Hello all you virgo ladies im here in desparate need of some advice. Im a GEMINI so despite what many think i am very emotional or can be and sensitive. Just met this phenomenal virgo beauty that i asked out. We go out and connect have a great time and then on a few more dates. During this time she is texting me some very deep and i guess emotional stuff which indicates she is very very intrested and falling for me. I am returning emails of like nature and fall head over heals for this lady. This lasts for 2 weeks then all the sudden she starts going in reverse at light speed!!!!!!!!!!!!!. Now i may get 2 short texts a week and not seeing me at all, yet she has explained that shes been single 1o years just raising her 3 kids and working, and that its very hard to let someone in her schedule. I asked about all those txts and why would she invite me over to meet her family . then she replied she wants all those things but not right now. Meanwhile she has been informed that her job position is being cut. My question is this to all you virgo ladies. I am willing to wait for this girl especially after understanding her sign characteristics,and she defines the virgo to the T. I dont ever believe that iv been so confused as to what to do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!She wont see me and only responds to some of my txts. Never responds ugly or negative but i have tried not to put her on th spot either knowing Vs dont like that. I want to tell her i will wait but dam just talk to me. Give me a scrap or somthing to go on. dO i wait?? How long do i wait? I send her a scripture every morning and thats it to let her know i am here for her. I read that they are looking for commitment so thats my plan is to just show her im here not pressuring her but i freakn is killing me because us GEMINIS are all about some good communication LOL. I mean even friends talk but sh wont. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I preparing to be completely shut out in light of th job situation but my god i want to wait for that undying ,faithful commited love i read that most of you virgos possese. Thanks
VIRGO emotions

It could be a case of guilt: the Virgo archetype is usually associated with masochism and the need to atone for some form of guilt. Deep down in the subconscious, she is pushing away the opportunities for happiness because Virgo doesn't think she deserves it. So she hides behind duty: 3 kids to raise and so on. Solution lies in patience and trust in this amazing Mercury connection Gemini and Virgos share.
Quote about Virgos: "Virgo is an incredibly interesting archetype, and sexually runs the whole span from no sexuality whatsoever, because of the heavy implied guilt orientation from within, i.e. Virgo denial, in which cade all the sexual energy is rerouted to the mental element in the consciousness. When this is the case, these are the people that are the nervous wrecks of the world. The rerouting of the sexual energy overly heats the nervous system. And these sort of people are forever running around, doing this and that and the other, because of this rerouting of sexual energy.
Virgo is the archetype that emphasizes core aloneness in consciousness. So it creates what is called an inner existential void deep in the gut, which is more than the normal aloneness most people feel. It needs to learn the origin of emptiness and heal it through embracing the Pisces spiritual polarity features.
"Virgo emphasizes the archetype in consciousness of inferiority, the archetype called guilt and the need to atone for that guilt.
So in essence, the Virgo archetype does symbolize the phenomena od S&M. Now, if it is not the active archetype in an overt way, then Virgo manifests in a different way, even though the archetype is operative. As an example, many women and men who have Virgo emphasized sexually, relative to inferiority, will attempt to pearn a variety of sexual techniques or sexual methods. And by lesrning this technique or that method (which is compensation for the inferiority), then attempt to truly please the partner througg the implementation of such method and technique. The excitement (their own stimulation and enjoyment) occuring vicariously, relative to the enjoyment of the partner. This is a form of self sacrifice which mirrors in its own way masochism".
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Quote about Virgos: "Virgo is an incredibly interesting archetype, and sexually runs the whole span from no sexuality whatsoever, because of the heavy implied guilt orientation from within, i.e. Virgo denial, in which cade all the sexual energy is rerouted to the mental element in the consciousness. When this is the case, these are the people that are the nervous wrecks of the world. The rerouting of the sexual energy overly heats the nervous system. And these sort of people are forever running around, doing this and that and the other, because of this rerouting of sexual energy.
Virgo is the archetype that emphasizes core aloneness in consciousness. So it creates what is called an inner existential void deep in the gut, which is more than the normal aloneness most people feel. It needs to learn the origin of emptiness and heal it through embracing the Pisces spiritual polarity features.
"Virgo emphasizes the archetype in consciousness of inferiority, the archetype called guilt and the need to atone for that guilt.
So in essence, the Virgo archetype does symbolize the phenomena od S&M. Now, if it is not the active archetype in an overt way, then Virgo manifests in a different way, even though the archetype is operative. As an example, many women and men who have Virgo emphasized sexually, relative to inferiority, will attempt to pearn a variety of sexual techniques or sexual methods. And by lesrning this technique or that method (which is compensation for the inferiority), then attempt to truly please the partner througg the implementation of such method and technique. The excitement (their own stimulation and enjoyment) occuring vicariously, relative to the enjoyment of the partner. This is a form of self sacrifice which mirrors in its own way masochism".
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Holy Holy shit lady you know your shit!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WOW i am speechless right now. you have no idea how freakn accurate you are about some issues you mentioned. Will you please contact me at my personal email adresse so i can furthur discuss this with you. You definitly know what ur talking about. I would appreciate it very very much. my email is peevans11@yahoo.com. I would prefer not to have this discussion posted LOL. Sory folks this is personal
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