Just out of curiousity, if there are any Cancerians here with their Venus in Gemini, I'm wondering: how (in your personal experience) has that manifested itself in your relationships?
I read a lot of 'bad press' about the Venus-in-Gemini placement (almost as much as Venus-in-Aries...cough cough COUGH) but I don't necessarily buy into all the smack talk, so I'd like to hear some honest feedback from people who have this in their chart.
true we like variety... really social, all knowing gem kinda lovers are perfect for us.but we are not infidile..infact a few days back a saggi girl asked me about having a serious relationship with her and i told her that i was looking for something light at first and cant be so intense headon... she called me honest. 🙂 at best i will tell you...i will like some girl who can talk anything under the sun with me ..keep me interested...flirt well... and be good in communication. b social and outgoing and just give me some food for thought. sigh..have met very rare girls who have this. 😢 but i will wait for the right one 🙂 just around the corner!
also to add... dont like someone who comes on strongly at me...wants to date me all the time and has self low esteem issues(obviously). i would rather like the chase when someone is mysterious to me yet....thats what pulls me to them!
My Cancer love interest has Venus is Gem, he never cheated in his past relationships (10 years and 5 years). He had a "mutiple lovers" phase after that, but it didn't last more than a year. I would say he is flirtatious, very social, communication is VERY important to him. And he enjoys chasing 😉
yes my venus is in gemini. i like keeping my dating options open and lighthearted. but honestly, i haven't done too much research on this placement. let me go google 🙂
my best friend is a female with cancer sun and venus gemini. we have been best friends since childhood, 20+ years. she is very loyal and yet very uncommitted, if that makes sense?! she's dated the same guy for 12 years, since we were in high school, but she won't even call him her boyfriend! she's very dreamy and romantic and likes to imagine the type of love she wants, but she doesn't seem to want to admit any sort of connection that she has, at least not publicly. she's very beautiful, never short of admirers. she seems to like being chased more than chasing. throughout the years, she would have a huge crush on a guy, and he would like her back, but she would never "give in" (her words) to them. she would rather never give in and have no relationship with them, than give in and get hurt. the guy she's dated all these years was always chasing her, obsessed with her. he'll have to call 100 times in a row before she'll answer, or the other night he showed up at her house while i was there! but instead of screaming at him to get lost, she let him sleep in the bed all night with her! so she's very confusing. she is controlling and cold hearted, but deep down very obsessive compulsive. every tiny little thing makes her crazy, so she just turns her phone off and tries to never talk to you again instead of dealing with the pain.
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Just out of curiousity, if there are any Cancerians here with their Venus in Gemini, I'm wondering: how (in your personal experience) has that manifested itself in your relationships?
I read a lot of 'bad press' about the Venus-in-Gemini placement (almost as much as Venus-in-Aries...cough cough COUGH) but I don't necessarily buy into all the smack talk, so I'd like to hear some honest feedback from people who have this in their chart.
Thanks in advance 🙂
-S