Venus in Virgo man admitted to loving me, yet wants us to stay friends.

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been talking and seeing this venus in virgo man for 6 months now.

im already crazy in love with him and expressed myself to the fullest (venus in sag).

he told me he loves me back but wants us to stay friends but its not realistic for it to work between us

(we live 8 drive apart Toronto & New York)

we talked more on the phone and he was torn up, i can hear him having trouble not getting emotional.

i told him i loved him and i'll move for him and do whatever it takes.

yet his too scared of us hurting each other due to distance and losing each other.



What the hell should i do?

he wants us to stay friends and i told him i cant see the man i love move on to someone els.

i just cant.
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Posted by TurquoiseArrow
Posted by simsim88
been talking and seeing this venus in virgo man for 6 months now.

im already crazy in love with him and expressed myself to the fullest (venus in sag).

he told me he loves me back but wants us to stay friends but its not realistic for it to work between us

(we live 8 drive apart Toronto & New York)

we talked more on the phone and he was torn up, i can hear him having trouble not getting emotional.

i told him i loved him and i'll move for him and do whatever it takes.

yet his too scared of us hurting each other due to distance and losing each other.



What the hell should i do?

he wants us to stay friends and i told him i cant see the man i love move on to someone els.

i just cant.
What aspects this guys venus?
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His Venus is in 25 Degrees Virgo. Sun libra, moon and rising Capricorn, mars is gemini

im Venus in sag, Sun capricorn, moon and rising virgo, mars aries

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Posted by lionspark
maybe he wasnt feeling the connection or loves you but not in love with you. if a virgo in venus doesn't feel loved even if they love, they will decide to leave -virgo venus
trust me his in love with me and its hurting him coming up with this decision.

and i make sure he feels loved, im always proving it to him on a daily basis.

im honestly think he is just scared of getting hurt, he admitted for having a big shell.

he is scared of it not working out due to distance, and we end up hurting eachother and losing eachother.

i guess time will only tell :S
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Posted by simsim88
Posted by TurquoiseArrow
Posted by simsim88
been talking and seeing this venus in virgo man for 6 months now.

im already crazy in love with him and expressed myself to the fullest (venus in sag).

he told me he loves me back but wants us to stay friends but its not realistic for it to work between us

(we live 8 drive apart Toronto & New York)

we talked more on the phone and he was torn up, i can hear him having trouble not getting emotional.

i told him i loved him and i'll move for him and do whatever it takes.

yet his too scared of us hurting each other due to distance and losing each other.



What the hell should i do?

he wants us to stay friends and i told him i cant see the man i love move on to someone els.

i just cant.
What aspects this guys venus?
His Venus is in 25 Degrees Virgo. Sun libra, moon and rising Capricorn, mars is gemini

im Venus in sag, Sun capricorn, moon and rising virgo, mars aries


But what aspects this guys venus? ....like venus conjunct foo....

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i dont know

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Posted by tiziani
Sounds like you've done everything you can. I remember we said have a plan, you came up with one and offered it (I'm assuming it was realistic). What more can the guy want? Can't force it, he has to come to his own conclusions now.

And funnily enough I also say in relationships "I don't want to talk about love" in the make or break moments. Purely because it can go on in circles. But you've been straightforward.


sadly i had multi plans to show him how it could work, realistic ones also because at end of the day i am a Capricorn with moon and rising Virgo.

but my venus in virgo lover set his mind up before i can even show him my plans...

which hurt me, and refused to be friends due to that.

now his hurt and giving me the silent treatment lol... so im giving him space and hope to hear from him again, if not... its ok.