak, not a moment too early and not a moment too late—at that very time, when you’re truly ready and open to anything, the right person comes into your life.

The third type is a platonic friend with whom you are always connected to and feel you can share your innermost thoughts and emotions. But there’s no romance and definitely no sex! We all have these good friends; in fact, most of us have experienced many of them in our lifetime. They’re the people who you haven’t seen or spoken to in weeks, months, or years—but whenever you do see or speak to each other, you pick up wherever you left off, as if neither of you had missed a beat. They’re also the ones who you connect with very deeply and frequently for a period in your life. Sometimes the two of you grow apart, or someone moves away or has a life event that distances you. Other times you’ll remain lifelong close friends, even if you see each other only once or twice a year.

Who would have known?

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

Hugs right back ☺️ Thank you. This was a good read and this:

I’ve found this to be true over and over in life, especially with regard to relationships. Just when you’re about ready to give up—when you’ve had enough of dating, enough of the games, enough of the heartbreak, not a moment too early and not a moment too late—at that very time, when you’re truly ready and open to anything, the right person comes into your life.

Is exactly what happened. I was done, then it just clicked like omg he’s been here all along. I feel the energy and I know he does too but no one has made the move. Still apprehensive but this explains it

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🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

Posted by DMV

I think there are a few factors at play.

1. Age and maturity

2. Financial situation

3. Place in life

If your world is cluttered with junk, you're only going to see the junk and damn sure not a soulmate.

Also, I've noticed that some astro signs are just late to the party. Like Taurus energy may take years to come to a conclusion that the rest of us discovered immediately.

Earth is slow, methodical energy

Air thinks way too much

Fire is easily distracted

Water is obsessed with other things

Yep... clutter was right lol. Finally at a gold place in my life and that earth being slow thing is dead on, I sure drug me feet lol. Thanks for the insight