6 hours first date with cancer man

Never had such a long date with anyone, conversation flows and we never ran out of topic. He tried to kiss me but I let him know my values and I don't kiss on first date. He respected that and we just held hands while talking. he said I just have to see you again.

When we leave he said wow 6 hours it's a very good sign. He hugged me good bye wished me good night and open my car door for me, and that he will speak to me soon.

I did a chart reading for him and he pretty much agree with most thing I said.

He's got cancer moon, Gemini mercury, Venus Leo, Gemini mars, aqua rising

I'm Virgo sun, aqua moon, Virgo mercury, Venus Leo, Leo mars, aqua rising.

Our synastry is a bit scary... His Pluto sextile my Venus and mars.. I heard bad things about this synastry? it's passionate but destructive?

Thanks 🙂 6 hrs no fucking no kissing, no holding hands while talking.

Interesting interpretation about aqua moon calming effect. Does that add empathy as well?

Last night he told me "I like that you are really in tuned with your emotions and open about it. You are also very empathetic"

That sounds more like a water sign thing? I have no water in my chart.

*only holding hands while talking*

@sensitiveblues @cruellawhite

He text me the next day in the morning to say he really enjoyed last night and would love to do it again soon, I replied I really enjoyed his company and looking forward to seeing him again soon.

4 days went by and no word from him, so I sent him a casual text to say hey how was your work trip?

He wrote back Hey! work trip went well. Not as succsssful as expected but left him lot of work to do. He asked how have you been since I saw you?

I wrote back with some encouragement about his work trip and some details about how I've been. Then no word.

Oh well at least the first meeting was great and he was a gentleman.

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Thanks 🙂 6 hrs no fucking no kissing, no holding hands while talking.

Interesting interpretation about aqua moon calming effect. Does that add empathy as well?

Last night he told me "I like that you are really in tuned with your emotions and open about it. You are also very empathetic"

That sounds more like a water sign thing? I have no water in my chart.

Your Venus and Mars in LEO makes you empathetic and sweet

But maybe demanding

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I've been told I'm sweet and empathetic quiet a lot... interesting how fire sign can make someone empathetic, thought only water signs have this quality.

I don't go around and demand stuff however I do have a view of how things should be done and if it's different to my idea I would doubt myself or the other person.

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But when we're busy we're busy

We can compartmentalize ppl too

What does that mean? as it he is cooking on many stove and everyone are on back burner?

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Yep!

You're not wifey yet


Sorry but this is how it is doesn't mean he's not interested

Patience

haha that's for sure, he is not my hubby either.

Realistically it's only 2 strangers finally meeting up and we ended up chatting for almost 6 hours straight.

You can't really count it as a date even.

Patience is important, I guess if we do meet again the momentum has been lost already... would be like another first meeting for me. What's your opinion on this? or Cancer see time lapse in different way?

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Thanks 🙂 6 hrs no fucking no kissing, no holding hands while talking.

Interesting interpretation about aqua moon calming effect. Does that add empathy as well?

Last night he told me "I like that you are really in tuned with your emotions and open about it. You are also very empathetic"

That sounds more like a water sign thing? I have no water in my chart.

Your Venus and Mars in LEO makes you empathetic and sweet

But maybe demanding

I've been told I'm sweet and empathetic quiet a lot... interesting how fire sign can make someone empathetic, thought only water signs have this quality.

I don't go around and demand stuff however I do have a view of how things should be done and if it's different to my idea I would doubt myself or the other person.

Fire signs are very warm and have empathy

Especially Leo, it's close to cancer, so that kind of sensitivity is there

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I see.. didn't know I have borrowed some empathy and sensitivity from cancers.. it explains a lot though. As I'm also very sentimental and loyal.

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FUK you man. I hate all these VIRGO THREADS

go to hell

lmao damn Virgos, back at it again w the Cancers

how did you get his birth time?

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FUK you man. I hate all these VIRGO THREADS

go to hell

lmao damn Virgos, back at it again w the Cancers

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Virgos are your jelly 😉

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how did you get his birth time?

I looked into the crystal ball, nah I just asked him when we met.

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how did you get his birth time?

I looked into the crystal ball, nah I just asked him when we met.

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thats pretty forward of you... I like it. I can barely ask anyone for their dob HAHA

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how did you get his birth time?

I looked into the crystal ball, nah I just asked him when we met.

thats pretty forward of you... I like it. I can barely ask anyone for their dob HAHA

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I guess that's because you cancers like to do things side ways, backward, then circle but never go straight? just like how a real crab walk? hehe

I used to be like that, but now I just say what's on my mind, the right person will respond accordingly. we were very comfortable and chat for 6 hrs straight, astrology came up as a topic.

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how did you get his birth time?

I looked into the crystal ball, nah I just asked him when we met.

thats pretty forward of you... I like it. I can barely ask anyone for their dob HAHA

I guess that's because you cancers like to do things side ways, backward, then circle but never go straight? just like how a real crab walk? hehe

I used to be like that, but now I just say what's on my mind, the right person will respond accordingly. we were very comfortable and chat for 6 hrs straight, astrology came up as a topic.

I like your upfront ways!

I'm just scared for you cause crab men are a headache

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Thank you! I wasn't as upfront before I ended up suffering more.. from those should I do this should I not talk in my little head.

I have never dated any crab men, but had attracted a few. One is a long term friend. He used to come and go and ask for advice wtih girls and then one day tell me we can't be friends anymore because he met someone serious. I was like why? I thought all we had was platonic friendship?

There was another crab man who we had mutual crush on but never cross the line, I never knew he had a girlfriend until a year later I finally had the courage to ask him what is going on with this flirty but never asking me out.

With this new one we don't even know what's going on in his head so I wouldn't count him as my "crab men" just yet. as we only met once and even though he did text me the next morning which seems keen. The fact is he hasn't made any solid plan to see me again. A bit disappointed as I never felt that comfortable with talk for that long with anyone.

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Instead of hiding just go to the more and edit your post!

Pb is an annoying weirgo. She's like you!

Not a crab

Not sure why the post is posted twice, figure it's easier to hide the repeated ones.

haha PB's questions are cute

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Do you know his relationship status? If he's straight?

He is straight and single. He is not married and not in relationship and when I told him Im the same all clear he tried to kiss me, but I told him I don't kiss on first date and hope he understand. He said sure I just have to see you again. we held hands to talk since then. However I get a feeling that he is not over his ex.

The picture on his what's app is him hugging a girl. You can only see the back of her head. He has no sister. that could be a friend but photos like this I assume it's the most recent ex or he is too lazy to change the profile pic.

He asked me what have I learnt from previous relationship and I gave him straight answers, however when this question is throw back at him he was like what do you mean? what way? I will tell you next time.

@sensitiveblues

Speaking of devil he just wrote me to update me with things and saying he is glad I've been busy and productive and he is continueously intrugued by the things I'm doing lately...! then ended with we should meet up again soon.

still not a solid plan...

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@sensitiveblues

Speaking of devil he just wrote me to update me with things and saying he is glad I've been busy and productive and he is continueously intrugued by the things I'm doing lately...! then ended with we should meet up again soon.

still not a solid plan...

Sounds like he digs you just fine. If you want a real man who knows how to chase you should go for a fire sign. Dating a cancer man is like dating a emo woman.

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Ya Keep being friendly

I don't like his lack of response to the question you asked him


Don't give him anymore information anymore unless he learns to open up

I don't trust men like that

Yea me either, he has been open but only that particular question was avoided in person.

He asked me something else and I gave him the same respond - next time.

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My experience with fire sign is they chase hard but lose interest fast as well. also they are not necessarily open emotionally.

@sensitiveblues second with him was great, 6.5 hours we had dinner, he paid and I offered to go dutch and he said I can pay next time. Then we went to a coffee shop and I let him paid as I already planned on paying for next date. He held my hand on the street as we stroll along. I asked him what are his plans for the weekend. He told me he was meant to go away with friends, but he really wants to see me and if he leaves it for too long I would forget him and thinks he is not serious.

He gave me a lift home and we talked in his car while holding hands. he said he won't try to kiss me this time and will let me kiss him when I want to. I gave him a peck on his cheek.

I invited him to an event as third date, he put it on calendar immediately. I said you want the address? He said we will keep talking until then. He asked me to text him. He wanted to see some of the videos of what I mentioned before. I told him I need to finish editing it first. he then said he wants to see what my pillw looks like I said alright i will take a pic.

He probably was expecting me to send it right away.. i didn't do that until 20 hrs later as I was thinking better to finish editing my videos and send both together.. meanwhile he unfollowed me... I never followed him as I never got the notification... i only saw it when i visited his...

He replied my text but I really dunno what to take out of his unfollow ...

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weird unfollowed where

idk ...i can't read men ..not in this climate.


everything is a hot mess

unfollow on instagram.

Ok I will wait until you get a swim to cool down and you can use your crab intuition again 😉

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@sensitiveblues

Speaking of devil he just wrote me to update me with things and saying he is glad I've been busy and productive and he is continueously intrugued by the things I'm doing lately...! then ended with we should meet up again soon.

still not a solid plan...

Sounds like he digs you just fine. If you want a real man who knows how to chase you should go for a fire sign. Dating a cancer man is like dating a emo woman.

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Wait what? Cancer men don't know how to chase? But its a cardinal sign?