Venus in Gemini

Venus in Gemini: Enjoys a varied social calendar, and prefers a light hold on friends. Is a talkative companion that shares life through stories, jokes and observations. Drawn to flexible, changeable, bright minds that keep the ideas flowing. Expresses affection through words, with poetry and love letters. A need for constant stimulation keeps them on the move, often away from deepening bonds.

There is always talk that men with Venus in Gemini cannot stay faithful, or must have multiple lovers. Do you agree? Has anyone had a relationship that was good? Please explain/tell your story.

Posted by WiseOldOwl
From my studies on Geminis it goes a little like this:

Geminis can only have Venus in Aries, Taurus, Gemini, Cancer, Leo
With Aries and Leo the least common for Venus placements

Most faithful goes to Venus in Cancer and Taurus with Cancer first.
Followed by Gemini (the effects will be based on all around chart and can vary from one extreme to the other) for the most part they are single for long periods of times and some may never marry, but when they do decide to marry they are capable of loyalty to a partner.
Leo not many Gems with Venus in Leo. Least studied on my part so it is still open for review but they seem to be capable of faithfulness and may indeed deserve to be in third above Venus in Gemini.
Aries least loyal Venus for Gemini and also the most likely to be bi-sexual and have multiple partners whether they are married or not. I could name people but it just doesn't seem right so feel free to explore this on your own.

Thank you Wise!

i'm not a guy, but i do have venus in gem... i've never had a problem with being faithful.

gemtaur - very good point... and i agree. 🙂

WiseOldOwl -
i agree with the part where you said,

"the whole chart plays a major role and each element in it can modify other things that may have turned out totally different."

so in simpler terms it would mean:
i appear like a leo (asc)
i am a gem (sun)
i feel like a cancer (moon)
and attract like a gem... (venus)

well, that if you were to break it down.. do i have this right??

Posted by Sultanaa
but I get very confused and flustered if someone tells me they're "attracted" to me, given my overall physical outlook is more geeky than anything...

some guys like geeky... 😄

but yea, i understand what you're saying..

no worries... 🙂

lol! nah.. you're way more stable than i am... lol!

I know one who is Venus in Gemini and her Sun is in Cancer. She flirts a lot, talks a lot, entertains, sensitive, nice.

I'm a Gemini Sun and have Moon in Cancer, I'm more introvert, sensitive, and reserved than her.

also, I act more like my Moon (cancer) than my Sun (Gemini), Rising (Gemini) in all of me. Somehow, Gemini is lost somewhere.

bump

im an Aries Sun, Scorpio Rising, Aquarius Moon My Venus is in Gemini and im 23 years old and Ive never been in a commited relationship its not that I dont want one but Im always falling for these impossible guys in impossible situations that makes everything difficult for us to ever be together could this be me searching for "stimulation" sometimes I wonder if I did ever actually get in a normal relationship would I get bored easily? do I just love the chase? wahh.