Nysa you are a Sag, right?? Anyway by your recently opened threads I guess , it is obvious you are not happy with the way things are with this guy...you have a LDR right? He shouldnt make fun of your feelings or treat you badly. It is strange to have crabs make fun of feelings, they normally takethem seriously. Unless he is very immature and unevolved. also, he shouldnt hurt somebody he loves. That is not right..I know my advice will not help, I would make a terrible effort to move on from this...I know you want to know if there is hope, I don't know, I can't tell you to continue tolerating that behaviour because it is not fair for you and you deserve better than this..he is indeed a jerk and is showing total immaturity. I hope you feel better..Im sure you will!
es piscesArgie..previously when he used to tell his feelings i used to show that i m unaffected..now he has turned table...previously also he use to say things which hurt me and he being ignorant that what he said has hurt me...then i used to give him silent treatment..and when everything we used to fight was the one who always broke the ice and had complaint that`i know u wud never come its me only who has to come whether i m wrong or u`....but at that time too he never use to initiate things he is quite passive i used to decide everything where to go how to go.his job was to accompany me.i never wait for him if i have decided to go somewhere for this he even used to complain that if `u have to go u will go doesnt matter that i am coming or not and manymore things`..but i just used to sooth his nerve at that time...now he is far away and i miss him..he loves me i know for sure as everyone round us used to say that he loves me very much and he has proposed me saying `will u marry me` from the very begining..we were frnds and had fought for 1 year..but as soon as we ame back after 6 months he proposed me saying`marry me`..but yes he is little immature he always plays mind games with me like he previously always tried to make me jealous etc.but he is committed to me..he always says so sumtime directly sometime indirectly.he always pretend that he is very practical and very smart.but through many a things i have seen he is emotional person but God knows better why he thinks he should never show his emotional side..may be because previously i never used to show my emotional side to him.....but after everything bottom line is i love him with my life
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