Attention from opposite sex

Hi fellow cancer guys and cancer woman, do you ever feel like you get 2 much attention from opposite sex? Like to many people like you or want to be with you and that makes you uncomfortable? I'm experiencing this right now, somehow i've never been comfortable with opposite sex if i know they like me and i don't , just feels weird and uncomfortable for me, and now out of nowhere so many girls randomly appear in my life, my 3 ex's want to comeback in my life, it feels like a fucking nightmare or a writen story, seriously any Cancers or any other signs had this uncomfortable experience ? Or i'm the only one feeling uncomfortable in this situation?I just feel like i want all of them to go back where they came from, some weeird, weeird shit is going on and i can feel it. 😄

Posted by rakac
Hi fellow cancer guys and cancer woman, do you ever feel like you get 2 much attention from opposite sex? Like to many people like you or want to be with you and that makes you uncomfortable? I'm experiencing this right now, somehow i've never been comfortable with opposite sex if i know they like me and i don't , just feels weird and uncomfortable for me, and now out of nowhere so many girls randomly appear in my life, my 3 ex's want to comeback in my life, it feels like a fucking nightmare or a writen story, seriously any Cancers or any other signs had this uncomfortable experience ? Or i'm the only one feeling uncomfortable in this situation?I just feel like i want all of them to go back where they came from, some weeird, weeird shit is going on and i can feel it. 😄

I completely understand where you're coming from. I find myself being approached moreso than I approach but that's because like a crab, cancers move side by side, not forward. So we'd rather watch from the sidelines until one of the players comes to approach us. We project a mysterious almost innocent aura that makes people wonder what's underneath our tough exterior, there is more to us than they think they know. People tend to take pleasure in our complexities. One day, I can be confident and outgoing, the next I'm private and reclusive. We are the children of the moon, the waves of the ocean and those are symbolic within itself. I take it as a blessing and a curse because of how many people I attract. But be careful of your thoughts and what you're projecting because there's been times I was lost, and I projected the victim role making people want to save me. When I project that I'm in need of sex, I attract many whores. When I project that I'm lonely, my exes tend to resurface. So monitor your thoughts and enjoy the love you receive.

@MotherMoon808

Well i'm not this Cancer, if i like it i approach it, invite to dinner or to meet up do something crazy or fun together, i think it might be my sag moon or leo venus acting, but i ain't moving side to side, i either move forwards or don't move at all, if i like a woman i'll show her or tell her, unless the circumstances are bad, then i'm not doing a thing, i hate when people pitty me and i don't like other people help, this is my pride and it's really huge, i can't even ask for help the closest people no matter how bad it is, one time i almost died because of this, i'm swallowing my pride a little, but it's a huge for me, when i was younger i was playin the victim, but these days are gone, have huge goals, ambitions that are far bigger and more important than me, thats why i;m doing it. 😄 I never was only into need of sex or i never feel lonely really, i have mortals and i want more lasting relationship ,more deep relationship , i need a person who will support me and my crazy dream, my vission , the thing i'm reaching for, and i don't care how long i have to be alone, till i find a person like this i'd rather be alone, because wrong people in your life just make a mess and drag you down, just because you're alone doesn't mean you're lonely, same in relationships, just because you have one doesn't mean you're not lonely, i've seen many of these, and they look unhealthy as fuck. 🙂 Typical cancers are opposite of me, i take huge risks, even when it's not necessary and fail hard, but that only makes me go harder, i need something of my own, something huge, something that would make me feel good, feed my pride and make this world a better place, i found that, and i'm going with it, it's only 1% that i can make it, but that's enough for me, i'll take it. 😄

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@MotherMoon808

Well i'm not this Cancer, if i like it i approach it, invite to dinner or to meet up do something crazy or fun together, i think it might be my sag moon or leo venus acting, but i ain't moving side to side, i either move forwards or don't move at all, if i like a woman i'll show her or tell her, unless the circumstances are bad, then i'm not doing a thing, i hate when people pitty me and i don't like other people help, this is my pride and it's really huge, i can't even ask for help the closest people no matter how bad it is, one time i almost died because of this, i'm swallowing my pride a little, but it's a huge for me, when i was younger i was playin the victim, but these days are gone, have huge goals, ambitions that are far bigger and more important than me, thats why i;m doing it. 😄 I never was only into need of sex or i never feel lonely really, i have mortals and i want more lasting relationship ,more deep relationship , i need a person who will support me and my crazy dream, my vission , the thing i'm reaching for, and i don't care how long i have to be alone, till i find a person like this i'd rather be alone, because wrong people in your life just make a mess and drag you down, just because you're alone doesn't mean you're lonely, same in relationships, just because you have one doesn't mean you're not lonely, i've seen many of these, and they look unhealthy as fuck. 🙂 Typical cancers are opposite of me, i take huge risks, even when it's not necessary and fail hard, but that only makes me go harder, i need something of my own, something huge, something that would make me feel good, feed my pride and make this world a better place, i found that, and i'm going with it, it's only 1% that i can make it, but that's enough for me, i'll take it. 😄

LOL I hear you, but you did ask about Cancers which is broad considering that we have our own individual placements which makes each of us different. But I get it. With my leo rising, I can be very forward in my affections which often shocks people because cancers are said to be shy. But your sag moon and leo venus definitely makes your approach to love and friendship different. Whay's your rising?

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Posted by rakac
@MotherMoon808

Well i'm not this Cancer, if i like it i approach it, invite to dinner or to meet up do something crazy or fun together, i think it might be my sag moon or leo venus acting, but i ain't moving side to side, i either move forwards or don't move at all, if i like a woman i'll show her or tell her, unless the circumstances are bad, then i'm not doing a thing, i hate when people pitty me and i don't like other people help, this is my pride and it's really huge, i can't even ask for help the closest people no matter how bad it is, one time i almost died because of this, i'm swallowing my pride a little, but it's a huge for me, when i was younger i was playin the victim, but these days are gone, have huge goals, ambitions that are far bigger and more important than me, thats why i;m doing it. 😄 I never was only into need of sex or i never feel lonely really, i have mortals and i want more lasting relationship ,more deep relationship , i need a person who will support me and my crazy dream, my vission , the thing i'm reaching for, and i don't care how long i have to be alone, till i find a person like this i'd rather be alone, because wrong people in your life just make a mess and drag you down, just because you're alone doesn't mean you're lonely, same in relationships, just because you have one doesn't mean you're not lonely, i've seen many of these, and they look unhealthy as fuck. 🙂 Typical cancers are opposite of me, i take huge risks, even when it's not necessary and fail hard, but that only makes me go harder, i need something of my own, something huge, something that would make me feel good, feed my pride and make this world a better place, i found that, and i'm going with it, it's only 1% that i can make it, but that's enough for me, i'll take it. 😄

LOL I hear you, but you did ask about Cancers which is broad considering that we have our own individual placements which makes each of us different. But I get it. With my leo rising, I can be very forward in my affections which often shocks people because cancers are said to be shy. But your sag moon and leo venus definitely makes your approach to love and friendship different. Whay's your rising?

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Scorpio 😄 😄

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@MotherMoon808

Well i'm not this Cancer, if i like it i approach it, invite to dinner or to meet up do something crazy or fun together, i think it might be my sag moon or leo venus acting, but i ain't moving side to side, i either move forwards or don't move at all, if i like a woman i'll show her or tell her, unless the circumstances are bad, then i'm not doing a thing, i hate when people pitty me and i don't like other people help, this is my pride and it's really huge, i can't even ask for help the closest people no matter how bad it is, one time i almost died because of this, i'm swallowing my pride a little, but it's a huge for me, when i was younger i was playin the victim, but these days are gone, have huge goals, ambitions that are far bigger and more important than me, thats why i;m doing it. 😄 I never was only into need of sex or i never feel lonely really, i have mortals and i want more lasting relationship ,more deep relationship , i need a person who will support me and my crazy dream, my vission , the thing i'm reaching for, and i don't care how long i have to be alone, till i find a person like this i'd rather be alone, because wrong people in your life just make a mess and drag you down, just because you're alone doesn't mean you're lonely, same in relationships, just because you have one doesn't mean you're not lonely, i've seen many of these, and they look unhealthy as fuck. 🙂 Typical cancers are opposite of me, i take huge risks, even when it's not necessary and fail hard, but that only makes me go harder, i need something of my own, something huge, something that would make me feel good, feed my pride and make this world a better place, i found that, and i'm going with it, it's only 1% that i can make it, but that's enough for me, i'll take it. 😄

LOL I hear you, but you did ask about Cancers which is broad considering that we have our own individual placements which makes each of us different. But I get it. With my leo rising, I can be very forward in my affections which often shocks people because cancers are said to be shy. But your sag moon and leo venus definitely makes your approach to love and friendship different. Whay's your rising?

Scorpio 😄 😄

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Oh my goodness, you are a handful haha were you born in june or july?

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@MotherMoon808

Well i'm not this Cancer, if i like it i approach it, invite to dinner or to meet up do something crazy or fun together, i think it might be my sag moon or leo venus acting, but i ain't moving side to side, i either move forwards or don't move at all, if i like a woman i'll show her or tell her, unless the circumstances are bad, then i'm not doing a thing, i hate when people pitty me and i don't like other people help, this is my pride and it's really huge, i can't even ask for help the closest people no matter how bad it is, one time i almost died because of this, i'm swallowing my pride a little, but it's a huge for me, when i was younger i was playin the victim, but these days are gone, have huge goals, ambitions that are far bigger and more important than me, thats why i;m doing it. 😄 I never was only into need of sex or i never feel lonely really, i have mortals and i want more lasting relationship ,more deep relationship , i need a person who will support me and my crazy dream, my vission , the thing i'm reaching for, and i don't care how long i have to be alone, till i find a person like this i'd rather be alone, because wrong people in your life just make a mess and drag you down, just because you're alone doesn't mean you're lonely, same in relationships, just because you have one doesn't mean you're not lonely, i've seen many of these, and they look unhealthy as fuck. 🙂 Typical cancers are opposite of me, i take huge risks, even when it's not necessary and fail hard, but that only makes me go harder, i need something of my own, something huge, something that would make me feel good, feed my pride and make this world a better place, i found that, and i'm going with it, it's only 1% that i can make it, but that's enough for me, i'll take it. 😄

LOL I hear you, but you did ask about Cancers which is broad considering that we have our own individual placements which makes each of us different. But I get it. With my leo rising, I can be very forward in my affections which often shocks people because cancers are said to be shy. But your sag moon and leo venus definitely makes your approach to love and friendship different. Whay's your rising?

Scorpio 😄 😄

Oh my goodness, you are a handful haha were you born in june or july?

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june 22nd 😄 yeaah, scorp rising, sag moon and leo venus, talk about a crazy cancer. 😄

I felt the same way im not a cancer though but a couple of days ago i find myself in the same situation and one of them said he disappeared for a while cause he realised he likes me alot and started getting attached (not sure of his sun sign but i never felt attracted to neither of them)

It is sure uncomfortable .... I wish they never told me and acted normal ... I dont have many friends and the ones i like as friends are making me uncomfortable now it sucks

Posted by rakac
Hi fellow cancer guys and cancer woman, do you ever feel like you get 2 much attention from opposite sex? Like to many people like you or want to be with you and that makes you uncomfortable? I'm experiencing this right now, somehow i've never been comfortable with opposite sex if i know they like me and i don't , just feels weird and uncomfortable for me, and now out of nowhere so many girls randomly appear in my life, my 3 ex's want to comeback in my life, it feels like a fucking nightmare or a writen story, seriously any Cancers or any other signs had this uncomfortable experience ? Or i'm the only one feeling uncomfortable in this situation?I just feel like i want all of them to go back where they came from, some weeird, weeird shit is going on and i can feel it. 😄

I feel the exact same way...it's actually really hurt me that I hurt others. It is a blessing and curse 😢 But you know, we have almost the exact same placements... So maybe that why.

Posted by SensitiveBlues
What exactly are you trying to do rakac,i love your passion for whatever goal it is you're trying to achieve



idk maybe in my 20s it was like this for me, but i feel right now, maybe im in the wrong city, but i don't get any attention, and maybe i just ignore the attention i get cause i really don't want it, but yes certain individuals have been approaching me out of the blue, some from my past, others recent, and i guess i don't see them as potentials so i ignore it anyways

i don't know, i still don't feel like there's enough men approaching me

but im really bytchy lately, like im not nice to anybody, so even for those that do i feel bad for them

For now im fixing up my health to 100% and then i'm going to become legit amateur boxer, then a pro and then take a world's belt, only 1% of fighters do that, and less than 1% people in the world, if i could do this, it would be great great accomplishment for myself and it has deeper meaning than only myself, if i could take that belt, i would motivate thousands and millions of people that they can do it 2. i have asthma, so people who have health problems and breathing problems would know they can do it 2, i would have more money, huge amount really, that means i could help animals, help other people around the globe and get a nice apartament for my own family i'll have in the future, having thoughts of having wolf sanctuary in the future , so far i'm giving myself 10years, after 10years i'll see where i'm at, i might already be on top 😄 THANK YOU!

Yes.

I normally shut everyone down super fast. Sounds cocky I know but for cancers it's reality that I have to remain aware of my sex appeal & seem as if I'm completely unavailable.

There's no easy to turn it off. Just ways to handle it better

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Posted by CalmCrab22
Yes.

I normally shut everyone down super fast. Sounds cocky I know but for cancers it's reality that I have to remain aware of my sex appeal & seem as if I'm completely unavailable.

There's no easy to turn it off. Just ways to handle it better

What is this cancer appeal?

how do you dress? how do you look? how do you appeal to the other sex.

i feel because im mostly FIXED (leo) im more masculine so i don't have this appeal

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I work in medical field & spend most of my life with no make or fragrance hair pulled up and loose fitting scrubs.

I try to shut it off not turn it on. It's exhausting turning down offers from both sexes actually. Though it's easy to turn people down when you're only seeking genuine love not lust.

It's true the appeal isn't so much there for most Leo's therefore I can see how that would offset the cancer appeal.

I have told other people that isn't not always a blessing bc I spend so much time shewing away the wrong people I have a like ability to find the right ones.

It also spills over into no romantic relationships. Trust me is more like that X men character with the super power that made them have to wear glasses all the time.

Posted by SensitiveBlues
but what is the appeal? is it innate?



fuk i hate my leo placements, cause i saw this appeal in a crab girl, man she was like sex walking, zero to little makeup too, just something SULTRY about her

I thought Leo's were the definition of Sultry? Can't you harness your feline energy then?

Posted by SensitiveBlues
What exactly are you trying to do rakac,i love your passion for whatever goal it is you're trying to achieve



idk maybe in my 20s it was like this for me, but i feel right now, maybe im in the wrong city, but i don't get any attention, and maybe i just ignore the attention i get cause i really don't want it, but yes certain individuals have been approaching me out of the blue, some from my past, others recent, and i guess i don't see them as potentials so i ignore it anyways

i don't know, i still don't feel like there's enough men approaching me

but im really bytchy lately, like im not nice to anybody, so even for those that do i feel bad for them

I felt this way too, then I moved and now I'm back to getting male attention and I'm much happier where I live 🙂

Posted by Goldigold
My boyfriend thinks he does lololololololol, I'm actually close to dropping him.

So why don't you? take action 😉