Venus placement and Sexuality

Okay, so I spent some time learning about astrology. What I realized is that my chart is pretty unique:

I am a Triple Cancer (Sun, Moon, and Rising).
I have an unaspected Venus in the 12th house (at 15 degrees Gemini).
My mid-heaven is 22 degrees Pisces, which is supposedly bad. What's worse is that it's conjunct my 29 degree Pisces Mars (also bad).

Initial thoughts?

I'm sorry, I meant to ask also about my Venus.
The fact that it is unaspected, in house XII, and dead center Gemini...

Initial thoughts: looks where Mercury is located in your chart. (as in ruler of Geminis). Look at Taurus and Libra aspects and locations (Taurus/Libra ruled by Venus should give clues). Is your Venus retrograde? Where is Venus now, has it passed 17 Gemini? 17 is the anaretic degree, that should give you some ideas. Why is 22 Pisces bad? Ultimately we are also responsible with how we deal with our chart. There is also free will in everything. Just create goog karma, and keep on doing that, keep on hoping for the best to not attract the worst. Out ideas may come true, so always hope for the best

Are you gay?

Haha. No, I'm not gay. But I noticed that an unaspected and/or 12th house Venus usually means issues with feelings of self-worth, an inability to love, or sexual confusion. That's why I'm concerned...

I should also mention that Geminis always have strong reactions to me. Most of them love me, but once in a while, one hates me. The reactions are ALWAYS extreme. For example, my last girlfriend was a Gemini; my boss who hired me for my first job after college is a Gemini; one muscle-head kid who harassed the hell out of me verbally one time was a Gemini (and he ultimately apologized to me--like a girl--and noted that I am very "real"). Honestly, the Gemini thing is pretty alarming. It is definitely my least favorite sign, too...

Why are you concerned? You should not be concerned over chart aspects unless they're manifesting.

Personally, I don't find the need to put my biological gender as a box that I am to fit my life within. I don't agree with gender binary, either. I consider myself pangender and pansexual, and everything is a possibility to remain unlabeled.

I'm very feminine, but I prefer not to 'confuse' myself with restrictions of self.

You seem to know where you are and who you are - don't become swayed by something otherwise.