Venus in Scorpio-Trust Issues

Hi guys-
I have venus in scorpio and I have trust issues how do you handle your issues when they rear their ugly heads? I would love all VIS to comment...Love this song too!

Girl, why did you just post my song? I listened to that song on repeat at least seven times today.

I have trust issues too, and I'm also a venus in scorpio. I think it's a Cap thing too though.

IKR! I got this song on reppppppeatttttttt...Lawd hit me down in my soul!

I'm always a day closer to controlling my Venus in Scorpio.

I dont have trust issues because honestly I dont give a fuck anymore.
You want to go and find "better'.... go ahead. I fought for Love once and it was all for nothing so I will never put myself in that situation ever again.
With V. in S., you only get one chance to make a fool out of yourself when it comes to trust and possessiveness or shall i say what 'others' perceive as possessiveness.
And in all honesty....its those without V. in S. who need to worry about trusting US with that placement, since it is US who are overcome with passion on a daily basis, only the truly evolved can contain it, and remain loyal, cause really, who can be MORE flirtatious than US??. And all you fellow V's in S. know im right.

Time to flip that script, V's in S's.

Posted by wgamador2
I'm always a day closer to controlling my Venus in Scorpio.

I dont have trust issues because honestly I dont give a fuck anymore.
You want to go and find "better'.... go ahead. I fought for Love once and it was all for nothing so I will never put myself in that situation ever again.
With V. in S., you only get one chance to make a fool out of yourself when it comes to trust and possessiveness or shall i say what 'others' perceive as possessiveness.
And in all honesty....its those without V. in S. who need to worry about trusting US with that placement, since it is US who are overcome with passion on a daily basis, only the truly evolved can contain it, and remain loyal, cause really, who can be MORE flirtatious than US??. And all you fellow V's in S. know im right.

Time to flip that script, V's in S's.

@wgamador2 On flipping the script...That is sooo true we (VIS) can definitely flip it so they really need to watch out. I can truly say I am overcoming my current VIS inflammation but you better believe I will be renewed because of it also highly aware next go round. I have reunited with a past flame who also has VIS we were always in sync we will see how it goes...

my man who has venus in scorpio said hes not that jealous, only "untrusting" ...do you guys really find it hard to trust someone? hmmmm...

Posted by MidniteStar
Not only do I find it hard to trust, but my jealousy is out of control. It eats me up inside. I never show my jealousy, but the more I keep it bottled up inside the worse it gets. What another person does is out of my control and that is my biggest fear. If I'm in a relationship and the guy wants to cheat, I can't stop him. It feels so helpless. I hate that feeling, but I can't stop the jealousy or paranoia I feel sometimes. Sometimes I really hate Venus in Scorpio with a passion!

Lawd, I totally feel like this at times but I feel my Aquarius moon helps me a bunch...Thank goodness otherwise I feel I would be in a tailspin...

Posted by Reason
Ahahaha, that's all so amusing, but i'd say if you ever lose my trust, it can never be regained, not that we become enemies or sth, just trust and ath associated with it won't be there
also, i really hate when ppl say 'trust/believe me', wth? that sounds soooo suspicious, ahahahaha, lol

IKR! I agree with you completely...I feel the same...

Posted by lnana04
Girl, why did you just post my song? I listened to that song on repeat at least seven times today.

I have trust issues too, and I'm also a venus in scorpio. I think it's a Cap thing too though.

@LNANA04 I like you already...Enjoy 🙂Thannks 4 posting!

wrong link lol

She doesnt talk much about TRUST ISSUES but still interesting...although its nothing we dont already know.

Liked that too & the venus scorp stars set to Justin...Hell what is it? if I can't stop looking at THOSE eyes then the mouth, most times very full/kissable...I'm getting carried away lol but on a serious note the Venus Scorps Ive known transfix me

There is something mysterious and instinctual about this blend of energies. In its retrograde phase Venus in Scorpio may have brought lovers out of the woodwork who were a mine of potentially explosive information. If this was the case, you may still be recovering from the fallout. It is not only that the past intrudes into the present, but that it exposes parts of ourselves that we don't want to be reminded of.

Venus retrograde in Scorpio may have caused us to back track and relive the starting point of our current relationship — the moment when we shook hands with fate and our future was sealed.

Yet Venus isn't only about how we relate to others, it is also about how we relate to ourselves. The retrograde phase encourages us to reflect on why we attract the people we do. What aspect of ourselves brings them into our lives, especially those people we consider difficult, boring or painful? Which parts of ourselves are we so busy denying that they have to show up in Technicolour in order to be noticed? The more attention these parts need, the closer and more intimately connected we are likely to be with that person.

Venus in Scorpio may coincide with a time in which we are prepared to undertake a little of the work of transformation. This kind of work takes a lifetime, but we can at least lift the lid and see what is happening down there.

This Venus/Pluto combination has all the hallmarks of passion, obsession, lust, greed, revenge and at times outrageous detachment, which some may see as ruthlessness. This blend of energies makes a beeline for the depths. They hate superficiality. A date with them might be like going for a therapy session in a restaurant. They will pick, pick, pick until they know everything about you — even your worst secrets.

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Those with Venus in Scorpio go straight for the jugular. They are very good at picking up vibes, and can spot a potential mate in seconds. They know how to use their natural magnetism as bait and may find it hard to admit defeat if the object of their attention should appear indifferent. Rather than taking —no?? for an answer they will continue to make their presence felt in one way or another, until the other person either gives in or refuses to have anything to do with them ever again. But if the tables are turned and they find themselves wanting out — they will have no problem about getting rid of anyone who is annoying, weak and no fun — or who does not share their black sense of humour.

If you are planning on getting involved with someone who has Venus in Scorpio make sure you know what you are letting yourself in for, especially if they have Pluto or Scorpio accentuated in other areas of their chart. You need to be strong to stand up to them and to dismiss their attempts at manipulation. If you can manage this and find you have a lot in common they will be loyal forever, or until the relationship comes to an end.

But if you upset them or cheat on them they will find it hard to forgive you — and may want to get back at you. Be warned.

Do they have any redeeming features. Well the care about you while you are on their radar. They care passionately and will tell you exactly what they think about your hair, your clothes, your weight issues, your latest creations and everything else in your life. If they tell you that you look great, or that you play the piano like a pro — believe them and tout your talent. They know what they are talking about.

If you can't handle their honesty and the fact that they can see into the heart of your soul 24/7, then you??d better steer clear

Posted by thxbutnothx
Not sure about the trust issue of venus in scorp. What stands out to me is once you venus in scorp fall in love you are like stalker clingy unable to let go even after the other person took off. Faithful to death do you apart kind lol. Not a kind placement to yourselves.

Yeah. Makes me wish I never Loved someone. My mind is rarely in peace because my heart isn't.
Its pretty ridiculous.
But I think the stalker, clingy thing, has a lot to do with how you injure the Venus in Scorpio you no longer love.

I was stung with deceit and it made the heartbreak worse, throw in other bullshit I put myself through and it sealed the scar. The person you Loved so deeply moves on and you are left with all this Love for them and they dont care.
Their hearts have connected with someone else's.

Thats the saddest day in the life of a V. in S. Learning that as each day you felt the love accumulate, that other person is heading in the opposite direction but still smiling at you.

Take a V. in S. i know, he is such a cheater and player, but he is happy. He wont mope or feel the crap I felt...I tell him I admire him in that sense because I would trade one of my extremities to never feel heartbreak, because it dimmed my life for so long. And anyone who knows me knows that I only have one fear in life....dismemberment.

Venus in Scorpio...

Those born with Venus in Scorpio need relationships which provide emotional depth, intensity and the potential for transformation. Venus here cannot stand relating to others in a superficial way, and they desire a deep, intense, passionate union.

They marry the person they love on a very deep emotional level, and they are extremely possessive and jealous of any threat to that relationship. The partner??s commitment and loyalty must be unflinching, and they tend to be somewhat suspicious of even platonic, friendly relationships that a partner has.

Scorpio is a fixed water sign and possesses the capacity for enduring love, and so betrayal and humiliation are rarely forgiven or forgotten. If they are betrayed, they are capable of hating with as much force and intensity as they once loved. Often early painful experiences are concealed by Venus in Scorpio, and in doing so, they protect great their vulnerability and hidden sensitivity.

Sometimes the darker undercurrents of love - cruelty, abuse, and crisis drive them into deep and shadowy relationship patterns. Venus in Scorpio seeks nothing less than complete merging with a partner, and much of the love nature is tangled up in power-struggles and maintaining control. Following an argument Scorpio's often have too much pride to offer an apology, and so their love nature is repressed and everything simmers and seethes underneath like a volcano ready to erupt.

Sexuality for Venus in Scorpio is more a matter of emotion and they long to taste the depths of sweet surrender. There isn't anything lukewarm about Scorpio's love, and they how to read lovers on an emotional and soul level. In love no one likes to lose what they have become attached to, and no one is left unaffected by relationships without changing.

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With Venus in the sign of Scorpio you're ardent and passionate in your primary relationship, and insists that your partner returns the intensity of your emotions. You're likely to enjoy the heights of passion if your love is matched in intensity, finding yourself thrust into a world of almost painful pleasure. Sensual pleasure is important to you, although you like to discover your partner's inner most thoughts and feelings. Problems can occur when your love isn't returned, and if your partner can't keep the intense fires of passion burning. Then your likely to suffer the depths of despair, perhaps even resorting to manipulation in order to keep your partner's attention.

Secret liaisons could play a part in your relationships, either your own or your partner's, particularly if the intensity becomes too claustrophobic. Jealousy and thoughts of vengeance can be a problem, although you would be wise not to give in to follow these avenues. Your challenge is to use your resources to find a middle patterns between the highs and the lows of intense emotion with relationships. Your relationships can then flourish as important resources in your life. At some stage in life you may benefit financially or through a legacy from an important relationship.

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By Stephanie Johnson

I'm a triple Scorpio also with Venus in Scorpio and I have BIG trust issues. No kidding. I am paranoid, I feel like I'm being watched, I am suspiscious. I know what you mean.

I'm a triple Scorpio also with Venus in Scorpio and I have BIG trust issues. No kidding. I am paranoid, I feel like I'm being watched, I am suspiscious. I know what you mean.