
bricklemark
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Posted by starloverPosted by DwellingOnMoveMaybe not?Posted by starloverPosted by DwellingOnMoveI was very open to learn...he wasn't...very stuck in himselfPosted by starlover
I have a 9th house Saturn and my ex had an 11th house Saturn
No idea what that meant to the relationship?
you did not want to learn. he did not want to be a friend?
He very much wanted to stay friends....i didn't
Does that makes sense?
🙂
did I interpret the effect of Saturn wrong? I think I need to read more than to write.
When you said he did not want to be friends....well we were lovers, very much so but he always said i was his best and only friendclick to expand

Posted by Nemilicious
Me: saturn in cancer 10th house
He: saturn in pisces 6th house



Posted by starloverPosted by DwellingOnMoveHe had no friends, dwelling, just mePosted by starloverPosted by DwellingOnMoveMaybe not?Posted by starloverPosted by DwellingOnMoveI was very open to learn...he wasn't...very stuck in himselfPosted by starlover
I have a 9th house Saturn and my ex had an 11th house Saturn
No idea what that meant to the relationship?
you did not want to learn. he did not want to be a friend?
He very much wanted to stay friends....i didn't
Does that makes sense?
🙂
did I interpret the effect of Saturn wrong? I think I need to read more than to write.
When you said he did not want to be friends....well we were lovers, very much so but he always said i was his best and only friend
but now cause we are at it, how do you see his sat in his 11th?
did he have difficulty to integrate into groups/associations? did he have friends?
or did he have to do a lot to keep up with groups and friends?
fill in the blanks if you like to.
He had a kind of persecution complex, in that he thought people didn't like him. He rarely went out and when he did, said he wasn't listened to and his favourite line was *nobody makes the effort with me*
Good ol Saturn hey?
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Posted by DwellingOnMoveMaybe Saturn expresses itself well in the late houses, cause it's a mature planet (capricorn ruler) and goes well in the mature houses, 8to 12...Posted by starloverPosted by DwellingOnMoveMaybe not?Posted by starloverPosted by DwellingOnMoveI was very open to learn...he wasn't...very stuck in himselfPosted by starlover
I have a 9th house Saturn and my ex had an 11th house Saturn
No idea what that meant to the relationship?
you did not want to learn. he did not want to be a friend?
He very much wanted to stay friends....i didn't
Does that makes sense?
🙂
did I interpret the effect of Saturn wrong? I think I need to read more than to write.
When you said he did not want to be friends....well we were lovers, very much so but he always said i was his best and only friend
but now cause we are at it, how do you see his sat in his 11th?
did he have difficulty to integrate into groups/associations? did he have friends?
or did he have to do a lot to keep up with groups and friends?
fill in the blanks if you like to.click to expand

Posted by DwellingOnMoveCool 🙂 thanks
Mine: sat in aq in the 3rd.
His: sat in ar in the 1st.
He's not assertive. I'm not a good communicator. Our Sats build sextile though. Two dysfunctional people who function well in their dysfunctionality. dark fun.

Posted by HuldraOk so you're an acheiver, anxious about being as successful as possible. And he's a bit cold romantically, cold with children?
Mine in Aquarius, 9th house, dead on conjunct MC
His in Sagittarius, 5th house, dead on conjunct Uranus

Posted by aquaboy84Saturn in the 8th House, you are a hard worker who is patient and thrifty. You have the capacity for self-discipline and this strong discipline can cause you to deny yourself a social and/or sexual life in your quest for financial security. Transform this desire into seeking soul growth through understanding and wisdom, which can perhaps best be obtained through relating to others in partnership relationships. "For what does it profit a man to gain the entire world and lose his own soul?". There can also be issues concerning abuse, sex and power. A deep sense of hurt from the past may also be felt. Limitations, obstructions and problems may be experienced with inheritances, other people's money, one's sex life, taxes and insurance. Attitudes toward sex may cause difficulties. A strong sensual nature requires restraint.
I'm back with my ex. Um, we both have Saturn in the 8th. what does it mean?





Posted by kissmygritsYoure an acheiver, he's sensitive, possessive, also somewhat acheiver...? Yea?
Not 12th. 8th house.

Posted by bricklemarkHe hid it very well.Posted by kissmygritsYoure an acheiver, he's sensitive, possessive, also somewhat acheiver...? Yea?
Not 12th. 8th house.click to expand


Posted by centipedesGive some info about the relationship otherwise why would i care to know? Lol duh..... 🙂 duh
Mine is in Capricorn, 11th house
His is Scorpio, 8th house, conjunct Sun and Pluto

Posted by centipedesYoure right, i let a few slide...and then i got fed up 🙂Posted by bricklemarkMost people here are putting only the placements, so I'm not sure why you're singling me out. lolPosted by centipedesGive some info about the relationship otherwise why would i care to know? Lol duh..... 🙂 duh
Mine is in Capricorn, 11th house
His is Scorpio, 8th house, conjunct Sun and Pluto
but anyway. we're married. he's definitely protective and doesn't like me doing anything he sees as dangerous. Sometimes we bicker because he can be overbearing about it. 8th house maybe?
I'm better with money though. He tends to impulse buy stuff & then never use it, so I try to temper that (esp bc I hate clutter). That's probably my Saturn Capricorn, but not sure where the 11th house part of it comes in.click to expand
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I want to see other examples of couples and the dynamic based on saturn house. Not synastry wise, just their personal saturn house. Thanks.