Can someone explain cancer guys!

Clue me on cancer men please. Are they really this moody and opinionated ? Are they loyal or do they play games ?

I went out with a cancer male, yes they are extremely moody (this one anyway) and very opiniated. I'm not sure if they play games or what, but I do know that they can be loyal if you can handle their moods.

They are about as explainable as the Moon! Which from here can look quite mystical! It also defies gravity!
They are loyal. For some reason they can be afraid of intimate friendship, which to me is a requirement for the heights I desire a relationship to achieve. I think in my case, my Cancer man had a poor father figure and it was something he was unable to rise above...
They are not good at sharing sadness...it comes out in their moodiness...
If you have his heart, he will be loyal...
Wish you the Best,
Star

I am a Cancer female who can't for some reason seem to get enough of the Cancer male. In fact my last 8 boyfriends were Cancers (maybe it's because Cancers are the best kissers of the zodiac). Let me let you in on a little secret. Cancer men "CANNOT" be alone. If you can get into the shell they hide behind and put to rest all their insecurities they can most definately be the most loving and loyal partner of the zodiac. The trick is getting their though. As I said before they cannot be alone, which means if they feel they are losing you or in some way breaking away from you they will cheat and not think twice about it. That person will become their plan B. You know someone to take your place in case it doesn't work out so that they do not have to be alone. Alot of their moodiness stems from their insecurity, but once they are sure you arenn't going to hurt them and that you are going to be there they will come out of their shell and show you a love like you have never known.

You know...it was his kiss that got me! It was something...let me tell you!

Gosh, I had no idea it was a Cancer trait...and to think I have only been kissed by the one....

(thought to self: I have been missing out!)

Take care,
Star

This is my Cancer male view for what it is worth: We do like to kiss :-) to me kissing is a expression of the depth of my feeling and emotions, a desire of total oneness, and non-verbal communication from the heart, and a connection of two spirits united. I believe (real) kissing may be the best intimacy two people can share, as one person said in a article I read recently on "kissing", that's why prostitutes never kiss their clients, it's way to intimate. Kissing is about the heart, not the body. We don't like being alone, but I don't think that cheating is in the "normal" Cancer male response to rejection or loneliness. We get hurt for sure, be we also extremely care about the feelings of others too. We tend to be super loyal, and hold strongly to our core values. If someone has a set of "Poor" values, it doesn't mater what sign or what sex they are. We do get a bit insecure at times, but I think we Cancers are all very different, depending on how evolved we are when dealing with our vulnerabilities and emotions. Cheating is just not in the picture for me, all the guilt and baggage, is just way to much to deal with emotionally. I also think many of us Cancers need to have good relationship and friendship with someone before we even enter into ?intimate? relationships. Don't give up on us, we'll let you into our shells if you promise not to hurt us J actually it's kind of a paradox for most of us, we're afraid to let you in, but deep down inside we also want you inside us...

Wow! That was really beautiful and very insightful!
Thank you.
I wish all good to come your way!
Star

Thank you Star, I really wish that for all of us out there, that are searching for that completeness within in a relationship. Where although we may be different we have the desire to be together. Where both people want to be vulnerable and work to be open to except each others diversity without the feelings of being threatened because of their differences.

Hi!

I didn't realize you had written back to me until now....so many posts since!

I agree...we need to get past the vulnerability issue in order to really get to know a person...
That is more easily said than done, though...don't you think?

Take Care.
Star

Cancer guys are a big trip. They will cook you dinner and love you long time but they have other intentions that are else where. They will run away from any unwanted anything even if they were half of the making of the issue. They have a temper that they try to hide, but can come accross very professional. LOOK OUT!

HEY TASHA I JUST MEET A CANCER HE IS VERY SWEET I CAUGHT HIS TEMPER ONCE AND HE DOES THIS PROFESSIONAL THING HE IS JUST SO DAMN MOODY ONE DAY HE'S COOL THE NEXT HE'S .............TELL ME SOMETHING GOOD GIRL OR ANYBODY

I am a cancer guy - I am moddy, touchy, cautiuos and know that sometimes it is easy for me to be taken for granted.
Cancers are feelers and run on emotion. We don't like confrontation and will hold things in order not to show a "temper". We will cut off anything or anyone that has the potential to hurt us, and we can do this in the blink of an eye.
We are great mates, loyal, loving, trustworthy, sensitive - and all we want is the same in a mate. No games, BS, or anything else.