I'm falling for a cancer girl

is that really such a bad thing?

Why would it be bad thing? Cancer women are amazing. For some reason, there is this unorthodox, bad vibe thing with Aries and Cancer when few see that Aries is more sensitive and emotional than given credit for, and Cancer is more aggressive and resilient than they are given credit for. They really are on equal playing ground, just different elements. I think we all know that these matchups are either the most passionate, intense, and loving pairings ever, or a complete and total disaster.

You want to create steam, but too much fire, and you will evaporate Cancer's waters.

what you said is quite right. she is aggressive and wild, and hey, I have emotions too thank you!

Posted by Crabra
Why would it be bad thing? Cancer women are amazing. For some reason, there is this unorthodox, bad vibe thing with Aries and Cancer when few see that Aries is more sensitive and emotional than given credit for, and Cancer is more aggressive and resilient than they are given credit for. They really are on equal playing ground, just different elements. I think we all know that these matchups are either the most passionate, intense, and loving pairings ever, or a complete and total disaster.

You want to create steam, but too much fire, and you will evaporate Cancer's waters.

Wow, I totally agree!

hehehe thanx for the replys everyone, and arielle83 I think there are people in all the signs who whine about crap and over think things and people. my cancer girl whines a lot and talks about every part of her day, she is really sensitive and takes things personally often(without over reacting). I like listening to her, there's something in the way she says things and explains things that makes me actually see and feel what she is talking about, does anyone else experience this with cancerians?

Damm I am like this..I would whin about my day..because I can't understand why people do stupid shit..respect is so big for me..and just being a responsible adult. What good about aries is you're can be good listener and supportive . I had a aries male friend ..he was my hype man. Although he didn't give a damn about people unless someone cross him . He was so supportive and taught me to let things go. I taught him how to rationalize things that was important and think deeply on issues that need to be resolved.

But I miss my homeboy because he leveled me out. Sometimes he would say afew words and I am like dammmm you are right. He help me get out my head ..sometime I help him with my own wisdom to think deeply.

Posted by Crabra
Why would it be bad thing? Cancer women are amazing. For some reason, there is this unorthodox, bad vibe thing with Aries and Cancer when few see that Aries is more sensitive and emotional than given credit for, and Cancer is more aggressive and resilient than they are given credit for. They really are on equal playing ground, just different elements. I think we all know that these matchups are either the most passionate, intense, and loving pairings ever, or a complete and total disaster.

You want to create steam, but too much fire, and you will evaporate Cancer's waters.

Yes, all true. The most loving and sensual relationship was with an Aries male.
They also look out for Crabs as long as they are not too pushy and verbally coarse the Crab will not scuttle away.

I know a cancer aries couple. Both guys. i would say the cancer is more sensitive. But not more emotional. They seem to understand each other really well and have a lot of patience for each other.

I don't know any others though. It's not a usual pairing.

Posted by Crabra
Why would it be bad thing? Cancer women are amazing. For some reason, there is this unorthodox, bad vibe thing with Aries and Cancer when few see that Aries is more sensitive and emotional than given credit for, and Cancer is more aggressive and resilient than they are given credit for. They really are on equal playing ground, just different elements. I think we all know that these matchups are either the most passionate, intense, and loving pairings ever, or a complete and total disaster.

You want to create steam, but too much fire, and you will evaporate Cancer's waters.

Super post

thank you everyone. wish I could reply to all. things are going great with my cancer girl, got all those who want to know

Awwww, so perfect, best of luck

Posted by MooninLeoo
No, it is not.

why not?

It is a great match! : D

best wishes.

If the feelings are mutual it's a great match, especially if Cancer has fire in their chart.
Not sure about long-term.

Try it and find out?

ok thanx guys. this is kinda personal (tell me if tmi), new problem. she's become very very VERY ummm sexual. kinda wanting it all the time. gets turned on very easily and I'm kinda nervous

Typical cancer woman 😉

Waiting on the problem. œ‚

My two past loves were Aries.

I'm nervous. I don't want to rush things, she's such a tease. I love being around her and holding her etc. she turns me on but I get nervous and bail. last time I just said I want coffee and walked out. she doesn't say anything but looks disappointed. what do I do?

Lmfao, you sound mega awkward. Just tell her you want to take it easy/slow.

Post your synastry chart if you can.

Posted by AriesIntrovert16
Lmfao, you sound mega awkward. Just tell her you want to take it easy/slow.

Post your synastry chart if you can.

synastry?

Posted by hellfire

Posted by AriesIntrovert16
Lmfao, you sound mega awkward. Just tell her you want to take it easy/slow.

Post your synastry chart if you can.

synastry?

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Yeah, go to astro.com and plug in both of your birthdates to make a synastry chart (relationship astrology) and use tinypic to upload it.

I got both of our birth charts, do you want that info? @AriesIntrovert16

Posted by hellfire
I got both of our birth charts, do you want that info? @AriesIntrovert16

Yes, post them, please.

Posted by AriesIntrovert16

Posted by hellfire
I got both of our birth charts, do you want that info? @AriesIntrovert16

Yes, post them, please.

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ok mine is

sun, 00 Aries
moon, 12 Taurus
mercury, 06 Pisces
Venus, 16 Taurus
Mars, 18 Capricorn
Jupiter, 02 Taurus
Saturn, 02 Capricorn
Uranus, 00 Capricorn
Neptune, 10 Capricorn
Pluto , 12 Scorpio

hers is

sun, 27 Cancer
moon, 24 Gemini
mercury, 24 Leo
Venus, 09 Cancer
mars, 01 Cancer
Jupiter, 28 Pisces
Saturn, 03 Taurus
Uranus, 11 Capricorn
Neptune, 00 Capricorn
Pluto, 05 Sagittarius

hope that helps

Are you sure her Uranus/Neptune are in Capricorn?

Her sun squares your Mars and that often indicates sexual attraction. Your Pluto trines her Venus and that could add a light, yet, passionate feeling to the relationship.

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Don't be a pansy my fellow Sag riser. 😉

Say what you want, I'm empathetic to the "foot in mouth" syndrome.

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Don't be a pansy my fellow Sag riser. 😉

Say what you want, I'm empathetic to the "foot in mouth" syndrome.

It's funny. When I look back on my life, the more my new rising makes sense.

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Glad you're starting to come to terms with your new rising. I used to think that I was born at 3am (Aqua rising) and the description of it, as well as the rest of my birth chart, really fit me, and then I found my birth certificate and I turns out that I am in fact a Sag rising. I can't say that the new description really fits me to a T. I'm not jovial, tall, or curvy, it's really weird - makes me kind of doubt astrology a bit. However, my house placements like Sun/Mercury/Mars in my 4th and Saturn in the 3rd are pretty accurate.

Posted by AriesIntrovert16
Are you sure her Uranus/Neptune are in Capricorn?

Her sun squares your Mars and that often indicates sexual attraction. Your Pluto trines her Venus and that could add a light, yet, passionate feeling to the relationship.

yes I'm sure of her Uranus and Neptune position.

rest sounds awesome

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Don't be a pansy my fellow Sag riser. 😉

Lol

I thought he had a 12th house moon

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her rising sign is Aries 1st decant
mine is Leo 01