bi cancer woman

I BELIVE I FOUND MY SOUL MATE, BUT SHE IS MARRIED, AND SO AM I. WE REALLY LOVE EACH OTHER VERY MUCH, BUT THE TIMINING IS REALLY OFF FOR US I WOULD LEAVE MY HUSBAND OF TWENTY YEARS IF SHE ASK ME TO TOMORROW. BUT I DONT SEE THAT HAPPENING. IN THIS LIFE TIME CAN ANYONE HELP ME FIGURE THIS OUT. SAD AND HAPPY AT THE SAME TIME

What do you mean you're bi? Who are you trying to kid? Yourself, your husband or the so called bi woman you say you love? Does your husband of twenty years know that you're bi? And if he does'nt why after all this time have you not told him. If you would leave him in a heartbeat, why are you still with him? Is it money, property, kids? what keeps you tied to someone that you could leave in a heartbeat. I feel very sorry for both victims of your so called love. But I don't feel sorry for you and all the other fence-sitters that call themselves bi. Get of the fence are'nt you grown enough to know who you really are. And don't even think of blaming society's veiw of homosexuality for your hateful disregard of another persons heart (your husband). If you have been with him all this time and had feeling of lust for women I feel very sorry for him.