venus square pluto double whammy

me and the girl i like happen to have a number of double whammies, but i am most confused by this one. also, her natal venus is square her pluto as well. are we obsessed with each other?

yup

I had the DW Venus-Pluto with a co-worker. Someone who was liked by everybody. Except by me. He avoided me, despite the fact I was his immediate superior. I felt sick every time I had to check on him.

To me, he was just a smooth talker and manipulator, hiding his incompetence and laziness. He proved me right. In fact, he was much worse. He faked results!

The terrible things he did could have affected my career negatively. I used them against him, and hopefully he never gets a similar position again!

All in all, a horrible relationship.

Posted by exxtasyx
If it's NOT intense, then it's not worth it anyway, so enjoy it. I don't understand how people can have such superficial, stupid relationships. Or those really annoying people who just get "bored," have no genuine connection with eachother, meet up and just decide to date because they can't stand being alone.

word. Even my flings are filled with pluto and hurt feelings.

Ick square double whammy you all are going to be playing power and mind games out the ass. especially when its over...sorry...i dont see that lasting...

thanks for the input guys, it has given me some insight that i couldn't think of myself before.

not sure what exxtasyx is implying by superficial relationships here haha, it's just a new thing and i'm relatively new to astrology. we actually have an incredibly deep connection together, that's actually why i've been delving into our charts and trying to figure out what's going on. i met her back in may and i swear the second she looked at me both of us felt something. i spent the entire summer thinking about her when it wasn't the maybe 5 or 6 days we hung out (in and out of the town/country, plus work. these days we see each other as often as possible. sometimes that means driving to each others work and waiting to take a break together, sometimes i'll drive across town at 2 in the morning to surprise her at the gym because it's our only chance to spend time together, or when i got back into town a few weeks ago she surprised me the next morning with a pizza? haha. we just make it happen when and where we can. it may sound strange considering we haven't made a physical move on each other, but both of us are extremely busy people who also both prefer to move very slowly in relationships. it did take me to understand her side and actually trust her, but now that i actually know her really well i do and now i'm starting to get nervous that i might be falling in love.

which takes me to a specific paragraph by leoveen, sex not love etc. we both acknowledge feeling very intensely about each other but there are a lot of things that complicate things and prevent it from happening. so we don't really talk about it up front but there is a lot of playful touching and innuendos, creating sexual tension. well i can only speak for myself considering we've never discussed it but i could cut it with a knife..

this is all reflected in our composite as well, with our shared venus opposition pluto. we also are mercury/pisces dominant according to the pullen delineation. i actually guessed she was a pisces when i met her because she gave me a really strong pisces vibe, but she is a leo and i can now see how it all comes together. our mercury has a lot of very strongly felt aspects, i think the most felt one currently would be the mercury trine saturn because the way i interpreted it in my relationship with her is that i am so comfortable with whatever we become and going with the flow, as long as i have her. i know not to expect anything else and she knows not to

expect anything else from me. seeing that we're just friends as far as what we'd write on paper, we stay loyal to each other in the sense that being together is a priority whenever there is free time available for both of us, and we are honest and up front about who else we talk to. the only thing i don't tell her is that i'm only talking to other girls because i'm pretty much trying to let out all of my flirting on others so i don't overwhelm her with how much i like her. that is definitely my really weird aries sun putting her trined leo sun on a pedestal. my venus is also exact on her descendant, but i'm not sure how to interpret that one just yet.

here is a link to our synastry and composite. http://i.imgur.com/mpVplsF.png<BR>
thanks so much for your time! any input is appreciated, i want to learn how to apply astrology to every aspect of my life, if only for the insight it offers.

Posted by Roam
Ick square double whammy you all are going to be playing power and mind games out the ass. especially when its over...sorry...i dont see that lasting...

haha yikesss, yeah i am battling my feelings for this girl because as many great aspects that we share, we have some that are just as bad so i guess we will see. i definitely feel the mind games though and it's driving me insane, if you couldn't tell by my novel i just posted

This combo is really difficult to deal with. It starts out terribly intensely then turns into obsession and power games.

Hoodrat, I had a look at your synastry and there is no Venus square Pluto in there, let alone a DW.

Rejoice.

Posted by Undine
Hoodrat, I had a look at your synastry and there is no Venus square Pluto in there, let alone a DW.

Rejoice.

really?? i see it here, unless i'm reading it wrong?

Well, that's the chart in the link he posted. It doesn't show any Pluto-Venus. Just plenty of other aspects who are stronger, since they at least appear on the chart, while Pluto-Venus doesn't. I would forget about it.

ah okay. good to know! makes a lot more sense that i'm the one with the square then 😉 overall i think i have a grip though on our situation though and a couple of things on our chart that still give us potential