Why are capricorn guys SO confusing?

Heyy, I'm baaack!

So, I have this guy-friend (capricorn)....or so i thought he was...and when i broke up with my ex-boyfriend, he literally gave me a shoulder to cry on, he was always there for me doring those "break-up-depression-times", and he would take me to movies and stuff, and I thought he was just doing that to cheer me up...but later on, i realized that those friendly dates were more like romantic dates. We would go to plays and movies, and then go to these REALLY expensive restaurants, and those evenings were so sweet and romantic..like, he would always look into my eyes when talking to me, and he had this CONSTANT unnoticable smile on his face whenever he was with me, and he did these small gestures that made me feel like the most important person in his life. So this so called friend, got to my heart so quickly that I didn't even realize it.
so this is what i thought, he likes me for sure, and i like him too. ok, cool!
and when i like a guy (and I admit it) I tend to OVERDO it with texts and phonecalls and all that.. so for the past week, I have been starting the conversations(on AIM) and I've been texting him a lot, and he's been kinda cold..showing NO affection towards me whatsoever, but being a true aries that i am, I kept pushing and pushing him, forcing words out of him...when i was talking to him i felt like he was just being polite, and for real, he just wanted to end the conversation...and then he would always text me LATE, which annoyed the shizz out of me...if he cares about me, why can't he text me quickly?..so i was like "you see busy, i should text you some other time"...i expected him to say "noo, I'm not busy, sorry"..instead he said "ok, text me some other time, sweet dreams :*"...btw, all this is when we are NOT together, when we are together, he's like an angel, but on the phone, or on AIM he becomes cold and weird.

so then, thanks to my friends, i realized that I needed to have more pride, and I decided not to text him or call him until HE texts me...so now, i'm waiting...three days, no text, no phone call, nothing...

I don't get it, why all those romantic evenings, and sweet gestures, if he didn't care about me? and if he DOES care about me, why doesn't he wanna know how i'm doing for these past couple of days?

thanks in advance
Love Always,
AG

you smothered him he is over whelmed. give him some time if he is for real he will get back to you in a year or two.

we do respond when ingored we just cant believe any woman would ingore us.

im aries and I dated a capricorn briefly.....he still calls me to this day. But he didnt show me enough affection either. One minute he was this I want to get married kinda guy...then he was this I want to be a freak kinda of guy.

I think being in a relationship meant more to me then it did to him. So we were better off friends.

I agree with jamestate....just back off and see if he comes around. And dont just catch any old bone he throws at you.

i adore cap men but they can't handle a woman like me unless they have some fire or air in their chart. i experienced the whole disappearing act with a close cap friend. i wasn't going through any break-up but he would take me on these pseudo-dates even though he had a gf. would pay for everything no questions asked and no expectations of compensation. don't worry about it. i had to let him go cuz he just wasn't the type of friend i was looking for. we didn't share the same outlook. he was more ok with superficial, fair-weather type of friendships. unfortunately, with all that he and i have been through there was no going back to acquaintance status. hey, no regrets!