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When someone tells me in stubborn, I say "yup". 😉
But being with a cancer guy has taught me (or forced me) to step outside that A LOT. It still eats me inside, I'm totally conscious of it, it'll never be a natural thing to not be stubborn... But I met my match, for the better lol.
I have to say though, as stubborn as he is sometimes, he's insanely flexible and go with the flow most of the time. We are total opposites in that way.
I've met quite a few sags that are quite flexible in bed before.
Posted by jeannegrey
Pisces, hands DOWN.
Yep
Posted by jeannegrey
Pisces, hands DOWN.Yep
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totally agree. mutable + a golden heart (Sags and Gems? Have you ever seen a Pisces tyrannising others?)
I love that word. Bending instead of being stubborn. Damn maybe if I think that way. I would be more tolerable to other signs. I do believe cancers are the most flexible, virgos, and Pisces. I get along with them for alot of reasons. Now just got to bend alittle for the rest of them.
Posted by jeannegrey
Pisces, hands DOWN.Yep
totally agree. mutable + a golden heart (Sags and Gems? Have you ever seen a Pisces tyrannising others?)
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The do seem very accommodating, in my own personal experience. I don't know many tho
(Sags?) lol, sags in comparison...yes I've seen tyrant Sags. Just yesterday as a matter of fact 😄
I needed a drink after that unholy bytch
Posted by peritwinkle
Pisces can definitely be tyrannical. Flexible doesn't always mean good. Sometimes bending can be a stronger move than being stubborn.
I can bend....like a slingslot...and the slap you in the face when I let go after too much bending... 😛
I don't know much about Pisces, but from my little experience, they seem malleable in a way that's like no having no backbone, trying to make you like them.
There's something to be said for a restrained and thoughtful sort of flexibility. It doesn't mean giving into everything, but choosing your battles, knowing when to fight the fight or save it for another time. Just being smart about it. Open-minded.
Because the flip side to being too flexible is...a Libra? Lolol
I am outrageously flexible. It's ridiculous really but I'm rarely, if ever, uncomfortable about it. I find it easy and natural to arrange situations in ways that work fairly for everyone involved. I'm Libra rising, Libra Sun (one degree, Virgo cusp), Gemini moon. Air is pretty flexible..
Pisces and Leeb, imo.
Depends a lot on the Moon sign though--
Again... my opinion.
Capricorn - every capricorn I've met can do the splits or have hyperextended knees
Posted by Montgomery
Pisces and Leeb, imo.Depends a lot on the Moon sign though--
Again... my opinion.
i keep reading from sites that it's an air sign thing. so if you have air placements, it shows flexibility because air needs to move and can't be stagnant.
true...that water is similar in a way that it needs to move, not stay stagnant or it will get murky and dark, so it needs the flow of the elements to get it moving so it refreshes. Like how deep down in the ocean there's pockets beneath, lava pushing up, so fire and air play a huge part to get it moving.
if we understand how the elements work in nature, we can clue in how it works in the charts since astrology is likened to the elemental influences.
Since I am a Taurus and have Taurus in Mercury , Mars, and Venus compromise is a valued word, and it means alot to me. See there's that word Compromise. And If Taurus bends we lose control. Maybe that's stubborn. I take advice lightly and I use it some time in my life. Bend our compromises everyone would get along and there would be no astrology.
We do compromise but to what extent— I bend over backwards for some of these different males. Mainly different signs other than fixed. Some are so flighty and fickle I try and can't. Others are just too spontaneous, carefree to understand compromise. Even the Aries to me its like. I like you but you must wait till I am ready. Wtf. That right there is saying no compromise.
Libra's quality is adjusting to another party's point of view. It is a communication sign after all. Cardinals though, are in constant change, opposed to Fixed signs and their resistance to change.
Mutable signs are the flexible ones. Great mediators. I find Virgo as the most adaptable of all signs and the one that will make the best out of you or given situation, when good, practical advice is needed. Great mediators.
Personally, my Mercury in Virgo comes quite handy in communication with others when working with group of people.
I see also different kinds of flexibility. Intellectual, emotional, practical.
On stubbornness. My guy has Sun Moon and Mercury in Taurus, but he is extremely flexible for a triple Taurus. His Mars and Venus in Pisces and Leeb Asc maybe has something to do with that.
Posted by xy
All the mutuables.Yeah
It's like..right there..in our description.
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lol def agree with you guys. I am extremely flexible and willing 'to bend'. Possibly because I have so many mutable planets, I dunno. But it makes since to me 😛
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then i wonder why many astrologers say air is flexible?
are they messed up by saying that? maybe they are wrong.
maybe a dominant air is too much flexible, that's why you can't pin them down.
I bend when I have to. I listen when it is needed. I learn something by reading a book rather than hearing it from the teacher. I have a short attention span. I listen really well. I only give advice if I feel I am able to. If not I don't talk about it too much. So when it comes to a Taurus's mind intelligence is from my own experiences and what I see other people doing too, or i have read about it. Some things I dont see to eye and won't put myself out there like that. I talk about things I enjoy to do though 100% .
It is good to be flexible in the bedroom and in life when it comes to dating another person. I learn to go with the flow according to alot of mutable and air signs. I have no control over dating an air or mutable sign, because they bounce way to much for me to keep up. Its like I have to adjust my attitude, change, and be open minded 100% . That's like a hurricane coming at you 1000 times. It makes me dizzy. That's why I need some stimulus and then again I can be mundane to stay just like I am. Because some day someone accept me for me. I never change but willing to adapt. If it is worth it.
Mutables or air signs. Pisces can adapt, swim away, switch into position, see things from all anglesy, stay in an uncomfortable spot, move when they need to like a motherf*cker. which is what makes them such great scientists because they can see outside the box and figure things out from the outside in. Well, that's how I see it anyway. And air signsr in general, just because they move about. Especially Aquarius, they are extremely flexible with people. I could hide from my Aquarius bff in a WWIII bomb shelter for weeks eating out of cans and hoarding zombie apocalypse materials and frankly, she'd be alright once I resurfaced. LOL, just my experience and the way of the world.
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I am not proud of it, but I really think I am just built to be stubborn.
How to be open minded if we have a built-in defense mechanism?
I think half the signs are stubborn, how do we compromise? when you are arguing
to proof each other right.
According to Astrology, but what if you have Taurus in Mercury? any different
from others.
Taurus is probably the least inflexible, why do you believe that?
when someone tells you "youre stubborn", how do you react?
Who else can admit being flexible or inflexible?