Boys vs. Girls...

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Crustacean
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Posted by pisceanpisces
Apart from general things:

Males are more prejudiced, determined (even if it does not seem), manipulative (much-much more), vulnerable and proud than Cancer females. Somehow they can 'smell the rat'. (even if there isn't...)

Women cannot focus on things when they are low.

Common things: they like talking about themselves (if you do not ask direct questions), they are open (if you do not tell them, 'please open up'), they really appreciate if you offer them something freely, and want to reciprocate. They both like and remember if you care about them.
Oh, and they like other water signs.

What I still do not know about:
1. are you aware when you are manipulative? Aren't you afraid of using it? What if someone confronts you with it?
2. When in remorse, can you focus on things at all?
3. How 'the hell' could you take in so much pain?
4. Is it a hobby to bring along your 'heartache sack'?
5. Don't you feel you overdo things?



Pisceanpisces comes through again, I respect the way that you see things.

In response for my experience in a Male Cancer body:

1. The manipulation in my life came so naturally, it took someone pointing it out to realize that's what I was doing. That not everyone tried to place two or three layers of misdirection just to get their way etc. I now use it with more caution and respect.

2. No.

3. You can get addicted to a certain kind of sadness. The extremes are intense, and in a strange way make me feel SO ALIVE.

4. No, I try not to mope. I am quite sociable, and like to be positive when in public. When I am alone, I open up my "sack"

5. Let me put it this way, I wish that many things were easier, and came more naturally to me... overdoing things may be the way that it is received, but it is rarely the intended result. I think sometimes so much introspection etc, leads to being out of touch with better communicators.