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Venus in Scorpio thread, where art thou?
No but I'd like to know as well
Evolved Venus in Scorpio here....lets get mushy. Okay maybe not.
Go ahead ask me what youd like to know.
I have a venus in Scorp too. So, what can you tell us about it?
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I have a venus in Scorp too. So, what can you tell us about it?
Depends what house your bacon is in.
Just gonna cut and paste stuff from around the web...
Jo-Tracey Astrology:
—I want your love and I want your revenge??_I want your love, I don't want to be friends.??
This line from Lady Gagas?? Bad Romance sum up Venus in Scorpio perfectly. Venus in Libra was all about partnership, appearances, beauty and charm. Venus in Scorpio is truth and honesty and loyalty and intense compulsion.
The Venus we saw in Libra was a milk chocolate girl- sweet and pretty with a lovely texture and melt in the mouth soft centre. The Venus we saw in Libra was a little detached, charming and just a tad on the conservative side. She was looking for a partner, her —other half??, the one who would balance out her weaknesses and maximise her strengths. That Venus was a social butterfly, equally at home somewhere fabulous for cappuccino and cakes with her girlfriends as dressed to the nines somewhere else fabulous having cocktails.
This Venus, Venus in Scorpio, is very different. This Venus is a bittersweet dark dark truffle, perhaps with a touch of chilli. This Venus is private, obsessive and dark around the edges. This Venus can be kinky, a dominatrix and all consuming. This Venus doesn't want a partner, she wants a soul-mate- she wants all of you for herself. She wants everything. She wants your ugly, she wants your desire. She wants your passion. She doesn't want to be friends. And she is irresistable. Sound delicious, scary or straight out weird?
Venus is in ruler-ship in Taurus, Scorpio??s opposite. This means she is in her detriment in Scorpio. She finds all the intensity and undertones just a little too much work and way too messy. Venus is in the business of attraction and pleasure, but in Scorpio she mesmerizes. In Scorpio she wants it all. In Scorpio she doesn't just taste, she consumes.
--cont' ed---
Jo-Tracey Astrology:
—I want your love and I want your revenge??_I want your love, I don't want to be friends.??
This line from Lady Gagas?? Bad Romance sum up Venus in Scorpio perfectly. Venus in Libra was all about partnership, appearances, beauty and charm. Venus in Scorpio is truth and honesty and loyalty and intense compulsion.
The Venus we saw in Libra was a milk chocolate girl- sweet and pretty with a lovely texture and melt in the mouth soft centre. The Venus we saw in Libra was a little detached, charming and just a tad on the conservative side. She was looking for a partner, her —other half??, the one who would balance out her weaknesses and maximise her strengths. That Venus was a social butterfly, equally at home somewhere fabulous for cappuccino and cakes with her girlfriends as dressed to the nines somewhere else fabulous having cocktails.
This Venus, Venus in Scorpio, is very different. This Venus is a bittersweet dark dark truffle, perhaps with a touch of chilli. This Venus is private, obsessive and dark around the edges. This Venus can be kinky, a dominatrix and all consuming. This Venus doesn't want a partner, she wants a soul-mate- she wants all of you for herself. She wants everything. She wants your ugly, she wants your desire. She wants your passion. She doesn't want to be friends. And she is irresistable. Sound delicious, scary or straight out weird?
Venus is in ruler-ship in Taurus, Scorpio??s opposite. This means she is in her detriment in Scorpio. She finds all the intensity and undertones just a little too much work and way too messy. Venus is in the business of attraction and pleasure, but in Scorpio she mesmerizes. In Scorpio she wants it all. In Scorpio she doesn't just taste, she consumes.
--cont' ed---
---cont'ed---
Venus is Scorpio doesn't know how to love just a little. She doesn't flirt, she doesn't play games- and she is all the more magnetic for that. She is as she is and when she wants something or someone, she wants all of it with all of her being- and doesn't care how long it takes. Sort of like when you have a craving for, say, Pinot Gris, but all that is in the fridge is Chardonnay.
If, like me, you have Venus in Aries, you will drink the Chardonnay anyway, even though you know it will give you a headache after 2 glasses- anything for quick gratification. If you have Venus in Scorpio, you will wait until you can drink the Pinot Gris, and not settle for anything else. Why eat the dairy milk when you can hold out for the 70% cocoa Lindt. Venus in Scorpio is directly focused when it comes to her pleasure- and is prepared to wait for it??_in need. Unfortunately I have Venus exactly inconjunct Pluto, so not only do I go for the quick fix (ie the chardonnay), I will still crave what I truly want (ie the pinot gris in this rather poor example).
When she does fall in love, it is with every fibre of her being, and she will assume that you will be the same. This can be tricky if you are not a watery type. Scorpio doesn't like to talk about it- you are supposed to just —know??. It is about feeling your way- words mean nothing.
When you have been loved by a Scorpio, you will know you have been loved. She will be jealous, she will be possessive and if you cheat, she will never forgive you??_and she will take her revenge, eventually.
Will she cheat on you? By now you should know my thoughts on this one- any sign has the ability to cheat given the right motivations, circumstances and mindset. Venus in Scorpio is so contained and so private, you will probably never know- she is a master at compartmentalizing.
Scorpio is fixed, private and stubbornly loyal- once you have earned her trust. She will demand absolute honesty and fidelity from you, but is not above falling for another if she feels that you have betrayed her, become distant or are not as fully into her as you should be. If your Scorpio woman does cheat, don't discount power or control as being the motivating factors.
---cont'ed---
Venus is Scorpio doesn't know how to love just a little. She doesn't flirt, she doesn't play games- and she is all the more magnetic for that. She is as she is and when she wants something or someone, she wants all of it with all of her being- and doesn't care how long it takes. Sort of like when you have a craving for, say, Pinot Gris, but all that is in the fridge is Chardonnay.
If, like me, you have Venus in Aries, you will drink the Chardonnay anyway, even though you know it will give you a headache after 2 glasses- anything for quick gratification. If you have Venus in Scorpio, you will wait until you can drink the Pinot Gris, and not settle for anything else. Why eat the dairy milk when you can hold out for the 70% cocoa Lindt. Venus in Scorpio is directly focused when it comes to her pleasure- and is prepared to wait for it??_in need. Unfortunately I have Venus exactly inconjunct Pluto, so not only do I go for the quick fix (ie the chardonnay), I will still crave what I truly want (ie the pinot gris in this rather poor example).
When she does fall in love, it is with every fibre of her being, and she will assume that you will be the same. This can be tricky if you are not a watery type. Scorpio doesn't like to talk about it- you are supposed to just —know??. It is about feeling your way- words mean nothing.
When you have been loved by a Scorpio, you will know you have been loved. She will be jealous, she will be possessive and if you cheat, she will never forgive you??_and she will take her revenge, eventually.
Will she cheat on you? By now you should know my thoughts on this one- any sign has the ability to cheat given the right motivations, circumstances and mindset. Venus in Scorpio is so contained and so private, you will probably never know- she is a master at compartmentalizing.
Scorpio is fixed, private and stubbornly loyal- once you have earned her trust. She will demand absolute honesty and fidelity from you, but is not above falling for another if she feels that you have betrayed her, become distant or are not as fully into her as you should be. If your Scorpio woman does cheat, don't discount power or control as being the motivating factors.
---cont'ed---
---cont'ed---
If she suspects you are not entirely honest, she becomes the most brilliant forensic detective- and will continue to pursue the truth until she has either proven your guilt, or accepted your innocence. With Scorpio, innocent until proven guilty does not apply. Just make sure you have removed all traces of any incriminating texts or emails??_
Having said that, Venus in Scorpio attaches deeply and emotionally, and has difficulty in separating sex from love. Sex for Scorpio is an 8th house transformative, life changing experience, not 5th house fun. Don't mess with Scorpio in love unless you are prepared to pay the price if it all falls apart. But, if you are prepared to take the risk, Scorpio is absolutely unforgettable.
Find all of this a little disturbing? Venus in Scorpio is like the forbidden apple- you know it's not right, but by god does it feel good!
If you are a man with Venus in Scorpio, this is pretty well how you approach love and relationships- with single minded intensity??_and your prey will not stand a chance! You will be attracted to women who are in touch with their darker, more base instincts. She will have either a strong Scorpio signature to her chart, or a strong Pluto element to her chart- eg Scorpio personal planets or Pluto closely aspecting her personal planets (especially the Moon or Venus). She may have a full 8th house or Pluto in the 7th. Either way, you are a man who likes a challenge and may enjoy the odd power game, so to speak.
If she suspects you are not entirely honest, she becomes the most brilliant forensic detective- and will continue to pursue the truth until she has either proven your guilt, or accepted your innocence. With Scorpio, innocent until proven guilty does not apply. Just make sure you have removed all traces of any incriminating texts or emails??_
Having said that, Venus in Scorpio attaches deeply and emotionally, and has difficulty in separating sex from love. Sex for Scorpio is an 8th house transformative, life changing experience, not 5th house fun. Don't mess with Scorpio in love unless you are prepared to pay the price if it all falls apart. But, if you are prepared to take the risk, Scorpio is absolutely unforgettable.
Find all of this a little disturbing? Venus in Scorpio is like the forbidden apple- you know it's not right, but by god does it feel good!
If you are a man with Venus in Scorpio, this is pretty well how you approach love and relationships- with single minded intensity??_and your prey will not stand a chance! You will be attracted to women who are in touch with their darker, more base instincts. She will have either a strong Scorpio signature to her chart, or a strong Pluto element to her chart- eg Scorpio personal planets or Pluto closely aspecting her personal planets (especially the Moon or Venus). She may have a full 8th house or Pluto in the 7th. Either way, you are a man who likes a challenge and may enjoy the odd power game, so to speak.
---cont'ed---
From a fashion viewpoint, Venus in Scorpio favours the darkside. She is the classic femme fatale, Mata Hari or the male equivalent. She is clad is a sharp pencil skirt, spike heels and a silk blouse. She is a leather clad, stiletto shod domanitrix. She is the Emo hanging around Flinders St station with piercings and ink. She is all of these and none of them. Even when she is at her most conservative, there will be an edge of some sort to what she wears.
As for interiors, think black, dark purple, blood red, leather, silk and sumptuous gothic underworld crypt-ish glamour. Check out the photo below. It was taken last year at Spellbox- The Witches House in Melbourne. Unfortunately the shop has now closed (but Spellbox the original remains very much alive in the Royal Arcade), but the interior was Venus in Scorpio personified. With gothic style d book-shelves containing apothecary bottles of all conceivable herbs and powders, scrying bowls, owls, mortar and pestles and twigs of birch as accessories. Drapes of purple and jewelled blue fabrics from the ceiling and turquoise walls, with the only light coming from candelabra and crystal chandeliers, this shop was Venus in Scorpio interior decorating bliss??_although for home use you may want to tone it down just a tad
J??ai ton amour et je veux ta revanche
J??ai ton amour, I don't wanna be friends
??_you and me could write a bad romance??_
Lyrics from Bad Romance by Lady Gaga
Does this read like you or someone you know? If you are a Scorpio woman or a man or woman with Venus in Scorpio or Venus conjunct, square, inconjunct or opposite Pluto, this may read a little too true (and tempting) for comfort!
The End.
From a fashion viewpoint, Venus in Scorpio favours the darkside. She is the classic femme fatale, Mata Hari or the male equivalent. She is clad is a sharp pencil skirt, spike heels and a silk blouse. She is a leather clad, stiletto shod domanitrix. She is the Emo hanging around Flinders St station with piercings and ink. She is all of these and none of them. Even when she is at her most conservative, there will be an edge of some sort to what she wears.
As for interiors, think black, dark purple, blood red, leather, silk and sumptuous gothic underworld crypt-ish glamour. Check out the photo below. It was taken last year at Spellbox- The Witches House in Melbourne. Unfortunately the shop has now closed (but Spellbox the original remains very much alive in the Royal Arcade), but the interior was Venus in Scorpio personified. With gothic style d book-shelves containing apothecary bottles of all conceivable herbs and powders, scrying bowls, owls, mortar and pestles and twigs of birch as accessories. Drapes of purple and jewelled blue fabrics from the ceiling and turquoise walls, with the only light coming from candelabra and crystal chandeliers, this shop was Venus in Scorpio interior decorating bliss??_although for home use you may want to tone it down just a tad
J??ai ton amour et je veux ta revanche
J??ai ton amour, I don't wanna be friends
??_you and me could write a bad romance??_
Lyrics from Bad Romance by Lady Gaga
Does this read like you or someone you know? If you are a Scorpio woman or a man or woman with Venus in Scorpio or Venus conjunct, square, inconjunct or opposite Pluto, this may read a little too true (and tempting) for comfort!
The End.
Heathcliff, Wuthering Heights and Venus in Scorpio
Wuthering Heights is one of my all time favourite books. It has all the ingredients of a truly obsessive, passionate, all consuming romance??_ with a bit of revenge thrown in??_and that gets me going quite nicely thank-you very much. I don't think Emily Bronte was interested in astrology- it wasn't really the done thing back in those days for well brought up young girls??_ (actually writing such a heavy handed romance probably wasn't the done thing either, which was probably why she published it as Ellis Bell). That being said, Heathcliff is incredibly scorpionic:
??Abandoned as a child, he transforms himself into a wealthy and powerful man- like a phoenix from the ashes, he is reborn and unrecognisable.
??He had magnetism and sex appeal to coax Isabella into running away with him
??His love for Cathy was all consuming, undying and obsessive. He was not prepared to share her. The scene where he does the unthinkable and opens her grave in order to ensure that in death he can be as one with her is base level Scorpio.
??Revenge fantasies??_ need I say more? Heathcliff patiently builds his fortune and plots the downfall of those who have hurt him- revenge being served very cold indeed.
I could go on, but you get the picture?
Emily Bronte has not been the only author over the years to use the Heathcliff imagery. Many romance novelists unconsciously use the male Scorpio archetype as their Hero. Consider, a powerful, magnetic presence, extremely male, with eyes a girl could melt in and a mesmerising physical presence which can be felt and inhaled. Despite her best efforts she can't resist the attraction, and hates herself for it, but his raw sexuality is the stuff fantasies are made of. The Hero himself is incredibly private and manages to control his feelings behind the pain of previous heartbreak that must be acknowledged and dealt with before he can give himself to the heroine and be transformed by love. He sends signals so subtle that she is unsure of his feelings and often struggles between the fantasy being played out in her head against what he says and how he acts. Welcome to Venus in Scorpio.
Venus in Scorpio is considered in traditional astrology to be in her detriment. Scorpios natural secrecy, paranoia and reluctance to trust makes it difficult for love to be given and received freely. These traits often lead others to consider Venus in Scorpio as being anti-social, but re
Wuthering Heights is one of my all time favourite books. It has all the ingredients of a truly obsessive, passionate, all consuming romance??_ with a bit of revenge thrown in??_and that gets me going quite nicely thank-you very much. I don't think Emily Bronte was interested in astrology- it wasn't really the done thing back in those days for well brought up young girls??_ (actually writing such a heavy handed romance probably wasn't the done thing either, which was probably why she published it as Ellis Bell). That being said, Heathcliff is incredibly scorpionic:
??Abandoned as a child, he transforms himself into a wealthy and powerful man- like a phoenix from the ashes, he is reborn and unrecognisable.
??He had magnetism and sex appeal to coax Isabella into running away with him
??His love for Cathy was all consuming, undying and obsessive. He was not prepared to share her. The scene where he does the unthinkable and opens her grave in order to ensure that in death he can be as one with her is base level Scorpio.
??Revenge fantasies??_ need I say more? Heathcliff patiently builds his fortune and plots the downfall of those who have hurt him- revenge being served very cold indeed.
I could go on, but you get the picture?
Emily Bronte has not been the only author over the years to use the Heathcliff imagery. Many romance novelists unconsciously use the male Scorpio archetype as their Hero. Consider, a powerful, magnetic presence, extremely male, with eyes a girl could melt in and a mesmerising physical presence which can be felt and inhaled. Despite her best efforts she can't resist the attraction, and hates herself for it, but his raw sexuality is the stuff fantasies are made of. The Hero himself is incredibly private and manages to control his feelings behind the pain of previous heartbreak that must be acknowledged and dealt with before he can give himself to the heroine and be transformed by love. He sends signals so subtle that she is unsure of his feelings and often struggles between the fantasy being played out in her head against what he says and how he acts. Welcome to Venus in Scorpio.
Venus in Scorpio is considered in traditional astrology to be in her detriment. Scorpios natural secrecy, paranoia and reluctance to trust makes it difficult for love to be given and received freely. These traits often lead others to consider Venus in Scorpio as being anti-social, but re
Venus in Scorpio is considered in traditional astrology to be in her detriment. Scorpios natural secrecy, paranoia and reluctance to trust makes it difficult for love to be given and received freely. These traits often lead others to consider Venus in Scorpio as being anti-social, but really she just likes to stand on the sidelines and observe.
In order to feel close to others she must feel intensely. This is emotional and physical penetration- something which can be quite frightening to signs not as motivated by their emotions. It can be especially un-nerving to Venus in air and fire signs where freedom and a level of detachment are required in order to function at their most creative. Venus in Scorpio has no time for detachment- relationships are all-consuming and ultimately healing.
Women with Venus in Scorpio are intensely sexual. This is the archetypal vamp whereby her sexuality and her ability to attract becomes very much part of her ego and confidence- more so, perhaps, than her ability to connect with her partners in a non sexual manner. A woman with Venus in Scorpio is able to have sex like a man (remember that episode of Sex and the City?).
A man with this placement is after a powerful woman, someone with Scorpio traits, a strong Mars identity, someone who is into intense relationships. He wants to be transformed through his relationships. The perfect housewife need not apply- this man needs passion and intensity. Twin sets and pearls don't have a place??_ unless they are used for role-playing in the bedroom??_ but that is the subject of an entirely different post.
The end.
In order to feel close to others she must feel intensely. This is emotional and physical penetration- something which can be quite frightening to signs not as motivated by their emotions. It can be especially un-nerving to Venus in air and fire signs where freedom and a level of detachment are required in order to function at their most creative. Venus in Scorpio has no time for detachment- relationships are all-consuming and ultimately healing.
Women with Venus in Scorpio are intensely sexual. This is the archetypal vamp whereby her sexuality and her ability to attract becomes very much part of her ego and confidence- more so, perhaps, than her ability to connect with her partners in a non sexual manner. A woman with Venus in Scorpio is able to have sex like a man (remember that episode of Sex and the City?).
A man with this placement is after a powerful woman, someone with Scorpio traits, a strong Mars identity, someone who is into intense relationships. He wants to be transformed through his relationships. The perfect housewife need not apply- this man needs passion and intensity. Twin sets and pearls don't have a place??_ unless they are used for role-playing in the bedroom??_ but that is the subject of an entirely different post.
The end.
Venus in Scorpio: This Venus takes love seriously and has extremely high standards regarding loyalty, security and dedication to the commitment. There is a deep, smoldering sexuality and sensuality inherent with this Venus and passion is one of loves strongest outlets. Security issues are usually paramount and jealousy and possessiveness can be problems.
In a woman's chart: This woman gives her love through her passions. She captivates the man she loves by engulfing him in her sexuality and her depths. Expects utter loyalty from her lover. Can be jealous to an extreme. Adores experimenting to reach new heights and depths if passion. Quiet and secretive and often isn't comfortable expressing her feelings verbally....and uses her actions and passions to express them.
In a mans chart: This man can be intrigued by women he finds unexplainable and untamable and problems are usually the result. This is often a hard Venus for a man to assimilate as that which enchants him is usually not good for him in the long run. Needs a mate capable of handling intense love and passion and able to maintain security and stability is equally important. Extremely attracted to a woman he feels is his sexual equal..or one who can 'become' that.
In a woman's chart: This woman gives her love through her passions. She captivates the man she loves by engulfing him in her sexuality and her depths. Expects utter loyalty from her lover. Can be jealous to an extreme. Adores experimenting to reach new heights and depths if passion. Quiet and secretive and often isn't comfortable expressing her feelings verbally....and uses her actions and passions to express them.
In a mans chart: This man can be intrigued by women he finds unexplainable and untamable and problems are usually the result. This is often a hard Venus for a man to assimilate as that which enchants him is usually not good for him in the long run. Needs a mate capable of handling intense love and passion and able to maintain security and stability is equally important. Extremely attracted to a woman he feels is his sexual equal..or one who can 'become' that.
Venus in Scorpio
Water
To those who do not know you well, you usually seem calm and in control of your emotions. But beneath the surface it is quite another story, as you are as intense and deeply passionate as it gets. You are not interested in casual liaisons, as your approach to love is all or nothing and you can form almost telepathic links with those you care for. Venus in Scorpio is famous for its magnetism and charisma - and its interest in sex. But what you are really after is a chance to reach the heights of love and powerful emotion. You will risk your all to get there and you are not afraid to plumb the depths, or to break taboos that more conventional signs abide by. You are also fiercely loyal and will fight to the death to help your loved ones. But woe betide someone who betrays your trust, for you can be vengeful and you do not easily forget. Life may be hard, at times, for those with Venus here, but you are more likely to experience true joy than those who are more superficial and light-hearted. And you have more than enough courage to cope with anything, or anyone, who comes along. Not to mention the seductive powers to win them. Men with Venus here choose deep, powerful, sultry women.
Love and Relating
Remember that someone may show strong Gemini or Taurus traits, perhaps because they have the Moon or Venus here, but have the Sun in quite another zodiac sign.
Venus in Scorpio with:
Fiery, pioneering Aries:
This love can be a very liberating, passionate experience. You both want, and need, to break new emotional ground to really feel alive, but they could lack your staying power.
Down to earth and loyal Taurus:
This is physical passion at its most fulfilling. They also know how to soothe your tempestuous emotions and can help you to enjoy the simple pleasures of this earth.
Quick-witted, restless Gemini:
They are great fun and can bring out your playful, childlike side, but your intensity and depth can make them feel confused and threatened, so tread gently.
Sensitive, maternal Cancer:
You can show the way you really feel inside to them, as they are not afraid of love or of emotion. You are both private people, and they bring out your softness and compassion.
Water
To those who do not know you well, you usually seem calm and in control of your emotions. But beneath the surface it is quite another story, as you are as intense and deeply passionate as it gets. You are not interested in casual liaisons, as your approach to love is all or nothing and you can form almost telepathic links with those you care for. Venus in Scorpio is famous for its magnetism and charisma - and its interest in sex. But what you are really after is a chance to reach the heights of love and powerful emotion. You will risk your all to get there and you are not afraid to plumb the depths, or to break taboos that more conventional signs abide by. You are also fiercely loyal and will fight to the death to help your loved ones. But woe betide someone who betrays your trust, for you can be vengeful and you do not easily forget. Life may be hard, at times, for those with Venus here, but you are more likely to experience true joy than those who are more superficial and light-hearted. And you have more than enough courage to cope with anything, or anyone, who comes along. Not to mention the seductive powers to win them. Men with Venus here choose deep, powerful, sultry women.
Love and Relating
Remember that someone may show strong Gemini or Taurus traits, perhaps because they have the Moon or Venus here, but have the Sun in quite another zodiac sign.
Venus in Scorpio with:
Fiery, pioneering Aries:
This love can be a very liberating, passionate experience. You both want, and need, to break new emotional ground to really feel alive, but they could lack your staying power.
Down to earth and loyal Taurus:
This is physical passion at its most fulfilling. They also know how to soothe your tempestuous emotions and can help you to enjoy the simple pleasures of this earth.
Quick-witted, restless Gemini:
They are great fun and can bring out your playful, childlike side, but your intensity and depth can make them feel confused and threatened, so tread gently.
Sensitive, maternal Cancer:
You can show the way you really feel inside to them, as they are not afraid of love or of emotion. You are both private people, and they bring out your softness and compassion.
Dramatic and romantic Leo:
You both approach love and passion with a religious fervour, which makes this a highly charged romance, but make sure of their real feelings before you take the plunge.
Cool, realistic Virgo:
The strength of your feelings can, at times, be hard to handle. They can help you find your way through the emotional maze and find a new balance and contentment.
Romantic and sophisticated Libra:
Gentle and appealing they may be, but your idea of what love should be can be very different to theirs, and they can lack your need to share emotions on a deep, committed level.
Intense, passionate Scorpio:
Perhaps they are the only ones who will understand the real depths of your emotions and your passionate ideals. But this love could be almost too intense, even for you.
Adventurous, idealistic Sagittarius:
You both look for some kind of higher truth in love, but they are life's explorers, and could find it hard to give you the certainty and the assurance that you seek..
Reserved and loyal Capricorn:
With you they are able to reveal their gentler, more emotional side, which they tend to keep hidden. They will take your feelings seriously and are loyal to the last.
Idealistic and freethinking Aquarius:
This can be a strong relationship, although they may find your possessiveness difficult to cope with. But they can give you a new lens to view life through.
Sensitive and dreamy Pisces:
Rainbows, tears, an ocean of emotion. You find in them a sensitive and deeply caring lover who brings out your protectiveness and empowers your imagination.
You both approach love and passion with a religious fervour, which makes this a highly charged romance, but make sure of their real feelings before you take the plunge.
Cool, realistic Virgo:
The strength of your feelings can, at times, be hard to handle. They can help you find your way through the emotional maze and find a new balance and contentment.
Romantic and sophisticated Libra:
Gentle and appealing they may be, but your idea of what love should be can be very different to theirs, and they can lack your need to share emotions on a deep, committed level.
Intense, passionate Scorpio:
Perhaps they are the only ones who will understand the real depths of your emotions and your passionate ideals. But this love could be almost too intense, even for you.
Adventurous, idealistic Sagittarius:
You both look for some kind of higher truth in love, but they are life's explorers, and could find it hard to give you the certainty and the assurance that you seek..
Reserved and loyal Capricorn:
With you they are able to reveal their gentler, more emotional side, which they tend to keep hidden. They will take your feelings seriously and are loyal to the last.
Idealistic and freethinking Aquarius:
This can be a strong relationship, although they may find your possessiveness difficult to cope with. But they can give you a new lens to view life through.
Sensitive and dreamy Pisces:
Rainbows, tears, an ocean of emotion. You find in them a sensitive and deeply caring lover who brings out your protectiveness and empowers your imagination.
Venus in Scorpio as the muse - part I
Yes, I'm afraid I had to split this Venus chapter into 2 for two reasons: lots of juicy information and a wonderful palette of lyrics including: pop, rock, folk, electronica, indie, grime and even a french First Lady! But let's begin:
Take a Water (feminine) sign and mix it with two (masculine) planet rulers with the calibre of Mars (god of War) and Pluto (god of Death). Then apply this mix into a feminine planet representing the way people love and their feminine side (Venus) and it all sounds a bit too heavy, don't you think?
And it is! With this position love is never a light and fun thing, but a deep, life-changing experience that usually leaves some scarrs (for better or worse). Take Bruce Springsteen (Sun in Libra) whose lyrics could write a seminar on Venus in Scorpio and his iconic song I'm on fire: Sometimes it's like someone took a knife baby, edgy and dull and cut a six-inch valley through the middle of my soul. Tormented is a good description.
Scorpio is the sign most connected to the dark side of things, being very aware of the most underground tendencies within each human being and recognizing that there's both Good and Evil in everyone. Take Jeff Buckley's (Sun in Scorpio) lyrics for instance: dark, mysterious, always mentioning death, life, embers, being reborn, angels and ghosts. Scorpios are experts at identifying your own secret side and exposing it in direct light, even if you are not aware of this side yourself. Scary, huh? But remember that were still talking about a Water sign, very susceptible to feelings, very emphatic and compassionate. Usually it's their intensity and their aptitude for intimacy that draws people to them.
Yes, I'm afraid I had to split this Venus chapter into 2 for two reasons: lots of juicy information and a wonderful palette of lyrics including: pop, rock, folk, electronica, indie, grime and even a french First Lady! But let's begin:
Take a Water (feminine) sign and mix it with two (masculine) planet rulers with the calibre of Mars (god of War) and Pluto (god of Death). Then apply this mix into a feminine planet representing the way people love and their feminine side (Venus) and it all sounds a bit too heavy, don't you think?
And it is! With this position love is never a light and fun thing, but a deep, life-changing experience that usually leaves some scarrs (for better or worse). Take Bruce Springsteen (Sun in Libra) whose lyrics could write a seminar on Venus in Scorpio and his iconic song I'm on fire: Sometimes it's like someone took a knife baby, edgy and dull and cut a six-inch valley through the middle of my soul. Tormented is a good description.
Scorpio is the sign most connected to the dark side of things, being very aware of the most underground tendencies within each human being and recognizing that there's both Good and Evil in everyone. Take Jeff Buckley's (Sun in Scorpio) lyrics for instance: dark, mysterious, always mentioning death, life, embers, being reborn, angels and ghosts. Scorpios are experts at identifying your own secret side and exposing it in direct light, even if you are not aware of this side yourself. Scary, huh? But remember that were still talking about a Water sign, very susceptible to feelings, very emphatic and compassionate. Usually it's their intensity and their aptitude for intimacy that draws people to them.
It isn't easy to start a relationship with someone with Venus in Scorpio - they might appear like loners because they don't like to relate to a great number of people and are very discriminative of whom they relate to. Maybe they won't even give you the chance to introduce yourself because they have a general mistrust of people. Bruce Springsteen sings: Girl, ain't no kindness in the face of strangers, Ain't gonna find no miracles here. They are always allert and expecting the worst from others and life (the price to pay for knowing the dark side).
It's the same thing with love: Beth Orton (Sagittarius Sun) sings: Love is a one way train, comes on gentle as a hurricane, it's got p.a.i.n. written all the way through. Mike Skinner from The Streets (Sagittarius Sun as well) in one of his songs about love, comments: It weren't supposed to be easy, surely. These people are no romantics. Springsteen sings: True love can't be no fairytale and Ain't no church bells ringing, Ain't no flags unfurled, It's just me and you and the love we're bringing into the real world. Like other Water signs, they are oversensitive and take measures to protect themselves. Natalie Merchant (Sun in Scorpio) is metaphorical: Gotta build yourself a levee deep inside, Build yourself a levee girl when the waters run high.
It's the same thing with love: Beth Orton (Sagittarius Sun) sings: Love is a one way train, comes on gentle as a hurricane, it's got p.a.i.n. written all the way through. Mike Skinner from The Streets (Sagittarius Sun as well) in one of his songs about love, comments: It weren't supposed to be easy, surely. These people are no romantics. Springsteen sings: True love can't be no fairytale and Ain't no church bells ringing, Ain't no flags unfurled, It's just me and you and the love we're bringing into the real world. Like other Water signs, they are oversensitive and take measures to protect themselves. Natalie Merchant (Sun in Scorpio) is metaphorical: Gotta build yourself a levee deep inside, Build yourself a levee girl when the waters run high.
In fact, when they're entering a relationship they're pessimistic to a fault. Listen to Natalie Merchant for example: So you're in love, it's so good for you, live it up girl cause it never lasted long, it's heaven for now but not for long, it's gonna hurt, it's gonna make you feel so bad. Maybe it's others who ruin it: Mike Skinner asks - Can you rely on anyone in this World? No you can't, is his answer. Or maybe it's themselves: Nelly Furtado (Sun in Sagittarius) warns:...I will only cause you pain (I promise that); Beth Orton agrees: Yeah, we only hurt the ones we love, while...we don't need a reason. Jeff Buckley shared the same problem: I've loved so many times and I've drowned them all. Or maybe it's something else: It ought to be easy (..) simple enough, man meets a woman and they fall in love, but the house is haunted and the ride gets rough, and you've gotto learn to live with what you can't rise above.
Scorpio's biggest fear is losing control of themselves and their lives. They won't find it funny if a loved one attempts to change them - they take it upon themselves to transform periodically, just like the snake shades its skin or the phoenix is reborn from the embers (two symbols of this sign). Having Mars as a co-ruler makes Scorpio extremely individualistic and building their own path in life (being the only god of their soul) is their biggest goal.
Scorpio's biggest fear is losing control of themselves and their lives. They won't find it funny if a loved one attempts to change them - they take it upon themselves to transform periodically, just like the snake shades its skin or the phoenix is reborn from the embers (two symbols of this sign). Having Mars as a co-ruler makes Scorpio extremely individualistic and building their own path in life (being the only god of their soul) is their biggest goal.
You won't find many of them getting drunk and making a fool of themselves or enjoying frivilous occupations. This isn't the kind of partner who will kneel on your feet with declarations of endless love. Venus in Scorpio is always dignified, always in control, always right. Natalie Merchant sings: I'm not gonna beg you for nothing, I'm not gonna beg you for love. One of Mike Skinner's songs is about a man smitten by a lady and it's called: don't mug yourself! Nelly Furtado confesses: I pretend to be cool with me, want to believe that I can do it on my own without my heart on my sleeve. Springsteen also sings: you're so afraid of being somebody's fool, not walking tough baby, not walking cool. They need a lot of daily introspection and are always seeking the explanation to everything: how they feel, how you feel (because they always know!), why you said this, why you didn't say that...You may feel like telling them to lighten up a little but they are simply too serious about love.
Look at all the bullshit you have to deal with when you hook up with a V in S.
Who the fuck would want that? I know of at least one person.
Who the fuck would want that? I know of at least one person.
Posted by Sutekh
I have venus in scorpio and it's not easy at all especially with libra and Sagittarius all over my chart.
O how i feel your pain... I have libra and sag all over mine too i'm lib sun cap moon scorp venus... Just when I start to questions astrology i read some things that are so damn accurate about myself.. Reading all that stuff just creeped me out and helped to understand why i am the way i am... I'm a libra but I'm a loner.. so weird.
The one time I felt absolutley in love was with an aries sun moon sag venus pisces..
I am soooo all or nothing.. I just waiting around for almost a year for a cancer guy.. When I like someone I only like them.. Finally decided to call it quits when I realized it would never be all or nothing... He was gem venus.. smh.. crazy shit
Thanks for posting all that info
Posted by libnicole84Posted by Sutekh
I have venus in scorpio and it's not easy at all especially with libra and Sagittarius all over my chart.
O how i feel your pain... I have libra and sag all over mine too i'm lib sun cap moon scorp venus... Just when I start to questions astrology i read some things that are so damn accurate about myself.. Reading all that stuff just creeped me out and helped to understand why i am the way i am... I'm a libra but I'm a loner.. so weird.
The one time I felt absolutley in love was with an aries sun moon sag venus pisces..
I am soooo all or nothing.. I just waiting around for almost a year for a cancer guy.. When I like someone I only like them.. Finally decided to call it quits when I realized it would never be all or nothing... He was gem venus.. smh.. crazy shit
Thanks for posting all that infoclick to expand
I personally believe that having Sag in your chart sort of balances the Venus in Scorp out. I LOOOOvve having Venus in Scorpio:
Sun Libra 9.43 Ascendant Gemini 1.39
Moon Sagittarius 24.54 II Gemini 25.22
Mercury Scorpio 0.20 III Cancer 15.48
Venus Scorpio 22.51 IV Leo 7.34
Mars Taurus 7.59 R V Virgo 5.17
Jupiter Aquarius 2.19 VI Libra 14.31
Saturn Cancer 4.34 VII Sagittarius 1.39
Uranus Libra 22.34 VIII Sagittarius 25.22
Neptune Sagittarius 5.16 IX Capricorn 15.48
Pluto Libra 4.31 Midheaven Aquarius 7.34
Lilith Capricorn 5.23 XI Pisces 5.17
Asc node Capricorn 2.13 XII Aries 14.31
—I'm looking for love. Real love. Ridiculous, inconvenient, consuming, can't-live-without-e—ach-other love.?? Carrie from sex and the city...
This is the story of my life venus in scorpio much?
This is the story of my life venus in scorpio much?
whoa when you leave at 2 replies and come back to 26 🙂
much gratitude wgamador2, thank you for your time, I'll go read now
much gratitude wgamador2, thank you for your time, I'll go read now
Posted by Reconstructing_a_Leo
whoa when you leave at 2 replies and come back to 26 🙂
much gratitude wgamador2, thank you for your time, I'll go read now
Yeah. Things move fast in DXP World.
I will run into threads and be all late cause they go up so fast and by the time i get to them its too late to make a worthwile contribution to them.
Oh and youre welcome, just copy and pasting.
Posted by wgamador2
---cont'ed---
From a fashion viewpoint, Venus in Scorpio favours the darkside. She is the classic femme fatale, Mata Hari or the male equivalent. She is clad is a sharp pencil skirt, spike heels and a silk blouse. She is a leather clad, stiletto shod domanitrix. She is the Emo hanging around Flinders St station with piercings and ink. She is all of these and none of them. Even when she is at her most conservative, there will be an edge of some sort to what she wears.
As for interiors, think black, dark purple, blood red, leather, silk and sumptuous gothic underworld crypt-ish glamour. Check out the photo below. It was taken last year at Spellbox- The Witches House in Melbourne. Unfortunately the shop has now closed (but Spellbox the original remains very much alive in the Royal Arcade), but the interior was Venus in Scorpio personified. With gothic style d book-shelves containing apothecary bottles of all conceivable herbs and powders, scrying bowls, owls, mortar and pestles and twigs of birch as accessories. Drapes of purple and jewelled blue fabrics from the ceiling and turquoise walls, with the only light coming from candelabra and crystal chandeliers, this shop was Venus in Scorpio interior decorating bliss??_although for home use you may want to tone it down just a tad
J??ai ton amour et je veux ta revanch
J??ai ton amour, I don't wanna be friends
??_you and me could write a bad romance??_
Lyrics from Bad Romance by Lady Gaga
Does this read like you or someone you know? If you are a Scorpio woman or a man or woman with Venus in Scorpio or Venus conjunct, square, inconjunct or opposite Pluto, this may read a little too true (and tempting) for comfort!
The End.
This makes me laugh too. When I was younger I had my belly button tongue nipples n nose pierced. I only have two tattoos. I wear alot of black n dark colors purple red. I have to force myself to get other colors I have to much black! I've been told I have "demon" eyes "vampire" eyes. Whatever that means. And I am always asked of I smoke which I don't I'm always like what does that mean they say I look "edgy" haha smh.
Posted by libnicole84Posted by wgamador2
---cont'ed---
From a fashion viewpoint, Venus in Scorpio favours the darkside. She is the classic femme fatale, Mata Hari or the male equivalent. She is clad is a sharp pencil skirt, spike heels and a silk blouse. She is a leather clad, stiletto shod domanitrix. She is the Emo hanging around Flinders St station with piercings and ink. She is all of these and none of them. Even when she is at her most conservative, there will be an edge of some sort to what she wears.
As for interiors, think black, dark purple, blood red, leather, silk and sumptuous gothic underworld crypt-ish...
J??ai ton amour et je veux ta revanch
J??ai ton amour, I don't wanna be friends
??_you and me could write a bad romance??_
Lyrics from Bad Romance by Lady Gaga
Does this read like you or someone you know? If you are a Scorpio woman or a man or woman with Venus in Scorpio or Venus conjunct, square, inconjunct or opposite Pluto, this may read a little too true (and tempting) for comfort!
The End.
This makes me laugh too. When I was younger I had my belly button tongue nipples n nose pierced. I only have two tattoos. I wear alot of black n dark colors purple red. I have to force myself to get other colors I have to much black! I've been told I have "demon" eyes "vampire" eyes. Whatever that means. And I am always asked of I smoke which I don't I'm always like what does that mean they say I look "edgy" haha smh.click to expand
Your post made me think of one of my fave pictures on the internet:
So thank you!!!
But yeah V in S women are known for being sexy without even trying. Another reason I like astrology is that it helps with my characters.
A V in S always makes it into my scripts somehow.
Posted by libnicole84Posted by wgamador2
---cont'ed---
From a fashion viewpoint, Venus in Scorpio favours the darkside. She is the classic femme fatale, Mata Hari or the male equivalent. She is clad is a sharp pencil skirt, spike heels and a silk blouse. She is a leather clad, stiletto shod domanitrix. She is the Emo hanging around Flinders St station with piercings and ink. She is all of these and none of them. Even when she is at her most conservative, there will be an edge of some sort to what she wears.
As for interiors, think black, dark purple, blood red, leather, silk and sumptuous gothic underworld crypt-ish glamour. Check out the photo below. It was taken last year at Spellbox- The Witches House in Melbourne. Unfortunately the shop has now closed (but Spellbox the original remains very much alive in the Royal Arcade), but the interior was Venus in Scorpio personified. With gothic style d book-shelves containing apothecary bottles of all conceivable herbs and powders, scrying bowls, owls, mortar and pestles and twigs of birch as accessories. Drapes of purple and jewelled blue fabrics from the ceiling and turquoise walls, with the only light coming from candelabra and crystal chandeliers, this shop was Venus in Scorpio interior decorating bliss??_although for home use you may want to tone it down just a tad
J??ai ton amour et je veux ta revanch
J??ai ton amour, I don't wanna be friends
??_you and me could write a bad romance??_
Lyrics from Bad Romance by Lady Gaga
Does this read like you or someone you know? If you are a Scorpio woman or a man or woman with Venus in Scorpio or Venus conjunct, square, inconjunct or opposite Pluto, this may read a little too true (and tempting) for comfort!
The End.
This makes me laugh too. When I was younger I had my belly button tongue nipples n nose pierced. I only have two tattoos. I wear alot of black n dark colors purple red. I have to force myself to get other colors I have to much black! I've been told I have "demon" eyes "vampire" eyes. Whatever that means. And I am always asked of I smoke which I don't I'm always like what does that mean they say I look "edgy" haha smh.click to expand
Im Scorpio man with Scorpio Venus & Mecury with Moon in cap. The description you put libnicole84 is alot like the girls i go for, for some
Wow, im noticing a pattern with VinS.
I just got off the phone with my Cap/VinS friend, and he always talks about sex, but in a way which he swears it doesnt mean anything to him. Saying that it's just sex, and if he cheats it doesnt mean he's not in love, its even okay if she cheats. Sex is just sex.
Ive been getting the impressuon for,years that he doesnt care about cheating or his SO having sex with other people.
Welk he just dropped a ton on,me tonight saying that befoee he went to Cuba(hes in the military), him and his girl(now wife) were having sex and he told her he was about ti get her pregnant, by not,pulling out or whatever, so she wouldnt,cheat on him while he was away. A literally WTF moment!
Then I start thinking about Rose story she posted on the Taurus forum of her Cap/VinS cousin setting a Taurus up in a similar way..getting pregnant and badically saying the guy is stuck with her now.
Then I started thinking about my sisters Scorpio/VinS ex who is now my nieces father. He would poke holes in the condoms, and was trying to trap my sister for years. My sister finally got pregnant and as soon as my sister had the baby, he turned to my mom and said "I guess Im in your life forever now."
And it all makes sense now why I could vision me(Cap/VinS) and a Scorpio/VinS, who I was head over heals for, having the perfect life but me NEVER EVER wanting to have his kids. I could sense that he'd put his permanent hold on me thri a child. Crazy how I would pick up on that. Even crazier are these stories.
I think I have psycho b $ tch potential, so Im curious as to how you transform or evolve this placement? I dont want to turn into any of these people lol.
I just got off the phone with my Cap/VinS friend, and he always talks about sex, but in a way which he swears it doesnt mean anything to him. Saying that it's just sex, and if he cheats it doesnt mean he's not in love, its even okay if she cheats. Sex is just sex.
Ive been getting the impressuon for,years that he doesnt care about cheating or his SO having sex with other people.
Welk he just dropped a ton on,me tonight saying that befoee he went to Cuba(hes in the military), him and his girl(now wife) were having sex and he told her he was about ti get her pregnant, by not,pulling out or whatever, so she wouldnt,cheat on him while he was away. A literally WTF moment!
Then I start thinking about Rose story she posted on the Taurus forum of her Cap/VinS cousin setting a Taurus up in a similar way..getting pregnant and badically saying the guy is stuck with her now.
Then I started thinking about my sisters Scorpio/VinS ex who is now my nieces father. He would poke holes in the condoms, and was trying to trap my sister for years. My sister finally got pregnant and as soon as my sister had the baby, he turned to my mom and said "I guess Im in your life forever now."
And it all makes sense now why I could vision me(Cap/VinS) and a Scorpio/VinS, who I was head over heals for, having the perfect life but me NEVER EVER wanting to have his kids. I could sense that he'd put his permanent hold on me thri a child. Crazy how I would pick up on that. Even crazier are these stories.
I think I have psycho b $ tch potential, so Im curious as to how you transform or evolve this placement? I dont want to turn into any of these people lol.
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