are cancers dramatic?

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Hi, I disagree with the comment, that CANCERS always think their needs are more important than everyone else's. I am a CANCER/GEMINI cusp (june 24)and I always put others needs before my own... because it makes me feel good to.I try everything too make another too feel good about their self. to raise their self esteem, I compliment them a lot and I never criticise...
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207.177, I know someone who is born a day before you! He's definitely on the cusp and he is one of the most selfless people I know.

He bends over backwards for everyone, but my problem is that he won't open up to me at all. How do I get him to open up to me? How would I get you to open up to me? Please respond, I need your help because your birthday is so close to his!

How do I get closer to him?
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Hi, Just be yourself...You did not mention what sign you are but I take it you are not a Cancer... People born under the sign of Cancer can read another like a book. I know instantly when someone is superficial. Make that tiny extra effort to be genuinely (sincere)nice, nothing negative... dont dote on him but make him feel special.i always make the effort to find the good in everybody and it shows...and believe me sometimes it is hard...I have always been a good listener, bring up a topic that you know is of interest to him and ask questions, He will enjoy your undevided attention and interest in something that he has a lot of knowledge in...he wont reciprocate til he totally trust you...that is how cancers are...hope this has helped. Alot of different signs have won my heart just by doing the things I explained above.. good luck
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I am a Scorpio III. I am like a day before the Scorpio/Sagittarius cusp. I am a very caring, loving person, but I come off as superficial because that is my way of covering up my real feelings for people. I think I have come off as superficial to the Gemini/Cancer cusp, and now he won't even talk to me. He's retreated to his shell. Should I just tell him EXACTLY how I feel? That I care for him a lot (a VERY lot). Should I remind him of how good he was to me in the past? What if that scares him away even more? Will it? Help!
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er..the the chic whos having probz with her man..the gemini/cancer one..okay well i think u should tell him how u feel cus then he would know how YOU feel about him, and without him knowing that, wut is he gonna think? obviously that you dont give a rats a** bout him..so u should tell him how u feel about him.. cus then that would straighten things out.. i kno that you keep your feelings to yourself and stuff..but how is a relationship to develope without sharing your personal thoughts and feelings..am i right? so if u really want this relationship to work out..maybe u should open up more and become closer to the one u truly care about, and that is YOUR MAN gurl ^_^
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I want to 66, believe me!!! But I am afraid that he will reject me if I do tell him how strongly I feel about him. How much I care for him. You see what I mean...since he bottles everything up too, I am afraid that it will do more harm than good and that I will never have him in my life again?

I am going to do it though..and if it doesn't work I am going to blame you. If it works, I will have you thank for the rest of my life.

I am so scared!!! I can't lose him! I won't, I will do whatever it takes to maintain my relationship with him. Even if it means holding my feelings back.