venus in virgo

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by loligr on Sunday, April 10, 2016 and has 12 replies.

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@Lilianni
11 Years1,000+ Posts

Tell them you're sorry. Help them out. Offer to spend time with them just for the sake of spending time with them. If they do not want to take your apology remain platonic friends.

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@loligr
10 Years

Posted by Lilianni
Tell them you're sorry. Help them out. Offer to spend time with them just for the sake of spending time with them. If they do not want to take your apology remain platonic friends.

he dumped me... why I have to tell them that im sorry?

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@loligr
10 Years

Posted by cheekyfaerie
Who did the dumping doesn't necessarily speak to who was the "wronged party" in your relationship. If he dumped you, why do you want him back?

it doesn't mean that if you are seperate with a person, you don't want him// I just wanna give a try. I never begged him, I didn't send ever that I want him back because of my ego...

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@loligr
10 Years

Posted by leow31

Posted by loligr

Posted by Lilianni
Tell them you're sorry. Help them out. Offer to spend time with them just for the sake of spending time with them. If they do not want to take your apology remain platonic friends.

he dumped me... why I have to tell them that im sorry?

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Why did he "dump" you ?

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because we have an obstacle. our relationship wasn't socially acceptable, let's say............. I can't say more. The truth is that in the beginning of our relationship he didn't seem to have a big problem with that. so, i don't know if it was the real reason... I never pressed him by making him questions about our break up..

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@loligr
10 Years

Posted by leow31

Posted by loligr

Posted by leow31

Posted by loligr

Posted by Lilianni
Tell them you're sorry. Help them out. Offer to spend time with them just for the sake of spending time with them. If they do not want to take your apology remain platonic friends.

he dumped me... why I have to tell them that im sorry?

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Why did he "dump" you ?

because we have an obstacle. our relationship wasn't socially acceptable, let's say............. I can't say more. The truth is that in the beginning of our relationship he didn't seem to have a big problem with that. so, i don't know if it was the real reason... I never pressed him by making him questions about our break up..

Hmm. Well in the beginning maybe things werent as serious as they were getting before he left you. Maybe he never wanted something serious in the first place.
Also...if a man dumps you...I wouldn't try to win him back, its the other way around girl.
Is this the leo ?
If so...yeah don't chase him.

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is it right to answer him at his messages?
He just sent me again..........

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@CocoKat
11 Years1,000+ Posts

he sounds pretty undeveloped... breaking up with you then texting you non-stop.

Don't persue him, he'll do it again over again.

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@loligr
10 Years

Posted by leow31
In your shoes I'd let him go.
He dumped you.
Right now all he wants is your attention.
You have to love yourself more.
Good luck OP.

but if i want him back? should I answer him by casual msg or simply ignore him to make him feel that he lost me completely so maybe try to gain me ?

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@CocoKat
11 Years1,000+ Posts

This also could be a game on his part.

The fact you're so eager to text back.. I would ignore him completely, if he is playing games he'll get bored, if he is genuinely interested he may step up again try and woo you back.

You have to go cold turkey if just for yourself, dudes like that are dangerous.

If I break up , I break up.. no texting, done is done.

Most virgo males are like me, the fact hes not shows me there maybe some game or he is undeveloped and likes the attention.

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@loligr
10 Years

Thanks girls for your answeres.. You really helped me... I have so deep feelings for that men....but he doesn't take action to get me back. he just sends random msg 4 months now (really weird). Maybe he just want attention/ or doesn't want me to get over him.. I always reply to him, but our conversation goes nowhere.

Yeah from now on I'll ignore him. Maybe if he see that I'm get over him, he'll do sth (by the word ''loosing me'' I mean that I don't care about him anymore)

As the girl above said, if he is playing games he'll get bored, if he is genuinely interested he may step up again try and woo you back.

It's really difficult to ignore someone that you are in love......... but this nonsense drives me crazy...

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@Virgo_girl4
10 Years

I don't think he is playing games. I have Venus in Virgo. Initially I will go for what I believe in but if I fall deeper for someone I become more practical and real. You said your relationship is not socially acceptable. He probably realises this won't work out and it's better to cut his losses than get hurt or hurt more. Venus in Virgo can become very very practical in love especially when it gets serious/more in love.