Are cancers forgetful...

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Or is it being manipulative—
My cancer ex wants to get back together. We broke up due to him moving away and he wants to try the long distance relationship. I feel tho there's some things we haven't dealt with that needs to be discussed, especially because of the difficulty long distance can be with communication. But when I bring things up, he acts as if he doesn't remember it. And i don't mean small issues, things that nearly caused us to break up...from either ends. Or, he'll make it like it was my fault. Don't get me wrong, I've done wrong, but quick to admit to it. We've never cheated, so dealing with the opposite sex has never been an issue. I'm talking about stuff like agreeing to disagree, understanding the other outlook.... But he acts like we were perfect, when I know we've had plenty of ups and downs that haven't been communicated. Not sure what to take from his point of view.
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Posted by Arielle83
Why are you rehashing?

It sounds like you've got the conditions of the relationship, in mind, due to your past relationship with him.

If it's criticisms about him, he wouldn't care.
Because I want consistency. Not confusion. We wasn't bad, just not very understanding. Un order to move forward, we have to look at the mistakes and faults that caused us to not get past. Especially if we're talking about combining our families. Both are single parents.
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Posted by GC01
So the real question here is are you getting back with him or not?
If not idk why you would even take time to analyze him, and think that you should just get on with your life.
I've been gotten on with my life. He hasn't and wants to make it work. I want him back, of course. I love him. But I'm also very independent and a single mother so I'm cautious with my decisions because I'm not just deciding for me, but for my family.